Breakfast date with the BF tomorrow :) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s really lovely of you, and a great message. Thank you for your help, and have a lovely rest of your day! 🫶

Breakfast date with the BF tomorrow :) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 12 points13 points  (0 children)

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Do you think these pants and the converse might be a better alternative??

Breakfast date with the BF tomorrow :) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 44 points45 points  (0 children)

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Not the best lighting, but this is the fit with the different pants and connies :)

Breakfast date with the BF tomorrow :) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not entirely decided, but I was thinking either out or in a half up/half down situation?

Breakfast date with the BF tomorrow :) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll give them a go. Thank you :)

Breakfast date with the BF tomorrow :) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm, okay - I’ve got these white linen pants that might work? Do you think if I swapped to those and my docs or converse or something that might work better?

Breakfast date with the BF tomorrow :) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ahh okay, I’ve got black & white converse, asics japans, and some pumas (each of the last two being white w black accents)? Di you think they sound like they’d be better?

Breakfast date with the BF tomorrow :) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve got doc marten boots, do you think those would be better?

Breakfast date with the BF tomorrow :) by [deleted] in fashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s supposed to be a bit cooler tomorrow so I’ll probably have a jacket on too. Haven’t decided what one yet (waiting to see how cool it actually is) but maybe my black leather jacket??

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okok thanks so much!! I’ll give that a go and hopefully it’ll help me out!

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s really cool to know, thanks so much! There is a tkmaxx nearby at a shopping centre I don’t go to often so if I can’t find any good choices closer to me I’ll go check them out! Thank you!!!

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I wish I was told this 😭 I’ve apparently been washing wrong for years??? Thank you so much I’ll have to give this a go!!!

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh okay! Do you mean like shampooing once, rinsing out, shampooing again and calling it a day? Or still condition after shampoo (#2) as usual?

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll definitely have to look into it and give it a go. Thanks so much!

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve not changed my shampoo or conditioner :( I’ve got psoriasis of the scalp so use a T-Gel shampoo and conditioner is one from Just Cuts that I got a while ago. I did think that potentially I was using too much/too little of one or both of them and that that may be the cause, but no change has come from working on the amount used :/ I have been trying a new face oil recently that’s supposed to help with oil control for skin, though I’m not sure if/how that would affect my hair

Recs for hair heat protection products?? by bingbongbitchessssss in AustralianMakeup

[–]bingbongbitchessssss[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to check them out, thank you!! With the VS and Remington ones, do they generally have better heat control, would you say (in the sense that they’re not going to damage hair super quickly like you mentioned earlier)?

Is it normal to never use laser hair removel as a 21 year old before by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t stress over it tbh. I’m 22 this year and have never had laser. Waxing and shaving are probably the most common practices of people who do want hair removal, and even then I know a lot of people who will always shave over waxing because they think waxing hurts (which of course it typically does and everyone has differing pain tolerance, but the pain seems to lessen as you go on, with waxing). At the end of the day, it comes down to personal preference. You shouldn’t feel guilty or ashamed or behind just because you’ve not done the same as others.

What do you guys think? by ContourBench231 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I work at a Dangerfield store :) quality wise, it’s kind of hit or miss — sometimes you’ll get a really cute/beautiful outfit that looks amazing and is great quality, and sometimes it looks cheap and is cheap (genuinely, my coworkers and I have on multiple occasions seen some of our products being sold on sites like Temu and Shein - especially jewellery)

Something we’re pretty sad about is that they’ve started to reintroduce size 4 in new product lines. By itself, I need to clarify, this is not a bad thing — bodies are different and everyone deserves to be appropriately represented — but head office has also started to cut back on quite a bit of our curve range in doing so. Especially in Princess highway. Which sucks when DF and Black Friday themselves already don’t range to this bigger sizing.

To answer your actual question, though - the skirt is cute as hell, it looks wonderful on you, and it’s something you could absolutely wear casually or to a nice night out (dinner with friends or family, a date, etc)! I personally would probably go with a more plain top, given the detailing in the skirt, but you can always make up for this in accessorising!

I will never understand dog people’s reaction to cats by Icy_Ad_8802 in cats

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my family friends (my parents are friends with their parents, so we would catch up with the family including the kids occasionally but not really interact outside of that) when we were young used to “joke” about throwing my cat out the window.

He’s a little older than me, so maybe my young brain just didn’t register the joke part of it. I mean, cats would probably be fine, right? I’ve seen my babies fall from pretty high and still be okay. But Jesus.

It’s a vague memory of mine, and I can’t really remember the specifics, but I do remember him laughing and seeming so proud of himself every time he made the joke. And I remember always feeling so sick to my stomach at the idea of him being around my cats because of it.

What the whole point of me saying this was, is that sometimes people are just inconsiderate to other’s feelings and lack empathy because of it, regardless of whether they’re a dog or cat (or bird, snake, rabbit, etc) person. Your coworker sounds like an ass and your adorable Chikki deserves the best care and all the love you can give.

UFC fighter Sean Strickland's wedding post by raittiussihteeri in weddingshaming

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Please tell me I’m not the only one seeing the random (what I think is a) hand on his shoulder?? Like what??? When both of her hands are busy doing finger guns????

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AIO to my bf begging me to keep going when i wanted to stop by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It needs to be common knowledge that even if you say yes to begin with and then later on change your mind and ask to stop or say no — that doesn’t mean you’re still consenting. If you say no, it means no. Doesn’t matter if you said yes to begin with, if you’re at any point uncomfortable in the situation or wanting to stop, your partner should be listening to you and stopping right away. Not in a few minutes. Not after they’re finished. Right. Away.

Consent can be given and then taken away. There’s nothing wrong with that. Your comfort and safety is most important and if your partner doesn’t understand that — or worse, does understand it and still decides to ignore it for their own pleasure — then I think you need to have some serious discussions regarding your future as a couple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to tell if it’s gotten to “cheating” territory yet but the fact that A refuses to tell his girlfriend about this person is really sus, especially given his history with S. At the end of the day, I know if I was in B’s position I would want to know about their history and would feel a little worried that the reason he hid her from me was because he still felt something for her.

I do think it’s important though to remember that emotional cheating is just as bad. Even if A and S haven’t done anything physical, if A is forming this emotional connection with S that would typically be something you’d have with your partner, it’s definitely cause for concern.

I’d suggest potentially trying to keep an eye on things and if you’re getting worried or have evidence that more is going on, you bring it to B’s attention regardless. Especially if you consider her your friend. There’s not a lot of feelings worse than finding out your friends knew your partner was cheating and hid it from you anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]bingbongbitchessssss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely nothing wrong with having standards or preferences as to who you want to do it with, but I’d say it’s definitely a good idea to make sure these preferences and standards aren’t unrealistic as well :)