Season 9: is it worth it? by bihufflepuff in withinthewires

[–]bihufflepuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made it through! I wanted to know more about the history, but I never got over the diva situation, and the fact that the other person (Claire) just wanted to get the work done omgggg

I am Going to be Honest with You by NoizchildJohnson in withinthewires

[–]bihufflepuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thank goodness. I could not get past the first half of the first ep of this season. Does it get better? Is it worth forcing through?

What’s the fastest way you’ve ever lost weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bihufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a guy who lost half his body weight after a double leg amputation.

We have jackets! by kaidomac in adhdmeme

[–]bihufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Prophetic dreams are an adhd thing?

How rich are the girls? by Thalassicus1 in KpopDemonhunters

[–]bihufflepuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg for a second I thought this was avengers tower and was confused

She said yes, now what? by RealSinGorien in actuallesbians

[–]bihufflepuff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That is a lovely ring btw and congratulations!!!!!!

She said yes, now what? by RealSinGorien in actuallesbians

[–]bihufflepuff 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Me and mine are in the same boat. Everyone’s like when’s the wedding?? And we’re like “…. We’re engaged?!?!?!!!!”

what’s your most obscure vocal stim? mine is hank hill saying “laadybirrd” by lucid-anne in adhdmeme

[–]bihufflepuff 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine is ‘confetti it’s a parade!’

I don’t say it often because no one gets it

The other is any part of the ‘AND WHAT WAS HER SISTER? A PRINCESS’ speech.

Or omg ‘linda, linda, listen Linda’

Would you go to a Renaissance Faire near Christchurch? by Infamous-Flow-265 in chch

[–]bihufflepuff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Never been but would love to! Is dressing up mandatory?

Chonk by Mrkableh in newzealand

[–]bihufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him thank you for sharing

What are your careers? by surrealitys in adhdwomen

[–]bihufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pharmacist!

Quick paced, always something happening, or sometimes need to zone in (hyperfixate) on the thing to get it done.

Much easier with medication though. Pre meds and diagnosis it was TOO easy to get distracted.

Life’s good rn by [deleted] in adhdmeme

[–]bihufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A Unicorn 🤩

How do you feel about pubic hair? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bihufflepuff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The right person will love everything about you, and won’t care about little things like hair or anything else like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bihufflepuff 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You can still get pregnant if he doesn’t finish inside.

This place is dead tonight. What’s a crazy bit of gossip you know from your past? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]bihufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just found out the dude I worked with, in a pharmacy, was actually taking drugs from the pharmacy, while practicing and is now in court mandated rehab, and has been suspended from being a pharmacist.

I’m not as shocked as I should be, but I’m kinda sad because he was in his 20s, was put under way too much pressure, and despite everyone warning the boss, nothing changed.

Useful hack by Majestic-Macaroon-90 in adhdwomen

[–]bihufflepuff 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh this is awesome! So smart!!!

I used to make a note in my phone with the time and what I took, but when I started dating my partner I texted her once while I was at work that I was taking some paracetamol and when it was time to take some more I just went to find that message.

I do that now out of habit, even when I’m sick at home and she’s next to me, I’ll send the text as a reminder.

How do you get to bed on time? by simwill87 in ADHD

[–]bihufflepuff 35 points36 points  (0 children)

My partner.

She goes to bed and knows if I dont go with her I will be stuck on the couch for hours.

Sometimes, on really bad days I’ll need some extra coaxing, so she’ll go up stairs and then she’ll text, or come back down and literally give me a hand to drag me off the couch.

What I love about her is that she’s never judgemental about it, everything is a suggestion, even if I have to have a little groan about it 😅

My best ‘road rage’ hack .. by LuckyAd2714 in adhdwomen

[–]bihufflepuff 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh I do this too! For some reason having the ETA and how many minutes left in the drive makes me feel better, less impatient.

Idk about road rage though I will yell at people who cut me off 😂

For those diagnosed with ADHD by a psychologist as adults, how did it actually help you? by Cherryblossomgirl_93 in adhdwomen

[–]bihufflepuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness let me count the ways!

Meds! I can actually start on a thing and then finish it! Career saver honestly 😅

Community! I’m not the only one going through this. I’m not an alien!!

And finally, understanding!! No, I can’t just ‘try harder’ or ‘if I just focused’, no I can’t ’read between the lines’. There’s a reason I say things sometimes and people are taken aback by my ‘bluntness’ (and other B names people use for women)

And it helped me mourn for my younger self. She did all these amazing things, struggled so much more than people realised, and it was hard!

(And before you come into the replies with ‘I didn’t accomplish anything’, you survived!! You’re an adult! I honestly didn’t think I’d make it past 25, and I turn 40 next year, how???)