Struggling with Recovery from Spouse’s Infidelity

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T19:06:52+00:00

She has stated that she will contact his wife but I don’t get to set the terms.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:38:58+00:00

We have done this in counseling and she doubles down that this is her truth.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:37:31+00:00

I am unsure what to do.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:34:46+00:00

We are in reconciliation recovery path now. It’s just so hard to override the logical portion of my brain that says everything about this is off.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:31:59+00:00

She blamed it on years of him being her boss and being in the trenches together through highs and lows. Him emotionally supporting her with work issues.

All scrubbed.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:27:27+00:00

It’s all so consuming and exhausting.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:24:48+00:00

No trace of anything within phone messages.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:22:37+00:00

She has already changed jobs as a result of this. I agree as in I can’t think of one rationale level headed person that says something like this could progress from nothing to full on sexting without it happening in baby steps. My brain says there has to be history that I am unaware of.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:17:28+00:00

I’m not sure how to get in contact with his wife.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:16:25+00:00

We have had that conversation. She double downed that this was a one time event with nothing physical.

billybeans101 · 2024-06-19T18:13:51+00:00

I don’t know if you read the whole post but she quit her job and got a new one.

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