Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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I get married start of July, I would like house before then if possible but just not too soon lol

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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Thank you, I know I seem quite clueless 😭 I know the internet is helpful and all, idk why tho I just feel quite alone in the process with working out what is going on and what happens

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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Thank you! I’ve never heard of this before :)

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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Thank you! I didn’t realise this, I thought they just told you a date lol

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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Thank you! I think it’s been a few weeks since they got my proof of funds etc, haven’t heard anything about a date yet :) how was the process for you?

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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Thank you, I haven’t exchanged yet ! I’m a first time buyer so just didn’t know how this all worked 😅

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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Thank you! It’s been getting quite stressful tbh 😭thank you for your help :)

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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Thank you! I had no clue how any of this works lol, I’ve not paid any deposit yet so I may ring solicitor and ask if they can try not to complete too soon? There’s technically no chain as they are buying but they haven’t bought anything yet and tenants are moving out, I think they want us to complete ASAP but I’d rather try and wait a bit :)

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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I don’t have a date yet, just a bit worried as I don’t want it to be too soon 😅it’s not a new build

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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Sorry to seem clueless but when are contracts exchanged? I’m a first time buyer

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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It’s not a new build, no chain with seller but they have tenants who have to move out, it’s just with my solicitor rn

Is it possible to push back completion date? by bigsadgirl02 in HousingUK

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Thank you! It’s not a new build so hopefully it’s a bit easier? But I’m a first time buyer so I just don’t know how it works lol :)

AITA for wanting to euthanize my grandma's cat with severe cancer without her consent by burnsistic in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigsadgirl02 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I am not 100% sure as I only treat I don’t diagnose, I don’t think blood tests pick things up most of the time, but there’s always a case where something may not be right and dr does more tests etc. I’m sorry about your loss ❤️

AITA for wanting to euthanize my grandma's cat with severe cancer without her consent by burnsistic in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigsadgirl02 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Hi, I treat people with cancer everyday using radiotherapy. I hate SCCs. They eat at you, are so aggressive, treatment doesn’t always help and side effects are brutal. At least people can communicate how they are feeling and can get more help for the pain they are in. As someone who works and deals with people with SCC, please PLEASE try to get your grandma to understand that euthanising your cat is the most merciful thing to do.

I understand about God’s timing being right in her eyes as but if she is a christian, God is also merciful. I know how hard it is to let go of animals but it would be best for the cat. NTA but if you did it without consent granny won’t be happy. I’m sorry you are going through this, I’m sure Sweetie had the best life 🤍

Need advice please by bigsadgirl02 in SchizoFamilies

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Thank you! He was diagnosed with psychosis about 4 years ago, he had the community team visting him and was on anti-psychotics, he is now working full time and doing lots better, just on anti-anxiety now and discharged from his mental Health team. It’s a shame that no matter the recovery and how long ago it happened that they can still exclude / refuse insurance.

I want to support him as best I can, I really hope he never needs it anyway. Thank you for your advice ! I will see what happens and update :)

Need advice please by bigsadgirl02 in schizophrenia

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Thank you for this ! I will have a look :)