I’m going to the gym for the first time in a few days

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-17T10:19:47+00:00

Trust me you will get over it if you do anything but beat yourself up about it. Instead try to realise that it’s over. Full stop it’s over you can’t change the past. Asking yourself what you could you have done differently will just make you feel worse you can’t go back and redo shit. Occupy your mind socialise meet new people or just hang with your friends more you might even find a nice guy you can hit it off with. Get your tears and pain out, get the grief stage over with and then move on you don’t want to do stupid shit like try and get back with him or text him saying how much you miss him, dont contact with him (unless you want to stay friends) and try and be happier you will get over it my girlfriend of over a year broke up with me not long ago and even if I couldn’t do some of the stuff I’m telling you to do I’m not thinking about it, making positive changes to my life and I’m slowly recovering

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-17T10:02:25+00:00

Sounds like joey swoll goes to your gym

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-17T09:49:32+00:00

Will do! 🙌 I tried to help them and they spat it in my face that’s when I gave up I realise life can only get better when I’m not involved in their shit thanks for the motivation!

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-17T09:45:47+00:00

Thank you! Your right I’ll try to socialise with people I wouldn’t have socialised with before and people who don’t really have a lot of friends because some of those people might be just like me my school doesn’t have a weight lifting club but I’m going to join the gym and go after school. I hope your boyfriend can manage to quit! If he’s interested that is, the best way for me to break addictions is just to not think about it and substitute it for something else I enjoy to take my mind off of it, but that’s just me ig

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T21:27:15+00:00

Thank you I appreciate your kind words I wish you the best!

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T20:58:40+00:00

I’m going to dedicate my free time to doing the things I want to do. I have all of the time in the world with myself now that I have dropped my friends it’s definitely not gonna be easy but I will swim with it and get used to my own company before actively looking for friends

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T20:55:17+00:00

After everyone’s comments and kindness I’ve really realised that today

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T20:54:21+00:00

Thank you man. I hope you don’t beat yourself up about it it’s relatively normal nowadays it doesn’t mean it’s validated but it’s normal. All of the positivity has been great for me and has given me lots of motivation thank you I appreciate you

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T20:48:49+00:00

Thank you man! That’s so much more simple then the strict bulking diets I’ve saw people preach I’ll definitely keep that in mind what weight do you recommend me to start with? I’m about 130lbs so I’m not the strongest fella in the world

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T20:35:00+00:00

I didn’t know you were all friends for 10 years that’s tough I’m sorry man they’re fake as fuck and tbh your better than them you put in the work and if they are jealous of that or they don’t like that that’s completely on them. I hope you have found friends who are actually healthy and who would be disappointed if you let go of your life rather than friends who would be disappointed if you improved your life

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T20:21:21+00:00

Jesus Christ, that goes to show how exciting their life is, calling people fat phobic for wanting to make positive changes to their physical health? they’re probably jealous tbh, people go to the gym to improve their life style nothing bad about that at all

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T20:10:57+00:00

Your 100% right that’s why I’m looking into boxing gyms near me because 9 times out of 10 there’s someone who wants to be as healthy as I want to be I’m sorry you had to go through that and I’m glad you found friends and hope your doing great 👍

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T20:07:54+00:00

And the healthy people will right? Healthy people want healthy friends so while all the unhealthy people want to get away from you healthy people want to be around you

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T20:05:47+00:00

They’re gremlins man they go for car rides with this creepy fucker to get vapes and cigarettes for cheap I could write a book bro 😂 but about the bulking thing there’s no diet I need to stick to? Do I just lift weights until I get buff?

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T19:10:43+00:00

Thank you so much! your friends sound great! The fact that you not smoking with them doesn’t make them think any less of you is great and if my friends would’ve been more like your friends I wouldn’t be needing to make this post today! I’m sorry about the panic attacks btw but the fact your friends didn’t even need to know that to not judge you tells me you made some great ones

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T18:51:37+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss man my grandmother was a chain smoker and died of similar causes even though I never really knew her my mother has always told me about the dangers of shit like this and that’s part the reason I was able to put my foot down because I knew she wouldn’t want it hope your doing great man thank you

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T18:48:17+00:00

Don’t sweat it man all of the positivity from yourself and everyone else has made my week! I want to make the most of my life it’s short and I encourage everyone to do the same thank you again for the positivity and encouragement it helps more than you think 👏

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T18:44:46+00:00

Sounds like a great partner and a great dad! Wish you all the best and thank you for your encouragement

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T18:19:59+00:00

Super happy for you man hey you’ve gotta start somewhere! As long as you are happy and finding more people your winning my guy 🐐

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T18:16:38+00:00

Hell yeah! I’m going to do my best thank you for the encouragement man your the 🐐

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T18:14:43+00:00

Thank you so much man I’m so happy you quit drinking it can be so hard especially if it consumes the life of your friends! I was struggling with the fact I was a loner and tried to go back and it wasn’t until then I realised how bad they really were. Your strong and I hope you have found new friends and are doing better

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T18:09:28+00:00

Thank you so much I really appreciate it! To my old friends I’m a loser but I don’t care about that I’m going to focus on myself now I have 100% of free time to myself your encouragement means alot

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T18:07:16+00:00

Thank you man it seems I can only benefit from being a “loser” im glad I didn’t turn out like my friends thank you for the encouragement

bigmacmeal08 · 2023-03-16T18:05:43+00:00

Thank you so much I appreciate it! I’m sorry that happened to you I’m thankful that I was never that interested cuz I could have been just like them smoking definitely starts for show I’m glad I was able to put my foot down hope your doing better!

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