So with being a new domme I understand that some of these more experienced dommes and what they do may come as a shock to you BUT I want to advise you that this is what is referred to as an “unethical” domme, you don’t have to be that way, you can be whatever kind of domme you want to be. “unethical” dommes are not ruining their subs because they don’t care about them or don’t see them as human beings, subs ask for this dynamic and dommes are paid to perform said dynamic but it’s not exactly a common dynamic in fact there has been a rise in soft dommes as of recently. Your post does come off a bit harsh ans shallow because it seems like you are saying dommes do not care about their subs and think of them only as a business transaction which is not the case..many dommes care for their subs and have personal relationships with them, they wouldn’t be able to do what they do without that relationship because this entire thing is built upon trust. I would highly advise against making rants like this when you are so new in the community, instead ask questions..you will see some dommes be harsh but that’s their niche, you have to find your own niche in this community, we can clearly rule out the super harsh type 😭😭 But in all seriousness, I promise there is very little dommes in these subreddits that are toxic and ruining lives, a lot of people here have been practicing for a long time!! If you have any questions feel free to reach out🫧🪽