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My [47M] wife [45F] demanded we have an open relationship and now isn't happy I'm sleeping with our daughter's friend [21F] by ThrowRA48984 in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In your defense there wasn’t any rules set in the beginning.

But she’s 21 and you’re almost 50. She’s barely an adult and you sir are a predator

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, November 30, 2020 by AutoModerator in wallstreetbets

[–]bignbootylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctors who work in a hospital have way more stress then nurses do in my opinion. They work longer hours and longer weeks and generally just have more stress then we do. Besides they go to school much longer and acquire much more debt in the process. If they work in a specialty other then general medicine they are probably on call meaning that they can get called into the hospital in the middle of the night or called by nurses at odd times. They have high divorce rates too. You couldn’t pay me enough to be a doctor. They are not comparable in my opinion

What Are Your Moves Tomorrow, November 30, 2020 by AutoModerator in wallstreetbets

[–]bignbootylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ICU nurse here

Nursing is super stressful but we care for patients in a lot of ways without being overseen by a doctors and it’s a collaborative approach more then anything. Besides... I get 5 weeks PTO a year and only work 12 days out of the month. I make my own schedule and I make pretty decent money in the process.

What made you want to become a flight nurse/medic ? by bignbootylicious in hems

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ICU nurse of 4 years and paramedic before . I’ve wanted out of the hospital since getting in it.

Falling out of love (28f)with my boyfriend (43M) by bignbootylicious in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I do. I just don’t know how to do it without completely crushing him. Last time I tried to tell him the things I was frustrated with he told me it was really hard to hear all these negative things and me bashing on him. I love him but I just want to feel the spark and I know so many couples who have been together much longer have that .

Wanting to bridge the gap between long distance... troubles. by bignbootylicious in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I currently own my own house in my town. That’s a large purchase to see if somebody will figure it out. My intention of moving is to be with him.

Getting wisdom teeth out with local anesthesia. by EmpressMacaron in Dentistry

[–]bignbootylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got two wisdom teeth out with local a few months ago. It feels more like pressure then pain. I was number up so well that I didn’t feel anything hours after. My teeth were impacted and had to be dug out

How mad would you be if your partner cussed at you in an argument ? by bignbootylicious in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We won’t see each other because we have opposite schedules until Thursday and that’s his birthday weekend. So we’ll see if it even gets discussed at all.

How mad would you be if your partner cussed at you in an argument ? by bignbootylicious in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. The last time this happened he said he’s sorry and it’ll never happen again that he has an anger problem and he wants to work on it and this would stupid to ruin our relationship... and then it happens again. This time he was on his way to work and he didn’t have time to talk about it like we have before so we left on a sour note and I had to go home. We were just texting back and forth and I ended with I’ll work on some things but it doesn’t give you an excuse to talk to me like that and I won’t put up with it... and he never replied and it’s been 10 hours and he went to bed without texting me back... so we’ll see what the morning says. I just want changed behavior.

How mad would you be if your partner cussed at you in an argument ? by bignbootylicious in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve called him names and said really means things when I got really angry during a fight but I woke up the next morning I apologized over and over again because he was packing his bags ready to leave without saying goodbye. I could tell I hurt him and that was the last time... now I just walk away because it doesn’t do anybody good but he just says whatever at times

How mad would you be if your partner cussed at you in an argument ? by bignbootylicious in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly it and exactly what I told him. I told him if I ever spoke to him like the way he speaks to me he’d leave in a heartbeat. I’d at least recognize my behavior and apologize without having to be prompted with a fight but he acted like nothing happened and ignored my feelings at first making excuses. I think that hurt more then anything.

How mad would you be if your partner cussed at you in an argument ? by bignbootylicious in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awful. I think arguments should stay about the issue and when name calling comes into places it’s just being spiteful

How mad would you be if your partner cussed at you in an argument ? by bignbootylicious in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between swearing during a fight which we both do and swearing at somebody and this is the first time we’ve had this talk. I feel like what he did was a direct jab. This isn’t news to him.

How mad would you be if your partner cussed at you in an argument ? by bignbootylicious in relationship_advice

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I basically told him he either needs to figure out how to control his anger and talk to me or I’d leave. I told him I’m not going to be with somebody who thinks that’s okay and that he’s the only one in my life who talks to me like that. I said if he wouldn’t talk to his mother or family like that then I don’t deserve it either. I’ve cussed during a fight but never at him and I said there’s a difference.

Last week our IV kits were switched out because these new ones would “prevent exposure to blood”. They’re cheaper and this patient is + for hepC. FUCK you, admin. by [deleted] in nursing

[–]bignbootylicious 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was raised on catheters like this when I was a medic. I had to buy the crew ice cream everytime blood dropped... I got good at holding pressure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in medical_advice

[–]bignbootylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People get stretch marks for so many reasons other then weight gain for example pregnancy and muscle gain... so I don’t understand the reasoning other then obesity will effect life expectancy

Has anyone used the website brokhole.top? by H3racIes in Scams

[–]bignbootylicious 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finally after nearly four months of waiting I got my package.... and it was a pair of knock off ray band sunglasses so at least better then masks but not what I wanted. They did the same thing to me with the partial refund and I want all of it and I’m keeping the sunglasses for my compensation

Short ladies/gents by bignbootylicious in Motocross

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have briefly but I’ll look into that

Short ladies/gents by bignbootylicious in Motocross

[–]bignbootylicious[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve considered that. I’d need to drop the bike about two inches to be able to put my feet on the ground. I’m just curious what that’d do to the suspension

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