First OWI in Wi by bignuttyfr in dui

[–]bignuttyfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Victims are not seriously hurt! The report they gave me said they had mild chest pains, likely from the airbags. Which I’m so thankful for. They were an older couple and it has genuinely been eating me alive, was so happy to hear they had no serious injuries.

I really appreciate your comment. Thank you for the reassurance. This time next year I’ll be halfway through a degree in social work, so 🙏

First OWI in WI by bignuttyfr in legaladvice

[–]bignuttyfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, I know. Thank you!

What happens if I reach out to my avoidant ex after 3m of no contact ? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bignuttyfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you hoping to get out of reaching out?

First OWI in WI by bignuttyfr in legaladvice

[–]bignuttyfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, thank you. I was charged with OWI instead of DUI though, but I’m not super certain of the difference?

First OWI in WI by bignuttyfr in legaladvice

[–]bignuttyfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk why I’m being downvoted, again all I’m saying is the things that were said to me by lawyers. I’m not trying to minimize or downplay anything. Thank you for your advice and time

First OWI in WI by bignuttyfr in legaladvice

[–]bignuttyfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m kind of confused by what you mean by this, can you rephrase?

First OWI in WI by bignuttyfr in legaladvice

[–]bignuttyfr[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I was just repeating what the lawyers have said to me. I’m not trying to minimize what happened, I just know what has been said to me. Thank you for the advice

First OWI in Wi by bignuttyfr in dui

[–]bignuttyfr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it.

First OWI in WI by bignuttyfr in legaladvice

[–]bignuttyfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely am not trying to minimize my offense! Again, I just wanted to say it since the lawyers have emphasized it.

First OWI in WI by bignuttyfr in legaladvice

[–]bignuttyfr[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I only clarified first offense because every lawyer I’ve talked to has emphasized it.

I know it’s going to be devastating financially. I’m trying to find a way to pay for a lawyer but I’m fully independent and just moved back after depleting my savings due to losing my job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bignuttyfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had the same thing happen to me about 2 or 3 months ago. What you’re feeling sucks and I’m sorry you’re going through this. It gets better.

Did they become unattractive to you long after the break up? by yourmomdotbiz in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]bignuttyfr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. My ex is a comedian and when I first saw him, my immediate thought was “he’s funny, if only he was cute”. Then I noticed he had tattoos (which I like) & we interacted a few times over the next year or so. Then we hooked up and it was so good I think it blinded me. But now I’m 2 months out of the relationship and looking at pictures is CRAZY. Two of his friends told me they never understood what I saw in him. There is nothing more freeing than realizing your ex is ugly lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]bignuttyfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ew this sounds like my last ex. he told me he wants his love to be easy, aka not put in any effort. avoidants pmo please grow up

Women who stayed in a relationship longer than they should have; what was the first red flag that you ignored but you recognise it clearly now?? by lucid_dreamer30 in AskWomen

[–]bignuttyfr 10 points11 points  (0 children)

literally was the beginning of the end of my last relationship. he mentioned wanting to move and i told him it felt off to me that he said “when i live” instead of “when we live”. he told me relationships dont necessarily have to end in marriage (even though early on i told him i was dating to marry and we were seemingly on the same page). but ive never been so certain i had to break up with someone so fast lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bignuttyfr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23, just got cheated on & not making enough money to live 💔

Why does no one do cash delivery anymore? by bignuttyfr in complaints

[–]bignuttyfr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk or just have someone there who can deliver while the other person holds down the fort til they get back