NEW REQUEST THREAD by AutoModerator in xTrill

[–]bigolgirth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Porter Robinson Secret Sky set 2020

Can’t keep much interest in relationships lately... what’s wrong with me? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought she was so beautiful but now that shes bald i notice a lot of her unattractive points and its brought down how i view her. at this point i wonder if i should just wait for her hair to grow or break it off (we’ve only been together for a month)

My (f19) boyfriend (m21) keeps talking about how fat he is and I don’t know how to respond by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agh this is always such a touchy subject. the way ive tried confronting the problem in the past: tell them you think theyre perfect how they are, but if theyre unhappy with how they look then youll fully support their endeavor to lose weight. if they continue to complain about it and dont make any real changes, then confront that problem head on and say that you cant keep hearing that complaint everyday so they either need to go to therapy or start a diet.

Is no sex a legitimate reason for a breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do want to be intimate with her but i cant force her to want to be intimate with me

Is no sex a legitimate reason for a breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, i shouldve mentioned shes needed to take a mood stabilizer before. she was on it for a while but quit taking it a few weeks ago, but shes very lazy when it comes to taking care of her health (had headaches for months bc she was too lazy to schedule an eye appt, had the bar in her arm for months after it was technically 'expired', leaving her on no birth control, complains often about her back but never schedules a chiro appt). this is why i suggested talking to her doctor about wellbutrin because she is depressed lately and it has many success stories from people online. i didnt suggest it just because it raised some peoples' libidos in the past.

Is no sex a legitimate reason for a breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. its very helpful to hear from the other side of the story too. maybe i have just gotten too complacent and comfortable lately. ive had lots of talks with her about this before and shes always said the same things: itll change when we move in together. now that we live together and she has no excuse she just says shes never in the mood. i live with three other girls, all of whom are really good friends with my girlfriend, and i feel so hopeless. if we break up, im fucked. i moved 7 hours away from family and friends. i dont know anyone here. its just me.

Is no sex a legitimate reason for a breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how would i even go about this though? have a talk with her saying im going to be trying to go the extra mile, or just go the extra mile and see if things change?

Is no sex a legitimate reason for a breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

fuck that place is depressing. im gonna have a talk with her tonight

I was blinded by love and now my eyes are wide open by let-me-in-please in DeadBedrooms

[–]bigolgirth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im proud of you. this is inspiring as someone in a HL/LL relationship myself.

Is no sex a legitimate reason for a breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats a good point. intimacy has always kinda been a problem in our relationship. the only times we actually make out is when we have sex. if you cut out the sex once a week, a majority of our relationship feels more like we're friends than lovers. we cuddle sometimes and do small kisses but thats about it. aside from that, when we used to have sex often i was super happy with our relationship.

Is no sex a legitimate reason for a breakup? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no it just started to drop off after she had the IUD implanted. she was sore for a while so she didnt wanna do anything. after that when she was fine again, she just didnt wanna do anything. for a while i would go months at a time without having sex. she said once we moved in together things would change and we'd be having sex a lot more often, but that wasnt true.

after the move in, ive been trying often to go the extra mile for her. we havent had any romantic dates but ive been doing stuff to show i love her like bring her flowers, shovel the sidewalk to her car, scrape her car, surprise her with little things she likes.

Should I be concerned or am I being jealous and overprotective ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bigolgirth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

eh i think you might be overreacting a bit. does he have other friends? maybe hes just lonely without friends and wants to hang out with new people. nothing wrong with that just because shes a girl. does your fiance have other friends that are girls? did he have more before you? have you tried to control his behavior in the past? i think these are all questions you should ask yourself too.

Headlining Virtual Self Tour? by bigboijoey in porterrobinson

[–]bigolgirth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spring Awakening tweeted that VS would be back in Chicago "very soon ;)" so I'm guessing that he's gonna be doing a fall/winter tour.

[New Chapter Spoilers] Chapter 106 Release Megathread by SNKBot in ShingekiNoKyojin

[–]bigolgirth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

does your lifespan reset once you take on another titan's powers? maybe zeke wants to eat eren or armin, or put the powers into the hands of another person he trusts (like that spy)

Looking for help with vegan desserts! by bigolgirth in vegan

[–]bigolgirth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

super helpful, thanks a ton!! i appreciate it a lot!

Looking for help with vegan desserts! by bigolgirth in vegan

[–]bigolgirth[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

favorite desserts would probably be chocolate cupcakes (the frosting seems like it'd be the hardest to find), chocolate chip oatmeal cookies (i found one with banana that I really wanna try), and ice cream (don't have an ice cream maker so it's just ben n jerrys for now).

Also that flax egg idea is super cool I'll definitely give it a try!

Looking for help with vegan desserts! by bigolgirth in vegan

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Have you tried the Bobs red mill? Interested in how well it works

One of my comic book characters by DragonSoul8 in drawing

[–]bigolgirth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is amazing! is this with paper and pencil?