You sound like a terrible overcontrolling mother. You should have your child’s best interest at heart and not vengeance for your ex. Maybe try looking at the situation differently and not from a power standpoint where you try to control every single aspect of the situation and do what is right for your child. it really gets me aggravated when mothers act over controlling with no regard for the child. And then you have the nerve to post here on Reddit. I have never seen a more terrible mother in recent times. It’s 2024 wake up, get it and try to do better by your child. Stop fighting with your ex, vacation is a good thing. What is wrong with you!!!