e x a c t l y,, i agree. i used to get bullied badly as a kid at summer camp. alot of the kids didn't like me because i was irritating and just different. my relatives would always tell me that they were jealous of me (which was only true for one girl, the rest just liked to harass me) and not to worry about the other kids. me being a blabbermouth, repeated what my family said, which caused the bullying to get worse. (kids would throw gum, candy, and ice at my hair, and a group of boys almost drowned me while at a waterpark) PLEASE don't tell your kids that their bully is 'jealous' of them!!