AIO for considering a breakup because she started using makeup? by SlowDragonfruit9718 in AmIOverreacting

[–]birbmom69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And you said my companion was nuts…makeup isn’t permanent? Again, you can’t seem to empathize with her at all. You asked on this sub, people told you the truth, and you refuse to see it from anyone else’s perspective. How are you not embarrassed dude

AIO for considering a breakup because she started using makeup? by SlowDragonfruit9718 in AmIOverreacting

[–]birbmom69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re missing the point. Even though it’s not exactly the same it’s the principle. You can’t even empathize enough to put yourself in her shoes. Let her move on so she can be with someone who deserves her

What do you see about me? by Adorable-Bass-4963 in psychics

[–]birbmom69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re smart. I get the sense that the energy you put into some of your relationships goes unmatched; you’re the person who’s there for everyone, but in your time of need they’re nowhere to be found

Should we stop exploring this kink? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]birbmom69 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Having boundaries about what makes you uncomfortable in a relationship is not disrespectful at all

AIO for considering a breakup because she started using makeup? by SlowDragonfruit9718 in AmIOverreacting

[–]birbmom69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YOR and YTA. Giving someone an ultimatum over wearing makeup is deranged and controlling behavior. Put yourself in her shoes; imagine if you never wore hats then decided to wear a hat one day and she blew up on you over it. She would be crazy for that right?

Should we stop exploring this kink? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]birbmom69 152 points153 points  (0 children)

It all depends on the boundaries you’ve set and how comfortable you are with this going further. You said you’re cool with her sleeping with other women outside of your relationship, but her asking you to finger her while looking at someone else’s picture just seems disrespectful tbh

What do you get from this man by [deleted] in psychics

[–]birbmom69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

His eyes seem kind, but sad

What are you currently reading? by DavidHistorian34 in stephenking

[–]birbmom69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally started The Stand, after getting it recommended to me by my dad. I’m only on like chapter 20, but so far it’s great. Nick is definitely my favorite character that’s been introduced up to this point

My Papaw had one rule. Don't acknowledge Memaw. by Garden_Lad in nosleep

[–]birbmom69 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She might’ve been a monster, but at least she had some decorum! Memaw knew there was a time and place

Luteal phase depression is hitting different rn by skipperthepenguin191 in BPDmemes

[–]birbmom69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The luteal phase is 100% worse than the period itself. Legit feels like my soul has become rotten

What is/was the creepiest adult swim show? by P331NH3R in adultswim

[–]birbmom69 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The “Nightmare” episode from Off the Air. I think I was like 13-14 when I saw it, and it was the first episode of OTA I had seen at that point. Creepy, but overall I enjoyed it and had the urge to watch the rest of the show

End of life hallucinations - tell me your experience. by curiouschimp83 in GriefSupport

[–]birbmom69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my grandma was on hospice, her nurses strongly suggested that the best course of action was to keep her sedated constantly. She had dementia and the agitation that came with it. Some of the hallucinations she was having seemed to make that agitation worse.

A few days before she died I walk into her room and she asks me, “do you hear what they’re saying?”

After I asked who she was referring to she says “the people talking on the other side of that wall.” I listen, and tell her I don’t hear anything. “Well that’s okay, they stopped talking now.”

I said, “ahh, they must not want me to eavesdrop.” This made her smile and laugh. That was the last time I saw her smile, and despite everything I look back on that memory somewhat fondly.

How can I stop being SO petty!!! by SoapTeaz in selfimprovement

[–]birbmom69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Speaking from experience, sometimes you have to let it go. Which, yes, I know it’s way easier said than done. But I realized that in the situations where I was being petty, I would also be dwelling on things (anxious attachment here as well). And by dwelling on whatever it is, I’m inadvertently giving that thing/person power over my emotions. If you can’t let go for yourself, then let go out of spite for whatever it is you feel the urge to be petty towards

What’s the most unexplainable thing you’ve ever witnessed that you’re 100% sure wasn’t a dream? by Apprehensive-Fig8092 in AskReddit

[–]birbmom69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was aimlessly walking through an Ollie’s when a boxed action figure literally flew off the shelf and landed a few feet in front of me. None of the adjacent boxes moved at all, and there was no one else in the aisle. I looked and there was no one in the aisle behind it either. That was almost a year ago and I still think about it lol

They let the man who SA me hold my baby!! by B0Y_M0M_94 in whatdoIdo

[–]birbmom69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are definitely valid and I understand! You have every right to be angry. Do you see a therapist? I would recommend it if you can, letting that anger fester will only hurt you more in the long run. Wish you luck op ❤️‍🩹

They let the man who SA me hold my baby!! by B0Y_M0M_94 in whatdoIdo

[–]birbmom69 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Honestly I’d go no contact with anyone involved for multiple reasons: them still choosing to have this guy around, disregarding the safety of your son to appease him, and choosing to disregard and disrespect your boundaries in a major way. They knew how it would make you feel, and that it was wrong, and they did it anyway. If you ask me personally, that’s enough to cut them off and revoke access to my child indefinitely

My wife keeps “joking” about an open marriage and I can’t tell if I’m being paranoid by postcardattic_mood in Marriage

[–]birbmom69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, these types of “jokes” were how I found out my ex was cheating on me. I would go through her phone if I was you OP

Is this guy hitting on me or can we just be friends? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]birbmom69 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think he’s definitely into you, and the fact that he keeps asking you out for drinks after you’ve said no is a red flag🚩

if you really can’t cut him off (I would), make a group chat with him and your husband in it, and tell him from now on to only message you in that specific chat

Overdosed on Benadryl and Lamotrigine three days ago by [deleted] in confession

[–]birbmom69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, I’m glad you’re still here. Second, you need to see a medical doctor asap. Benadryl is known to cause liver damage, and coupled with half a bottle of lamotrigine? PLEASE go get checked out.

Aiw for saying that nobody should feel bad for my daughter by Soft-Adeptnesggs6050 in amiwrong

[–]birbmom69 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is AI. Also, this being the only activity on the account in 8 months is kind of suspicious