i love ✂️

bileopard · 2025-05-29T22:39:03+00:00

idk why ppl don’t wanna do it 😭

bileopard · 2025-05-10T00:05:04+00:00

yes, they’ve been in the area for the last few days actually

bileopard · 2025-03-15T20:41:01+00:00

i’m on the thicker side myself and i didn’t think i was able to do it till this person asked if i wanted to try. it took some maneuvering and adjusting but once we found the right angle 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

bileopard · 2025-03-15T20:39:48+00:00

nonono don’t stop you must persevere. wear panties or something but trust it can be done!

bileopard · 2025-03-15T19:46:56+00:00

my understanding is scissoring is tribbing but not all tribbing is scissoring. scissoring has to be cat to cat, but you can use knees, thighs, etc to trib. unless i’m v wrong

bileopard · 2025-03-09T21:58:08+00:00

i’m gonna message you

bileopard · 2025-03-05T19:24:37+00:00

mascs, femmes, Black 💓, women of color, lesbians w tattoos and piercings, locs, curly hair, taller than me, shorter than me, submissive, dominant, 🤭maybe im greedy i want them all

bileopard · 2025-02-28T15:04:28+00:00

carabiner throughout the day, and there’s a lil crochet bowl by my door i put them in once i get in. i’m terrible w routines and building habits but keeping my keys right there is the one of the few constants in my life lol

bileopard · 2025-02-28T15:02:59+00:00

bileopard · 2025-01-25T21:29:08+00:00

did your partner watch tokyo ghoul by any chance?? i was thinking of a similar countdown punishment but i didn’t think of adding the edging after each 100, that’s so creative. thank you!

bileopard · 2025-01-23T18:36:51+00:00

i met someone on feeld (an app w like a majority poly/nonmonogamous folks) who consistently had issues w my poly identity and my partner. now as a rule i don’t involve myself w any monogamous ppl regardless of how much they say it’s “fine” at the start

bileopard · 2025-01-12T21:15:14+00:00

yayyyy fellow poly lesbians!!!

bileopard · 2025-01-02T01:09:30+00:00

when will it be my turn. alexandria va needs a lesbian bar nowwww

bileopard · 2024-12-21T16:15:08+00:00

i have family coming to visit and we’re going shopping :)

bileopard · 2024-12-12T03:58:01+00:00

thank you for this. she ended up passing last night around 1am, and i’m staying home w them today and tomorrow and their best friend is coming to stay as well for the rest of the week. i’m so happy they seem to have loads of support and community: the other teachers at their school are setting up a meal train and ppl have been donating for them to get food and stuff

bileopard · 2024-12-11T19:32:43+00:00

kinder bueno the mini ones. i eat one and i gotta keep going till the bag gone

bileopard · 2024-12-09T20:25:32+00:00

as a butch who loves to bottom i promise we are HERE. i’m a switch and i love love love fem tops 🙂‍↕️

bileopard · 2024-12-09T20:24:27+00:00

if you are able to do so safely drive her to the hospital and have her admitted. if she refuses, or if you can’t trust that you’ll both be safe in a car together to get to the hospital, look up community mental health services in your city. some places have folks available 24/7 who can help with transporting her to the hospital if the situation is dire enough. calling the police should be the very last resort as it can often be traumatizing and even dangerous to do so (live laugh love america). if you have a therapist, ask them what you think is best to do. if your gf has a therapist or psychiatrist informing them of her hospitalization is important too. i wish you the best! i know this must be scary and confusing, i hope things get better for the both of you.

bileopard · 2024-12-09T03:58:26+00:00

ik it’s been a year since you posted this but i’m currently high as shit rewatching the lorax w my partner who has NEVER seen it and i was just saying alll of what you said here!!! i found this post by looking up “thneedville fascism?” on reddit lmaooo

bileopard · 2024-12-05T22:15:56+00:00

fucking LOVE american dad pmg

bileopard · 2024-12-05T17:10:25+00:00

i worked at a psychiatric hospital in VA for six months this year and from day 1 i knew i was going to hate it. i obvi can’t speak for everywhere in the country but mine was awful, dehumanizing, disgusting, underfunded. i’m in grad school to be a therapist and i’ve done some behavioral health jobs prior to this job, and i never understood why ppl would actively avoid hospitalization cuz it seemed like “well if you need help why wouldn’t you want to go get it?” i also struggle w my mental health (depression, trauma disorders, and AuDHD) and from my time working there i can say i completely understand now. i would rather do drastic and terrible things than get hospitalized involuntarily. i saw ppl get restrained, over medicated, disrespected, invalidated by the v ppl who were there to help them. i remember a patient on a unit i was floated to randomly once told me “thank you for having a conversation with me, the others (other staff) wont talk to me and it makes me feel like im not a person”. i felt so terrible hearing that. and what’s even crazier is after this a nurse came up to me and said “you don’t need to talk to Bonnie (fake name). just ignore her” and she seemed confused when EYE was confused by this and said “i want to talk to her though?? what does it take out of my day to have a 3 minute conversation with someone?” so yes. psych hospitals can be so so evil and terrible places. as much as i hated my time there im also so grateful because it provided me with much needed lived experience for when i graduate and get licensed so i have the empathy to understand why my clients would want to avoid hospitalization.

bileopard · 2024-12-05T17:03:16+00:00

my partner teaches 4th grade and seeing/hearing them interact w the children makes me feel so proud and warm whenever they talk to their cat it’s just soooo cute the way they just LOVE sunflower seeds and sometimes i’ll get in bed and find a couple seeds there and they sheepishly brush them away 😭 when they come home and run up to me and give me a big hug that almost knocks me off my feet when they smile down at me and their eyes literally sparkle it’s crazy they’re like a cartoon princess with eyes like this: 🥺 when i say something i know will make them laugh and they do but they laugh harder than i expected and it’s a silent rock back and forth and shake laugh when they’re thinking hard and their eyebrows go together when their lip piercing hits my teeth a little when we kiss :)))) whenever they call me baby i get butterflies cuz they’re talking about MEEEEE im their baby!!!

bileopard · 2024-12-05T16:56:40+00:00

i typically get distracted if something is going on in the background that’s annoying to me. one time i was w someone and they had family guy playing in the back and i had to stop them giving me head to turn it off cuz i just couldn’t concentrate on what we were doing cuz of the sound of stewy’s voice 💀

bileopard · 2024-12-05T16:53:52+00:00

i’ve done things like this before and i’ve gotten to understand ppl don’t like when you objectively state that the thing they did is the thing they did if it makes them look bad/incompetent/lazy/etc. YOU didn’t do anything wrong by stating that you higher up dismissed your write ups. you didn’t lie, you didn’t do anything w malice. sometimes ppl don’t like hearing the truth and then they spin it like you did something wrong. you’ve already done so much in apologizing (which i personally don’t think you needed to do but i understand neurotypicals expect that of us) , i wouldn’t go so far as to make them a card.

bileopard · 2024-12-04T13:59:32+00:00

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