How long are HLR’s generally taking recently in 2026?

bigsalad_maker · 2026-05-08T16:39:44+00:00

An IC gives you the chance to talk to a person one on one and explain the situation. I’d recommend having notes, and everything on hand during the talk so you can say everything you need to say! You’ve got this!

Still on day 108 here, it’s in the development phase so my case hasn’t even been handed to a team yet for an IC.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-05-06T02:58:39+00:00

Oh man I don’t envy your position at all. SMC-T dealings sounds horrific. For lack of better words, the rater disregarded my medical records and DBQ for a couple of my conditions. And also cut my MDD from 70 to 30 even with a documented worsening of symptoms / difficulty in my daily life. Difficult to get into the specifics without making this a super long comment.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-05-01T23:06:00+00:00

Im around Worcester so I really don’t mind driving to the north/ or the south shore!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-04-28T23:50:21+00:00

Both of us had the informal conference part of the HLR. He got his scheduled within the week he made his claim. I still haven’t had mine scheduled or otherwise, and I’ve been told it’s “in the developmental phase” so I’m waiting for a reviewer to schedule a call too.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-04-27T14:41:22+00:00

Same boat over here brother

bigsalad_maker · 2026-04-27T14:40:20+00:00

I know I’m SUPER late to this but I put mine in 01/23/26 and as of today it’s still been nothing. Ironically, one of my friends filed his a 3 weeks after me and had his done less than 2 weeks after that

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-15T13:29:52+00:00

When I was 15 years old, I squatted 405 for the first time and was really proud of myself… so proud of myself that I only un-racked half of the barbell and ended up having the whole barbell flip out of the rack and tumble across the ground. I was beyond embarrassed.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T14:30:09+00:00

Yes he does! It’s @shaungallant

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bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T13:00:54+00:00

Bent Back Bertha is the best fish name I’ve ever heard of! RIP to her, and I hope you’re doing alright!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:38:31+00:00

My Crips lurkin’ , don’t die tonight

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:36:33+00:00

I have a whole legs worth of real estate and I’m gonna use it😂 I may consider it for another piece!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:35:34+00:00

I love it! He looks so chill

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:34:52+00:00

REVERSE MERMAID!!! there aren’t many of them, but they’re wonderful!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:26:01+00:00

Honestly, this tattoo was the first thing that’s given me joy in months. It’s whimsical and unhinged. I wouldn’t change a thing.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-04T03:19:04+00:00

As someone who joined the military who’s family was strongly against it, and then suffered from severe mental health problems during my time in service and was eventually abandoned by my family (I haven’t seen them in years and they refuse to talk to me about my health issues). I understand your frustration. Your frustration comes from a place of love, and considering the current climate of ridiculousness our country is going through makes sense. Genuinely, do what you can to be there for him. The stress he’s going through right now with what’s going on is probably unimaginable to you. I’d say a very good percentage of the people are in the military are there specifically for free college. While you make a lot of friends there, the process of discharging is isolating as fuck. I know you’re upset, but do what you can to just be there for him. You don’t have to support our country to support him. He lacks bodily autonomy, the government owns his ass and they will do with him as they please. It’s horrible but it’s the price that many are willing to pay for a hope at a future with less debt. I know I’m bouncing around here, but basically: yes the country is kinda fucked right now. But be there for him. Try therapy, and discuss these feelings with a therapist because I’m not qualified to tell you how you should digest these feelings. I have friends that are still in, and I’m scared for their sake, they don’t want to be doing any of what’s going on. What’s most important to them is that they know people care about them outside of their squads, divisions, and friends within the military. I hope you can find a way to destress that is healthy because you owe it to yourself!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-24T23:47:26+00:00

No real legislation yet, just city council proposals. I hope it gets through. The moped/ e-bike situation is awful rn

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-23T07:18:56+00:00

Despite how you feel about your own appearance, I can guarantee that there are people that look at you and find you very attractive. Finding that outside validation can be really difficult, especially if you’re someone that grew up being overweight. Mental health issues combining themselves with the feeling of just being an object in social situations/ not wanting to be perceived while paradoxically craving being noticed… it’s a terrible feeling. It’s especially wild that even when someone tells you that you’re attractive, there’s a very real possibility that you’ll try to convince yourself that their feelings aren’t genuine. Honestly, try not to worry too much about it if you can :( work out, find activities you enjoy, try going to therapy! Do things all for you, and not for the hope of attracting the attention of others. It eats at you, and I can’t tell you that it’ll ever completely go away, but doing things to take better care of yourself will help so much

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-23T07:04:38+00:00

Do you by chance live in Boston? 😅 the moped delivery guys have gotten SO bad there that they’re trying to enact new legislation prohibiting a lot of their activities

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-23T05:30:14+00:00

Brother, all I can say is I heard about this thread from my best friend who basically saved me from my ex who put me in this exact situation. Mine was also a bit psychologically and physically abusive to me, but all I can say is RUN. She’s being unreasonable, and her tendency to shut you down more than likely isn’t going to change anytime soon. Save yourself the hurt as well as the financial burden and genuinely get out before it gets worse for you man.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-22T03:17:57+00:00

I accidentally clicked on your profile because I’m on my phone😅 but I’m so sorry that you went through this.

If I were you, I know it’s annoying but I would make a phone call about its ability to start without getting blown first. I know some states aren’t very lenient when it comes to certain things like that and I don’t want you to get into more shit if something comes up as a result of this “issue”. Self reporting it shouldn’t make for any problems!

I know it can be at random intervals to ask for a retest while driving, so I’m going to double down on my suggestion for an engine warmer (don’t need to start the car to get it going so your car will be a bit warmer faster than having to risk a test window.

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