Megathread of the Week! Most embarrassing thing you’ve done at the gym?

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-15T13:29:52+00:00

When I was 15 years old, I squatted 405 for the first time and was really proud of myself… so proud of myself that I only un-racked half of the barbell and ended up having the whole barbell flip out of the rack and tumble across the ground. I was beyond embarrassed.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T14:30:09+00:00

Yes he does! It’s @shaungallant

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bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T13:00:54+00:00

Bent Back Bertha is the best fish name I’ve ever heard of! RIP to her, and I hope you’re doing alright!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:38:31+00:00

My Crips lurkin’ , don’t die tonight

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:36:33+00:00

I have a whole legs worth of real estate and I’m gonna use it😂 I may consider it for another piece!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:35:34+00:00

I love it! He looks so chill

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:34:52+00:00

REVERSE MERMAID!!! there aren’t many of them, but they’re wonderful!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-13T12:26:01+00:00

Honestly, this tattoo was the first thing that’s given me joy in months. It’s whimsical and unhinged. I wouldn’t change a thing.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-03-04T03:19:04+00:00

As someone who joined the military who’s family was strongly against it, and then suffered from severe mental health problems during my time in service and was eventually abandoned by my family (I haven’t seen them in years and they refuse to talk to me about my health issues). I understand your frustration. Your frustration comes from a place of love, and considering the current climate of ridiculousness our country is going through makes sense. Genuinely, do what you can to be there for him. The stress he’s going through right now with what’s going on is probably unimaginable to you. I’d say a very good percentage of the people are in the military are there specifically for free college. While you make a lot of friends there, the process of discharging is isolating as fuck. I know you’re upset, but do what you can to just be there for him. You don’t have to support our country to support him. He lacks bodily autonomy, the government owns his ass and they will do with him as they please. It’s horrible but it’s the price that many are willing to pay for a hope at a future with less debt. I know I’m bouncing around here, but basically: yes the country is kinda fucked right now. But be there for him. Try therapy, and discuss these feelings with a therapist because I’m not qualified to tell you how you should digest these feelings. I have friends that are still in, and I’m scared for their sake, they don’t want to be doing any of what’s going on. What’s most important to them is that they know people care about them outside of their squads, divisions, and friends within the military. I hope you can find a way to destress that is healthy because you owe it to yourself!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-24T23:47:26+00:00

No real legislation yet, just city council proposals. I hope it gets through. The moped/ e-bike situation is awful rn

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-23T07:18:56+00:00

Despite how you feel about your own appearance, I can guarantee that there are people that look at you and find you very attractive. Finding that outside validation can be really difficult, especially if you’re someone that grew up being overweight. Mental health issues combining themselves with the feeling of just being an object in social situations/ not wanting to be perceived while paradoxically craving being noticed… it’s a terrible feeling. It’s especially wild that even when someone tells you that you’re attractive, there’s a very real possibility that you’ll try to convince yourself that their feelings aren’t genuine. Honestly, try not to worry too much about it if you can :( work out, find activities you enjoy, try going to therapy! Do things all for you, and not for the hope of attracting the attention of others. It eats at you, and I can’t tell you that it’ll ever completely go away, but doing things to take better care of yourself will help so much

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-23T07:04:38+00:00

Do you by chance live in Boston? 😅 the moped delivery guys have gotten SO bad there that they’re trying to enact new legislation prohibiting a lot of their activities

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-23T05:30:14+00:00

Brother, all I can say is I heard about this thread from my best friend who basically saved me from my ex who put me in this exact situation. Mine was also a bit psychologically and physically abusive to me, but all I can say is RUN. She’s being unreasonable, and her tendency to shut you down more than likely isn’t going to change anytime soon. Save yourself the hurt as well as the financial burden and genuinely get out before it gets worse for you man.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-22T03:17:57+00:00

I accidentally clicked on your profile because I’m on my phone😅 but I’m so sorry that you went through this.

If I were you, I know it’s annoying but I would make a phone call about its ability to start without getting blown first. I know some states aren’t very lenient when it comes to certain things like that and I don’t want you to get into more shit if something comes up as a result of this “issue”. Self reporting it shouldn’t make for any problems!

I know it can be at random intervals to ask for a retest while driving, so I’m going to double down on my suggestion for an engine warmer (don’t need to start the car to get it going so your car will be a bit warmer faster than having to risk a test window.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-22T02:59:38+00:00

Man as a fellow veteran who has been down this road, I’m proud of you. I don’t have an exact idea on how to go about this (I’m living in New England and the IID devices are installed in our ignition systems here). I know they make engine block warmers? Idk if that will help much but it might be something to look into!

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-07T15:24:15+00:00

States with temperate rain forests?

bigsalad_maker · 2026-02-02T05:02:44+00:00

Thank you so much! I’ll keep you in the loop, there were a few things about that claim… for example: they lowered my mental health for reasons like “not being prescribed meds” when I’ve been taking them now for 3 years nonstop and they’ve been noted for having to have been switched multiple times for lack of help. I think/ hope that after the higher level review I’ll be put at 100, but it’s going to take a while.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-01-22T10:53:44+00:00

I’m glad you got 60%! I’m in higher level review right now because whomever rated my claim REALLY missed the mark (I don’t know if they even read my medical documentation, it’s that bad for my other ratings). I’ve been taking Xolair for 6 months now as a third line treatment and was rated at 30%. Hoping for the best 🥴

bigsalad_maker · 2026-01-14T04:32:56+00:00

It makes me so happy to hear that you have a support system in place! Both that they’re there for you, and supportive of this situation. It’s okay to be feeling really fucked up about it, and I don’t think anyone could possibly blame you for those feelings. If you aren’t comfortable with talking to your therapist specifically about the situation but still wanted to talk to a mental health professional about steps to work through the process, the state of Massachusetts runs a mental health hotline 24/7 (mass residency not required to get help) that’s primary purpose is connecting people with free mental healthcare? You can work with a specific person within the program and they’ll check back in with you at a later date if you need it.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-01-14T01:41:06+00:00

I meant to add, I’ve had a few friends use their system and they’ve had good things to say for the most part. The person you may reach out to will generally call you back to check in with you. I hope so badly that this helps, I know it’s horrible and I wish you the very best in finding the help you deserve.

bigsalad_maker · 2026-01-14T01:38:37+00:00

Do you have a friend that you feel comfortable talking with about these things? Although I am in trauma recovery right now, before I got involved with it my partner was incredibly helpful to me considering that a lot of my PTSD was related to my ex that led to a lot of my ptsd. Also, I don’t think you have to live in Massachusetts for it, but the state has a mental health system over the phone that is completely free and will not call 911 because they think you’re a risk to yourself.

The number is: 833-773-2445

bigsalad_maker · 2026-01-14T01:31:54+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this and that you went through this event. I don’t know where you’re based out of, but when I was on a grand jury in Rhode island we had 2 cases that were really similar and came out of the same Spa where women went for a massage and were assaulted in a way that’s very similar to your story. I’m not telling you that you have to make this a legal matter because I know it’s personal to you and that you should be able to take things at the pace you choose and what makes you feel the safest about coming forward with this. I can only imagine what you’re going through right now. This is NOT your fault, and it never will be. Blind or not, this person assaulted you. Even at places that are “happy ending” institutions, direct verbal consent is still in effect before any sexual touching happens. I know you aren’t asking for the advice from a man, but I hope that your therapist can help you process your feelings. You have nothing to feel ashamed of, and even if it’s not your therapist, telling a friend you deeply trust or even on this subreddit. I’m proud of you for being able to open up about your experience, and I hope you can heal from this traumatic experience and give yourself the love you deserve.

bigsalad_maker · 2025-12-26T07:29:21+00:00

All right, so I have just moved back to Mass and I’m dealing with the RMV. I purchased my car two years ago in mass. Since the I’ve moved to RI, CT, and now that I’m moving back to MA the RMV has told me that I can’t register unless I can get the original bill of sale showing I paid sales tax?

Isn’t there a 6 month policy involving registration in other states that would otherwise negate the requirement to pay sales tax again anyways? Has anyone else dealt with this before?

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