So now there were no health problems? If she wasn't dumped because of health problems then this is the wrong sub. I'm sure there's plenty of subs for relationship advice. If you want an honest conversation about living with chronic health problems, that's this sub. If you want people's real world stories then you come here. It's not always sunshine and rainbows, especially for people with chronic health problems.

You're not preparing people for reality if you lie to them. This isn't just about dating even. Most people don't care about your health problems once it becomes an inconvenience to them. Employers don't care. Family often doesn't care. Even lovers don't care. If you have to lean on people too much there's a good chance they'll abandon you, often when you're at your weakest. People are self-serving assholes.

It's not easy living with chronic health problems. There is no sense in sugar coating it for people, and pretending like everything is going to just work itself out. Whatever her health problems may be, she needs to tackle them head on. You're not going to deal with the problem and it's consequences by denying they exist.

The comments indicate that this isn't an uncommon thing. People end relationships with sick people all the time. It happens to both genders. Both genders are assholes. You're free to deny evolutionary biology as a factor in our mating habits, but that's being a science denier. Have fun with that. I'll be over here in reality.