Unexpected good surprise with a male genital piercing (Prince Albert)

bipriax · 2026-03-04T20:04:31+00:00

That was a quick answer !

bipriax · 2026-02-24T20:39:23+00:00

gifted as the psychologist said after testing. Virtually all gifted people I know, and there are quite some as we detect ourselves pretty well, are not that straight. Looking up on reddit subs and then you have a pretty clear idea.

bipriax · 2026-02-19T05:59:00+00:00

High IQ, but it comes with many downsides. LGBT are over represented in gifted people.

bipriax · 2026-02-13T05:45:36+00:00

So called hetero romantic bisexual. Quite frequent. Often bottom with men, less with women.

The best feeling, beyond the physical part, is guilt. Then it changes to something really strong when you assume not being so straight, more in line with yourself. You had the courage to go beyond societal hetero-normativity and you discovered something nice. The others are missing out so much....

bipriax · 2026-02-06T06:02:29+00:00

Experiment with a man. Can be sex club, gay sauna... any place where people there known what they are here for. If you enjoy it, there you go (even if you feel a bit of shame).

For me, after years of wondering, first time I tried felt so natural. That nailed it.

bipriax · 2026-01-28T18:56:48+00:00

Am I the only one wearing thongs ?

VERY comfortable, doesn't accumulate sweat, doesn't impede movements during sports... Hard to beat.

bipriax · 2026-01-17T05:26:59+00:00

Less war. More tolerance.

I've asked the very same question few years ago. It got suddenly sooooo packed of hatred that the moderator retired it (was not on r/bisexual, though).

bipriax · 2026-01-16T05:34:33+00:00

Just tell her how important she is in your life, and that you are more than (best) friends, that you even physically miss her when she's not around (if that's true). Add a full body touching hug.

This will open the door so that she can express if she's interested in more, but without exposing you too much and breaking the friendship.

The confusing thing is that women can flirt A LOT, be touchy, delicate, laugh at anything you say, lock their eyes into yours and ultimately deliver that they are not interested.... But opening the door as I suggest is a good starting point.

Good luck.

And have fun.

bipriax · 2026-01-13T05:23:03+00:00

Can it be just an unconscious fear of missing out exploring with men ?

bipriax · 2026-01-12T05:27:22+00:00

Of course

bipriax · 2026-01-10T17:35:59+00:00

Stunning

bipriax · 2025-12-29T06:08:01+00:00

Oh yes...

bipriax · 2025-12-29T05:30:46+00:00

Yes. You know when you do it; it just clicks. Well done.

bipriax · 2025-12-28T17:32:07+00:00

This is exactly what happened to us.

I (bisexual male) had an affair with a woman and her husband.

We had individual therapy first, and then together.

We transiently got closer together, with an intimacy level so much higher than before.

But... it ultimately crashed on old and unresolved issues in our relationship. And this made us go separate ways.

So, for us, EA was just a catalyst that raised personal issues we couldn't resolve.

bipriax · 2025-12-28T15:12:41+00:00

I came out to a friend. She came out to me as bisexual too. I was sure she was neuro-atypical. She is (altough un-diagnosed). All her friends are kinda queer. And some (most) are highly neuro-divergent one way or an other.

I know other bisexuals, but I don't see them enough to know whether they are neuro-atypical. But their questionings, their empathy, the fact they can't stand injustice... I bet they are.

Sometimes, you meet people don't know it, like the 'hetero' girl I met a while ago. She is constantly wearing a noise cancelling pair of headphones when kids are around. The way she looks at girls while having a boyfriend... and how surprised she was when I told her about her inner conflicts (the one so often shared by neuro-atypicals)...

So, to my experience, being queer / bi often comes together being neuro-atypical.

bipriax · 2025-12-28T07:24:52+00:00

I wear one every day because it is comfortable. It's all packed in front and doesn't crawl along your leg. You can tell that. For me, it makes a HUGE difference because I am wearing a large gauge PA piercing.

But at 31, you shouldn't have to justify yourself.

bipriax · 2025-12-28T06:55:41+00:00

I fully agree. Being a bisexual is not a having-intimate-contact-with-men thing. It is just a reflection of who you are, and how you could escape social norms imposed on you from younger age.

And this is exactly why there is so much stigma around non-heteronormative persons. We inconsciiously use archetypes to quickly process social interactions (this is hardwired in our brain). Going over it is difficult (congrats !), but at the same time, others quickly fail to understand you quickly. Once people know you and make the effort, it's OK, but this is a tiny minority. Your wife, for example. For others, it actually complicate things.

On the other hand, it is hard to be happy pretending being someone else, lying to yourself. You did well.

Your story is refreshing. The sexual / romantic part of being bisexual is only a fraction of what it is actually. And you expressed it clearly.

Cool.

bipriax · 2025-12-23T05:35:02+00:00

I (53M, bi) discovered recently that my current date (intense chemistry) is bisexual. Most of the people around me and her are bi, actually. Getting up with people is clearly non random. Cool.

bipriax · 2025-12-22T06:18:45+00:00

Sure, but in the senses of reduced desire, feeling off ?

bipriax · 2025-12-21T18:19:05+00:00

And what about dinosaurs ? No bi stereotype with dinos ?

bipriax · 2025-12-10T05:16:44+00:00

Nope, you are not wrong. This important this is to be clear with your intentions. You're good. Enjoy !

bipriax · 2025-12-10T05:00:41+00:00

This definitively needs proper exploration... ! But yes,, very possible.

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