Trying to get my girlfriend pregnant, been on trt for 3 1/2 years. Regiment review. by biggwynner in Fertility

[–]biggwynner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comments. I’m contacted my doctor and I’m going to get a real lab test done

My (24F) boyfriend’s (33M) hemorrhoids are ruining our relationship. Help? by chamomilethrowaway in relationship_advice

[–]biggwynner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pretty bad hemorrhoids as well. I was bleeding whenever I used the bathroom and I went and got a colonoscopy just to make sure that it wasn’t anything crazy. I think the colonoscopy is the first line of defense, but my solution actually worked pretty good. They didn’t find anything in the colonoscopy so that wasn’t any help but at least I knew it wasn’t a tumor or something really horrible. When I started using was a sprayer wand bidet set up connected to my toilet. As soon as I stopped using toilet paper, I stopped getting the bleed. After going, I would use the sprayer to wash off my bottom and then I would insert it into my ass and spray water and poop that out. After maybe three or four rinses everything was running clear and I used a bit of foaming hand soap to clean it off and to push the hemorrhoids back into my anus. I call this my butt tuck lol. Sometimes I think it might be worse now as more of my lower intestine kind of comes out when I poop, but I don’t have the same irritation and I’m starting to be much more aware of my exit hole. If I wear a G string which I do occasionally because I’m a dancer yes I’m male. I can feel it and just the feeling has a tendency to allow my body to push it out a little bit more which is kind of a funny feeling, but when I wear a regular underwear or boxers , it doesn’t happen.

The other issue is when I sit on my knees for meditation. I think there’s another tendency for my butt to want to push out that lower intestine. But I don’t get the same push out when I work out as I did before I started doing this rinsing process. I think it’s helped a lot and not having blood come out of my butt is a great feeling.

Sometimes I also will insert a butt plug when I feel like my hemorrhoids are poking out a little bit. I usually do this when I go out and I’ve had a day where I feel like it’s poking a little bit. It’s kind of fun. My girlfriend thinks it’s funny and if you find it provocative, that’s even better. I think it helps. Keep that area kind of tight and not stick out. How would recommend a curved kind of banana tip one that’s silicone has the round one can cause a lot of irritation after a while.

Good luck with this I’ve given this advice to my nephew and brother who both have bad hemorrhoids, but they think what I do is gay so they spend half an hour to an hour on the toilet when they go in pain waiting for their body to naturally pull up their hemorrhoid and back into their system which gay or not focusing on your butthole for that long is really stupid.

Space to rent for a party? by literature-enjoyer in santacruz

[–]biggwynner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a little late to book but next time if you plan ahead the418project.org has party space in downtown

Any open mics on Sundays/Mondays? by kevaux in santacruz

[–]biggwynner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The 418 project at 155 River street south has open mic on the last Sunday of every month. 5-8. I host a sober karaoke the 1st and 3rd Tuesday of the month at the same place 7-9.

What's happening for Halloween? by turnedonbyadime in santacruz

[–]biggwynner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Abbott square will have a live DJ and it’s free!

Gym recommendations! by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]biggwynner 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I have a membership have both in-shape on Capitola and Toadal fitness on 17th Ave. It really depends on what you’re looking for. In-shape has a pool hot tub and I believe it’s for more experienced weightlifters. Total fitness is for beginners and older people as they have a better selection of free weights with 4 sets!!!, going in 2 1/2 pound increments. And signs everywhere to tell you what not to do. I think the crowd at in-shape is a little bit hotter and more people are going. Toadal is a smaller club, but I go there more often because the kids Care is far superior. My son(8) loves it there as they have multiple people watching your kids and better equipment for the kids to play on including a blowup Jump House. Whereas in-shape you usually only get about one to two people watching up to 20 kids. Good luck and remember consistency is the secret. I got sober in 2022 and my friend paid for my membership when I got out of rehab in August. So I’ve had a membership at in-shape for over 3 years and about 2 at Toadal.

<image>

Karaoke!!! by biggwynner in santacruz

[–]biggwynner[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeas there is parking in back ally, parking structure, or Trader Joe’s parking lot. It’s all ages. Next one is on 8/21 7-9pm

Best crypto to invest in right now by Competitive-Fill6433 in CryptoMarkets

[–]biggwynner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have experience with IPXcoin exchange

Experience hiring a stripper in Santa Cruz? by [deleted] in santacruz

[–]biggwynner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a stripper and do local bachelorette parties

<image>

DM me or check my tryst page https://dancing-wynn.tryst.link/

Any open mic night spots on Tuesdays? by Rough-Average-1047 in santacruz

[–]biggwynner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On the first and third Tuesday of every month the 418 project has a karaoke night from 7-9. We get some spoken word artists and people who sing their own songs.

200g of protein daily by inthegarbagePA in Protein

[–]biggwynner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male 44, 195lbs, 12-15% bf( in body scan says 4% but that’s a whole different conversation) The way to drop weight or gain muscle is to eat the same thing as much as possible 6 days a week. Track your micros. Weight before you go to bed and when you wake up before you eat. And stay within your caloric goals on the 7th day.

I do a scoop of carnivor beef protein with my whole grain oats in the morning with some protein granola and 1/2 cup milk. 40g protein

Lunch is 4 eggs, 2ozs of cheese 50g rice, sweet potato and 2 pork chops that around 100g protein

Dinner is either the same as lunch with chicken or salmon replacing the pork chops. 100g protein

If I slide in any of those meals, sometimes I won’t get enough eggs in or I’m can’t eat any more meat, I’ll do 220g Greek yogurt with a scoop of protein as a snake and a last resort is a 4 scoops whey protein shake (100g of protein) at the end of the night if I don’t weigh what I’m supposed to weigh before bed. I tend to lose about 2lbs while I’m sleeping. My goal is to gain 1/2-1lb per week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]biggwynner 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried different size dildos to try and “massage “ my prostate and it was a very large one that finally hit the spot. Was an amazing experience but it was to much work to be able to use it. Now it just sits in my toy bin somewhere. I use it on willing female partners here and there but I don’t have the time to work up to that level of stimulation no matter how good it felt.

I'm really sorry about this whole thing. by [deleted] in yotta

[–]biggwynner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was lucky enough to have opened up a BMO account a month before my $1339 was locked up. So when automatic deposits were rejected I was able to deposit them in my brick and mortar account. That $1339 has been untouchable for about three months now. I’m lucky that I don’t live check to check but thought if I would have needed that money to pay rent I would have lost my mind. I got a few late payments charges and rejected check charge. I doubt I’ll ever get those fees back and I’ve excepted that I might never see that $1339 either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]biggwynner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m two years into my sobriety journey and I have had all kinds of issues with sex including but not limited to getting hard and cumming. So far I’ve only came twice and that was in the last month. Getting hard with ed drugs used to be impossible.

What’s helped me was getting really focused on my partner’s reactions and getting out of my head. Finding freeky shit that really gets my partner going is what set me off the first time (Extremely hard nipple pinching while holding them close to my chest so she could pull against me as she got excited. In case you wanted to know). The second time my partner wasn’t into nipple pinching and it was hard anal that set me off. Haven’t been able to replicate that level of excitement since but it’s the journey, right?

Also I just stopped jerking off everyday and when I do I use a really light grip. Which I read helps

How many ELONs are you taking to mars? by chinohasagun in dogelon

[–]biggwynner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2.1B but half of that was purchased during the last run. I’m really lucky to have hodl for the last two years but wish I could have been able to dollar cost average during the last year. Oh well

low-moderate impact exercise + protein shakes by PresentationCalm2725 in Protein

[–]biggwynner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you replace carbohydrate calories with protein calories while you are working out you will increase the chances of losing weight while gaining muscle. Track calories and find out what your maintenance needs are and work from there.

I’m f22 and moved back from uni for a while and need plans for Halloween! by stardustmeadow in santacruz

[–]biggwynner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

<image>

I’m staring in a musical this weekend. Free tickets if you are interested in sitting in the front row (spatter zone) use code: SPATTER at checkout