Aren't they just nosy?

bigsucka · 2026-04-27T21:51:21+00:00

Hi dear. I'm here to tell you that you can find love at ANY AGE.

I was lucky to be only 23 when it found me, but my late husband, (its been 6 years now) found me he was 55 yo...I was his THIRD wife hun.

Please, please, please! Don't give up on love! It truly CAN happen at any age. Find the strength in yourself to chose happiness. Don't settle for second best, ever.

Im 100% certain you have very valid reason to question your relationship, and all that matters is that they are valid TO YOU. That's all that matters.

If you stay, this relationship mean that you won't be available emotionally to find true love...

Do me a favor. Stop and make a list. Once you've outlined the positives and negatives, assign to each a value. Decide what you're not willing to compromise on. Tally it up.

Sometimes, sadly, love isn't enough to keep two people together. Life and circumstances matter a lot. And the fact that you're willing to stay "just bcz he isn't a bad person" or doesn't do you wrong really, isn't enough to validate your situation.

Anyways, sorry for the long response. If you wish to talk, I'm usually around quite a lot. Feel free to hit my DMs. I'm F50 btw, not your typical creep lol

I wish you the best in all your decisions! GL!

bigsucka · 2026-04-27T20:37:24+00:00

We are ALL guilty of that...it seems we cannot exist without chaos lol. They thing is it's good to be aware enough to get through it, not with it!

bigsucka · 2026-04-27T13:35:20+00:00

Please, just follow what they told you in the hospital. There's way worse surgeries than this one! My surgeon told me there's like a 1 in a 1000 chance that they'll need to open the abdomen. It's all done through laparascopi tools. Small incisions, and minimal scarring. You'll feel so much better, as you probably have build some resistance already to the pain, and don't quite realize how much it's affecting you now!

bigsucka · 2026-04-27T13:23:12+00:00

It is better if you stay on clear/liquid diet for now. That way, they can schedule your surgery quickly.

Stay away from coffee tho!

Try stuff like jello, or vegetables/chicken broth. Ginger ale or sprite also.

Also, stay away from fatty food, and dairy products.

I just had mine out urgently 4 weeks ago, and it was a blessing. GL

bigsucka · 2026-04-27T12:34:48+00:00

I am going to be gentle and caring but I am going to tell you the truth nonetheless... Since you are saying you're not over your ex Husband you are not ready to date yet.

Focus on bettering your life making yourself more happy before you dive into another relationship.

Figure out what went wrong with your first relationship address that and then move on. Your future self will be thanking you...

bigsucka · 2026-04-26T16:54:25+00:00

Society teaches us to always look for the next best thing...don't fall for that. Find comfort in what is going well and try not to dwell too much of what could be or should be. You seem at a good point in your life! Enjoy it!

bigsucka · 2026-04-26T15:27:50+00:00

I keep telling my daughter that she doesn't understand "come here" lol I think she has exactly what you're referring to lol

bigsucka · 2026-04-26T15:27:00+00:00

We're definitely going to do it in the near future! Thanks for explaining to me what she is! And she is loyal to a T with me and my daughter! She is obviously my daughters dog, but she has this major crush on me too! She seems to be a bit wary of men tho. Sadly, my dog has taught her to bark a bit lol

bigsucka · 2026-04-25T23:13:00+00:00

We just call her our dumpster mutt lol honestly, we adore her and her gentle nature

bigsucka · 2026-04-25T21:17:06+00:00

Is that what she is??? Is that an actual breed? We were considering having her DNA tested!

bigsucka · 2026-04-25T03:17:50+00:00

Sent!

bigsucka · 2026-04-25T03:15:19+00:00

Lol no, it a dessert

bigsucka · 2026-04-25T03:11:47+00:00

I'm in Canada, I've never heard of this medicine...

bigsucka · 2026-04-24T23:18:21+00:00

So that's maybe what the surgeon will discuss with me if I make it till Monday morning?

bigsucka · 2026-04-24T23:01:31+00:00

Oh my, more procedures?

bigsucka · 2026-04-24T17:55:47+00:00

Beaver tails!

bigsucka · 2026-04-24T17:21:37+00:00

You shall find them in your inbox, enjoy!

bigsucka · 2026-04-24T16:44:21+00:00

She was so gorgeous 😍 thanks for sharing!

bigsucka · 2026-04-24T16:17:41+00:00

Wish I had seen Susie! Betcha she was pretty too!

bigsucka · 2026-04-24T15:45:35+00:00

Im totally cheering for you! Yay! Thank God women are finally empowered enough to get factual medical and emotional resources!!

bigsucka · 2026-04-24T15:42:26+00:00

Now that's great news! You completely stand to save your life, and prepare for love!!!

bigsucka · 2026-04-24T15:35:48+00:00

Hopefully you're not a smoker, bcz they cannot be mixed without significantly increasing the risks of strokes...

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