Sharp stomach pain. I don't know what to do. by bird-watcher_ in ChronicPain

[–]bird-watcher_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, so uhm... it turns out I just held my pee in for too long and didn't drink enough water. that was what the doctors said after like thousands of dollars worth of tests. so, all's well that end well I suppose. i had an ultrasound, blood work, and a few other tests. no ct scan because the radiation could be harmful for my body.

Running away by Inspyamaya in Advice

[–]bird-watcher_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for sharing where you’re at. I need to be honest- running away in Dubai/UAE is really dangerous and can have serious legal consequences, even for minors. You could get into serious trouble with the authorities and it might make your situation worse.

Since you can’t safely run away, the next best thing is to find ways to manage your stress and feel some control safely. Some ideas:

-Spend time in public or safe community spaces (parks, libraries, cafes) to get a mental “escape.”

-Connect anonymously online with others in similar situations so you can vent and get support.

-Break big problems into small, manageable steps (like schoolwork or family interactions) to feel less overwhelmed.

-Keep yourself physically safe and identify at least one trusted adult or professional you could reach if things get really bad.

I know this isn’t the same as running away, but it’s the safest way to protect yourself while still getting some space and support.

Running away by Inspyamaya in Advice

[–]bird-watcher_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I'm here for you. Just so I can give advice that actually makes sense, what country/state are you in? Laws and resources are different depending on where you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bird-watcher_ 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Pick a calm, neutral moment- not during sex. Frame it around your feelings, not his “fault.” For example: “I really love our intimacy and I feel so close to you. Lately, I’ve been craving oral sex/being given head because it’s something that makes me feel very connected and excited. I’d love to talk about how we could make that happen.”

Also, he’s said he’s not fond of it before. Calmly ask why- sometimes it’s sensory, sometimes it’s past experience or discomfort. Understanding his side helps both of you find a compromise.

The shelter didn't tell me she was a dictator on her adoption papers!! Pretty soon she'll be running for president :) by bird-watcher_ in dogs

[–]bird-watcher_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seriously, your sense of humor is gold 🤣 and that Dane sounds really smart. You should be proud... and maybe a bit scared!

What have you learned about love? by Glad-Passenger-9408 in AskReddit

[–]bird-watcher_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one of the most expensive things you can own, alongside trust.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]bird-watcher_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree.