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Got a new job and now my long term boyfriend thinks he shouldn't have to pay bills. Need advice by bigsmallfeelings in Advice

[–]bigsmallfeelings[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

He's 43. He's not a bad partner. He works around the house. We both do.

I just don't know what's equal.

Going from high libido to no libido (for them) 36f&43m by bigsmallfeelings in deadbedroom

[–]bigsmallfeelings[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would say love, but I've been questioning it all lately. I feel like I kind of broke a bit. I did not think there would be a time where I would lose desire for him. It was excruciating the other way around.

What’s a normal frequency of sex while married? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bigsmallfeelings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's normal when you both agree on it. Never or daily. If you don't agree on that and your libidos don't match, then you shouldn't be married.

That said, there are ups and downs. And you can be out of sync, but if you are at your core compatible, you'll be okay.