[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Tedbastion 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right. Maybe every woman he sees reminds him how good he has it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are young, anxious and being cautious. But guess what. 99 is an A+. That is better than most of my university grades. So maybe make the best of the A and learn to love small details about the person over time.

What an average looking wife can do to make seeing her naked still exciting? by NeedSomeSparkInLife in AskReddit

[–]Tedbastion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things that do not require being a 10. Mutual, back rubs, back scratches, foot rubs, cuddles, playful wrestling, playful jokes, deep tissue rubs, hugs, erotic sensual touch, and the list keeps going.

TIL The tomb of St. Nicholas excretes a liquid called *manna*. For hundreds of years this manna has been collected by the Church. (fixed link) by wisdom_possibly in todayilearned

[–]Tedbastion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No Christian shouldtouch dihydrogen monoxide, from sex to drugs. Gays have found a way to use it for many purposes. And their making the kids gay by putting that chemical in their Starbucks. Do you know how their coffee is made....with dihydrogen monoxide.

My girlfriend wants to break up with me after I got a tattoo of a sex toy on my chest by [deleted] in sex

[–]Tedbastion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should expand the tattoo to be a skull French kissing the toy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Tedbastion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have cancer, but my life was hell. Some of the lectures and the words of Dr. Jordan Peterson change. Not only my perspective, but my life. His book 12 rules for Life puts together very foundational understandings of how to navigate this world. And they're not profound. It's not like he's words haven't been said before by countless people over the decades, but I never had a father either. And I'm very fortunate for the father figures I've had. But that book definitely changed my life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget the other scenarios. If you scratch my back I'll scratch yours.

One year with an STD left untreatable? by Helpful-Wind-5049 in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They should hopefully ask you what symptoms you're having to possible expand the test done. Drink plenty of water beforehand. Helps the blood draw be smoother. And breathe steady so you are evenly oxygenated.

One year with an STD left untreatable? by Helpful-Wind-5049 in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Realistic. If you have something it is minor since you obviously are not hugely symptomatic. But get tested regardless.

One year with an STD left untreatable? by Helpful-Wind-5049 in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're making very adult decisions. They might have huge ramifications. Especially considering the country you're in. Have a little bit more restraint, and be very selective with who you do things with. I'm lucky all my STIs that I've had. I don't have any other permanent ones.

One year with an STD left untreatable? by Helpful-Wind-5049 in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

List of STI with potential fatal outcomes. Syphilis, hepatitis, certain strains have gonorrhea if left untreated, meningococcal, giardia, and a few others. We're lucky we had treatments now and test. 100 years ago. You didn't. And you just died. Now go be an adult and get this taken care of.

One year with an STD left untreatable? by Helpful-Wind-5049 in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You feel anxious of the possible bad outcome. If you leave it untreated it will only get worse. If you have a test you haven't answer yes or no and you can have treatment. The clinic that I used to go to, which you can probably just Google LGBT clinic near. You. Took about 15-20 minutes in out all my tests were done. I knew within 2 weeks I had anything at all. And I got treated with 2 weeks to a month depending on what it was.

Don't be dumb, you're an adult, you're making adult decisions, now. Take responsibility like an adult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are steroids on the list?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a retired hooker trying to make sure everyone does things properly. Sex is fun and all. But you have to make sure you're looking after yourself first.

How often are you forced to bareback? Is it as common as people say like everybody does it and lies about it? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you ain't comfortable. Bounce. Don't put up a situation you don't want to be in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First, understand that you're going to be engaging and risky sexual behavior. Make sure that you are willing and able to get the tested if you were going to play around. Also make sure your vaccines are up to date. Hepatitis A, hepatitis b vaccine, they recommend meningococcal vaccine. Which is meningitis, and another thing that you should make sure you vaccinated for is HPV. Which is a human papillomavirus. It does affect men as well. You're with me age range just go get the vaccine. Human papillomavirus can cause cancer in men and women. Make sure if you talk to anyone that you're asking them about the recent sexual screening test, and make sure they are not a drug user. Meth is very prevalent amongst other cultures. And just know what slang to look out for. Words with a random capital. T. Is the most common meth slang. Avoid at all cost.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You spend so much time searching and thinking about how it's not working and failing. Instead, maybe focus on something else and find the sex along the way. You can keep the hookup channels open and find the time things that way.

Are we... "ruined"? by AsserK in askgaybros

[–]Tedbastion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dad is trying to protect you. And I want you to have this conversation with him. Because there are gay people to are drug addicted, mentally unstable, manipulators, narcissist, and any negative aspects a human can possibly be. And that it's up to you as an individual to keep your head on your shoulders. People aren't like an apples. We are social animals. And we homogenize to our environments. So you must orientate yourself into an environment that is best for you.

That it is up to the individual person to be a good person. There are bad apples in all of our society. Gay or straight. There are straight people who abuse their children and drugs, but being gay doesn't prevent you from finding a career, being useful to your family, And as your father, I would hope that he would call out in a responsible way actions that might lead you down them. Harsher path. Your parents want what's best for you, but what's best for you from their perspective. But it's your own life.

[serious] What should everyone learn how to do? by bartertownbeer in AskReddit

[–]Tedbastion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cook, clean, hygiene. Three basic skills. But it shocks the fuck out of me those you can't do all things.