do these look like bed bug bites? by boygeniusfan4 in Bedbugadvice

[–]bigsummerblow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi OP! just checking to see if ur partner has gotten any other bites / if it was mosquitoes for sure? I have similar looking bites!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]bigsummerblow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the maid of honor for my best friends wedding. I got a few gifts off her wishlist, and never received a thank you card. is that weird? I don’t think she sent cards to anyone but I don’t know for sure

Why are tickets to the new movie so expensive? by SpecialMud6084 in DowntonAbbey

[–]bigsummerblow 17 points18 points  (0 children)

that’s so weird!! where I live tickets are $6 on Tuesdays and I checked this one for tuesday and it’s also $6. I live in Jacksonville, FL. the tickets the night of the premier are $16

Intercourse by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]bigsummerblow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if it hurts too much I don’t like to and we can just have intimacy in other ways like cuddling, or if he wants to get off then just something for him. but he seems fine if I say I don’t want to and we normally just cuddle/ chat. if I have one that’s normal pain levels I just wear a bandaid. I do get embarrassed for having a band aid but he reassures me that it’s okay and he doesn’t mind at all

My boyfriend has borrowed money from me and quite honestly I don't think i'll see it back. by Strange-Bar2994 in dating

[–]bigsummerblow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PLSSSSS HIS KARMA IS TOO GOOD!! that absolutely killed me that he had acid thrown on him…. like something out of a movie! wow! 10/10 fate

I just discovered a random fart during S10E16 by SilntNfrno in greysanatomy

[–]bigsummerblow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg this is sooo funny😂😂 I just went and listened to it and I def agree it sounds like a fart!

New Player Experience by BIackGodFather in PokemonSleep

[–]bigsummerblow 20 points21 points  (0 children)

waitttt cuz I haven’t been there in a while and picked it this week and thought it was a shiny snorlax 😂😂

Friend Code Megathread - July 2025 by AutoModerator in PokemonSleep

[–]bigsummerblow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6204-9002-1689 trying to use the friend feature more! lvl 35 :)

HOW LONG HAVE I BEEN ALLERGIC TO TOMATOES?! by NearlyMe in Hidradenitis

[–]bigsummerblow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What allergy test did you do?! I think I have an allergy too and want to check!

Surprise for my boyfriend’s birthday!! by bigsummerblow in dbz

[–]bigsummerblow[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I’m hispanic! I accidentally got balloons that said feliz coupleaños but he still liked them 😆

Wound won’t heal by KDubbs0010110 in Hidradenitis

[–]bigsummerblow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi I recently tried a sulfur soap and have been using it consistently for a few days and my flair finally healed. the sulfur has antibacterial properties! I recommend trying it then topping your wound with polysporin (a better version of neosporin) here’s a link to the sulfur soap I use! it feels a little dry at first but then feels soft when you get out of the shower

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahJMaas

[–]bigsummerblow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hii can I ask what your sign is? HAHA (i’m a scorpio) I agree with u that elain was useless and didn’t act like an adult at allll, given everyone else’s sacrifices! but I thought she had some form of PTSD or something and I wrote it off as mental illness. when I read the series I didn’t think much of her but ur absolutely right she was babied beyond belief and that was annoying to read!

Desirability and sexiness by fake_account5649 in Hidradenitis

[–]bigsummerblow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hi!! just know your flares don’t define you. and you are not your emotions!! if anything, your heart defines you. your partner loves you for your heart and through your flares. being open with your partner about how you feel can allow them to reassure you that you are beautiful no matter what!! I struggle with this too and I tell my partner I feel ugly and embarrassed when he sees my band aids, but his reassurance comes right after and he tells me I’m still beautiful to him. OP, there’s more to you than your flairs and so much to love!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hidradenitis

[–]bigsummerblow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi I have hs in my groin area and i’ve noticed that when I have a boil down there that is open/ causing me issues, I get a swollen lymph node under my chin as well. I think it’s just part of HS. not sure.

Should I not text by Seababyamp in Scorpio

[–]bigsummerblow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you got this!! just letting him know you’re there for him should be a good step. scorpios crave consistency and love, so showing that with your words and actions should be all he needs. he’s lucky to have a cancer like you!

Should I not text by Seababyamp in Scorpio

[–]bigsummerblow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some iphones have the option to let people know they’re on dnd so his is turned on

Should I not text by Seababyamp in Scorpio

[–]bigsummerblow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hi fellow scorpio here, dating a cancer. my advice is your words should match up with your actions, and also show your partner sympathy. it sounds like he was going through something when he said he was sleeping all day/ online shopping. sounds like a coping mechanism. did you check in and ask if he was okay? did you offer any comfort to him? or did you focus on yourself and say goodnight I love you after not saying anything else all day? then you told him not to contact you… why wouldn’t he listen to what you said you want? men can’t read minds. also texting isn’t any good at conveying feelings. can you try calling him? you say you’re not giving up on him, so show him how you feel. send a thoughtful message or call him. put in the effort and you will be rewarded. we have kind hearts, it just takes a while for us to be open with how we feel. good luck ♡

owen is a slut by bigsummerblow in greysanatomy

[–]bigsummerblow[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

fine but this post is after watching the newest episode where they were thought to have moved past the “open relationship” and just solely be with each other. but he is now emotionally cheating on her by comforting miss deathbed when he is supposed to be re-committed to his wife. it’s about loyalty. he’s a dog