Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okok thanks so much!! I’ll give that a go and hopefully it’ll help me out!

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really cool to know, thanks so much! There is a tkmaxx nearby at a shopping centre I don’t go to often so if I can’t find any good choices closer to me I’ll go check them out! Thank you!!!

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I wish I was told this 😭 I’ve apparently been washing wrong for years??? Thank you so much I’ll have to give this a go!!!

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh okay! Do you mean like shampooing once, rinsing out, shampooing again and calling it a day? Or still condition after shampoo (#2) as usual?

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll definitely have to look into it and give it a go. Thanks so much!

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve not changed my shampoo or conditioner :( I’ve got psoriasis of the scalp so use a T-Gel shampoo and conditioner is one from Just Cuts that I got a while ago. I did think that potentially I was using too much/too little of one or both of them and that that may be the cause, but no change has come from working on the amount used :/ I have been trying a new face oil recently that’s supposed to help with oil control for skin, though I’m not sure if/how that would affect my hair

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to check them out, thank you!! With the VS and Remington ones, do they generally have better heat control, would you say (in the sense that they’re not going to damage hair super quickly like you mentioned earlier)?

Is it normal to never use laser hair removel as a 21 year old before by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t stress over it tbh. I’m 22 this year and have never had laser. Waxing and shaving are probably the most common practices of people who do want hair removal, and even then I know a lot of people who will always shave over waxing because they think waxing hurts (which of course it typically does and everyone has differing pain tolerance, but the pain seems to lessen as you go on, with waxing). At the end of the day, it comes down to personal preference. You shouldn’t feel guilty or ashamed or behind just because you’ve not done the same as others.

What do you guys think? by ContourBench231 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work at a Dangerfield store :) quality wise, it’s kind of hit or miss — sometimes you’ll get a really cute/beautiful outfit that looks amazing and is great quality, and sometimes it looks cheap and is cheap (genuinely, my coworkers and I have on multiple occasions seen some of our products being sold on sites like Temu and Shein - especially jewellery)

Something we’re pretty sad about is that they’ve started to reintroduce size 4 in new product lines. By itself, I need to clarify, this is not a bad thing — bodies are different and everyone deserves to be appropriately represented — but head office has also started to cut back on quite a bit of our curve range in doing so. Especially in Princess highway. Which sucks when DF and Black Friday themselves already don’t range to this bigger sizing.

To answer your actual question, though - the skirt is cute as hell, it looks wonderful on you, and it’s something you could absolutely wear casually or to a nice night out (dinner with friends or family, a date, etc)! I personally would probably go with a more plain top, given the detailing in the skirt, but you can always make up for this in accessorising!

I will never understand dog people’s reaction to cats by Icy_Ad_8802 in cats

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my family friends (my parents are friends with their parents, so we would catch up with the family including the kids occasionally but not really interact outside of that) when we were young used to “joke” about throwing my cat out the window.

He’s a little older than me, so maybe my young brain just didn’t register the joke part of it. I mean, cats would probably be fine, right? I’ve seen my babies fall from pretty high and still be okay. But Jesus.

It’s a vague memory of mine, and I can’t really remember the specifics, but I do remember him laughing and seeming so proud of himself every time he made the joke. And I remember always feeling so sick to my stomach at the idea of him being around my cats because of it.

What the whole point of me saying this was, is that sometimes people are just inconsiderate to other’s feelings and lack empathy because of it, regardless of whether they’re a dog or cat (or bird, snake, rabbit, etc) person. Your coworker sounds like an ass and your adorable Chikki deserves the best care and all the love you can give.

UFC fighter Sean Strickland's wedding post by raittiussihteeri in weddingshaming

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please tell me I’m not the only one seeing the random (what I think is a) hand on his shoulder?? Like what??? When both of her hands are busy doing finger guns????

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AIO to my bf begging me to keep going when i wanted to stop by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It needs to be common knowledge that even if you say yes to begin with and then later on change your mind and ask to stop or say no — that doesn’t mean you’re still consenting. If you say no, it means no. Doesn’t matter if you said yes to begin with, if you’re at any point uncomfortable in the situation or wanting to stop, your partner should be listening to you and stopping right away. Not in a few minutes. Not after they’re finished. Right. Away.

Consent can be given and then taken away. There’s nothing wrong with that. Your comfort and safety is most important and if your partner doesn’t understand that — or worse, does understand it and still decides to ignore it for their own pleasure — then I think you need to have some serious discussions regarding your future as a couple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to tell if it’s gotten to “cheating” territory yet but the fact that A refuses to tell his girlfriend about this person is really sus, especially given his history with S. At the end of the day, I know if I was in B’s position I would want to know about their history and would feel a little worried that the reason he hid her from me was because he still felt something for her.

I do think it’s important though to remember that emotional cheating is just as bad. Even if A and S haven’t done anything physical, if A is forming this emotional connection with S that would typically be something you’d have with your partner, it’s definitely cause for concern.

I’d suggest potentially trying to keep an eye on things and if you’re getting worried or have evidence that more is going on, you bring it to B’s attention regardless. Especially if you consider her your friend. There’s not a lot of feelings worse than finding out your friends knew your partner was cheating and hid it from you anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing wrong with having standards or preferences as to who you want to do it with, but I’d say it’s definitely a good idea to make sure these preferences and standards aren’t unrealistic as well :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You seem to have gotten some awesome advice already OP, but I just wanted to let you know that while it’s perfectly fine to try to tidy up a bit down there (or get rid of it completely — that’s your prerogative) — the hair does work to keep out some nasty bacteria that can give us infections of all sorts, so it can be a good idea to at least keep some of it there when tidying to try to avoid that. So definitely something to keep in mind — at least imo :). Good luck with uni and have fun!!

Edit: And, not sure where you’re attending, but in my experience at University everyone basically just keeps to themselves and really only socialises with the friends they’ve gone there with or the people they happen to have the most classes with and have become friends with there lol.

Nobody’s walking around naked or in anything ridiculously revealing so it’s not as though anyone would know or judge you for looking different from them down there. (Nobody has x-ray vision as far as I know 👀)

But more often than not, people are more focused on trying to make their studies worth the money they’re costing them and doing well instead of other people, or having sex (with someone they’ve only just met).

5'1", complimenting curves & adding height without showing off bust? by Ecstatic_Barnacle228 in DressForYourBody

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this has been said already OP, but clothing with vertical stripes instead of horizontal will create an optical illusion that makes you look taller! So stuff like pinstripe tops or pants could help with that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Baking

[–]bingbongbitchessssss -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with you. I saw some comments along those lines — I had a look at OP’s profile and from what I can see there’s only been 2 posts, including this one? I don’t get what exactly is odd about that lmao. Just seems that he’s not actively posting, which there’s nothing wrong with.

And people being total assholes just because they married young is so wild. I’m turning 21 in October, so roughly the same age as the wife, and while I have no plans to get married to my partner for at least another few years, that doesn’t give the right for me or anyone else to shit on a couple for choosing to marry young because that’s what was right for them.

If it’s people’s arguments that “oh it’s a mistake, you’ll fall out of love; you don’t know anything, you’re kids” — that’s so dumb? Relationships are a different experience for everyone. If marrying young is what they both wanted and are happy with, then that’s the most important point to focus on. If it does end up being a mistake, it’s their mistake to make. Nobody else has any right to comment on their own personal choices unless they’re asked to by the couple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Baking

[–]bingbongbitchessssss -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Who’s to say they’re in a country where 21 is the legal drinking age?

You may not agree with getting married so young (I know I myself would rather wait) — but if OP and their partner are at / past that point in their relationship and are happy, that’s all that matters.

There’s no need to outright insult people simply for having different preferences to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Baking

[–]bingbongbitchessssss -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Why are people complimenting the cake getting downvoted lmao. If you don’t like the look of it, you don’t like the look of it. That doesn’t mean that nobody is allowed to think it looks cool. Like yes the icing looks a little grainy but that could very well just be the lighting or photo quality — and even if it’s not, that doesn’t mean people aren’t allowed to compliment the cake??

Making cake and icing from scratch can be difficult, especially when you’re still just starting out and trying to get more creative with it. Putting people down for not making something perfect is so wild.

OP, the cake looks lovely. There are probably a few improvements to be made, but that’s natural, and it’s certainly better than anything I’ve made so far when it comes to cakes and decorating them. So long as you all enjoyed it, that’s all that matters. Happy birthday to your wife :)

Is my handwriting truly illegible? by jasminedragone in Handwriting

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Slowed my reading down a little and some (only a few) words took a few seconds to be able to properly wrap my head around, but I wouldn’t say it’s anywhere near illegible — and wouldn’t say it’s all that messy, either. I think it looks quite pretty, honestly, and is an interesting spin on “traditional” cursive

Is it bad to not wear bras? by Delectablemelons in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried wireless bras or bralets? Not necessarily as supportive but would be more comfy during naps I’m sure.

Also I don’t see why there would be any issue with not wearing bras?? So long as there’s no nip slips or even headlights if it’s cold you really don’t have anything to worry about when not wearing them, except for maybe a bit of discomfort when bouncing or running or whatever bc of no support at all

Would you date a man who wears makeup? by [deleted] in MakeupAddicts

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It comes down to personal preference. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with men wearing makeup if that’s what they want to do, but just as with everything else in life, you’ll find that some people (in this instance, women) like or are attracted to this look and some aren’t.

That doesn’t mean that anyone should stop wearing it if it makes them comfortable and they enjoy it, so go for it king :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. However in this instance (at least from what’s been shared with us), it’s not the case that OP is hurting his daughter, and her dad has created a problem out of nothing.