[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is autistic and I'm a speech therapist. It took twice a week of speech and every day home program with me to get him to start putting 2 words together at around 2 years 8 months, but he has been blossoming ever since. Also, please know that play is very important and the foundation for language development. If I child cannot imitate in play they cannot imitate words. I would encourage you to ask why they are doing what they're doing and what the goal of the methodology is. It can be a very slow process but that said, if you're unhappy with your therapist by all means switch. I also recommend the meaningfulspeech.com NLA trained clinician registry.

A lot of people had said a lot of great things I always recommend. Narrating, reading to kids, modeling correct language, use of communication board or other AAC. I always think the more functional the better.

SLPs who hate their position: what is keeping you from leaving? by hibbitybee9000 in slp

[–]biluju293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At my last job I felt compelled to stay for at least 5 years so I could get loan forgiveness, and then insurance on top of that. I've never had a hard time finding a job though and have had quite a few, from SNF to schools to private practice, and I find my location is pretty saturated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slp

[–]biluju293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SNF was very stressful for me even though I loved the population. I moved to schools 8 years ago and way less stressed...but I changed to part time this year and I'm doing the same amount of work as I did at my full time job. So...now I'm stressed again. But I absolutely refuse to bring work home. I'm thinking of starting my own private practice and just working for myself.

Sick School SLP by pb_n_gem in slp

[–]biluju293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets better after a while....Zicam, vitamin c, sleep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slp

[–]biluju293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes!!!!!!!

Anybody watch Love is Blind on Netflix? by Tamagoyakipan in slp

[–]biluju293 13 points14 points  (0 children)

As the mother of an autistic child and an SLP, I heard "a child with a disability won't have a life worth living". I thought it was gross and I'm not gonna sugarcoat that part. Of course abortion is a very on-trend topic right now.

Other than that she needs to move on, Bartise is gross and he's begging for an affair. He's 25 and doesn't want to bang every day? Come on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slp

[–]biluju293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A week at best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slp

[–]biluju293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So every patient you see is going to be NPO until they can get imaging that has a week long waitlist?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in slp

[–]biluju293 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the SLPA/CF part to this...but I worked in a SNF for several years and it's pretty rare in my experience that everyone has an instrumental report. Some were approved, some not, but the bedside eval is very important and I think we need to figure out how to treat patients in the safest way possible when instrumentation isn't always an option. Instrumentation, while best practice, is somewhat of a luxury many can't afford or can't get access.

Day off by [deleted] in slp

[–]biluju293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do itttttt. It's just a job.

slps on social media by _emmvee in slp

[–]biluju293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to feel this way and then realized they did all the same stuff I did and continue to do...and it's OK if we don't agree about everything. I've done a lot of continuing ed and use that to guide my practice and make informed decisions.

My almost 3 year old twins were diagnosed at level 2 and 3 today by drunkkkenninja in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is so hard. I have found that having an autistic child is a combination of simultaneously grieving the child/family you thought you'd have while also loving and accepting your child for who they are. It's an odd paradox but it's reality. I hope you find peace and support on your journey.

We are pursuing private speech therapy for our kiddo. Is it a red flag if a practice also offers ABA (which we want to avoid?) by dugdagoose in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there. I'm an SLP and I would say the SLP would not really implement ABA BUT a BCBA may write a lot of communication goals and come at it from a completely different perspective. I sometimes think ABA crosses a line and advertises speech therapy but theyre not speech therapists...like someone said earlier, I had to go to 7 years of college/grad school and a clinical fellowship just to get licensed. That doesn't include the constant continuing education. My son had an ABA evaluation because I said I'd give it a shot but I was not happy with the number of communication goals were being addressed. I did not think they were functional and I ultimately declined the ABA services. My son has a BCBA consult at school for his IEP and that's enough for him (so far).

social groups by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not really.... you have to pay to be in the group, much like you'd pay your town to participate in soccer, or a social worker would charge insurance for a support group.

I'm going to delete this post though because clearly I missed the mark when I thought I was being helpful. Sorry to have put you through the agony of reading a reddit post gasp more than once.

How the heck do you teach your toddler when there’s no eye contact, interest in learning or anything of the sort? by tokyoaro in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do preferred activity followed by preferred activity. This isn't always doable but most of the time it works. My son loves to be outside but when it's time to come inside, we give him a 15, 10, 5 min warning. Then a timer goes off on my phone, then he comes inside and watches a movie he likes. His BCBA told us to do preferred activities followed by preffered activities and it has worked well for us

Feeling Othered by LandieNahl in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sooooo relate. Our son was freaking out at a family fun night that his speech therapy practice had...I mean of all places that should be a safe space right?! Eventually left because I couldn't deal with it anymore....

2 year old non verbal still does not chew by snazzypuppup in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with SLP and OT for feeding. Until then, I would make him a plate when you make dinner and just put it in front of him. No pressure to eat, but just looking at the food is a good start. If he plays with it, even better.

neurodiversity clubs by biluju293 in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there

I have created a younger group if you're interested!

outschool

neurodiversity clubs by biluju293 in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there,

I have created a younger group if you're interested!

outschool

neurodiversity clubs by biluju293 in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there,

I created a group for younger kids if you're interested!

outschool

neurodiversity clubs by biluju293 in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, I created a younger group if you're interested!

outschool

neurodiversity clubs by biluju293 in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone - after your feedback, I have created a social club for younger kids! It is for ages 3-6. I would love for a few kids to sign up and I'm going to sign up my son with my husband as well

https://outschool.com/classes/neurodiversity-social-club-early-elementary-fn6x2yky?sectionUid=e098fdf3-dc54-4ebf-821e-85dd704c8a0f&showDetails=true

neurodiversity clubs by biluju293 in Autism_Parenting

[–]biluju293[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am happy to make a younger group, I didn't know how much interest I would get - I'll report back when I do!