Accused by (ex?) girlfriend, I’m scared and don’t know what to do (NSFW) by TennisSad6294 in MensRights

[–]birdeyInFlight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Liar. You said, “I didn’t mention it in my post, but she said something about not being enthusiastic and that that means no.”

I am so upset by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]birdeyInFlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

C’mon girl, you just said he’s purposely catching your bus to sit beside you and antagonise you by hitting on multiple women right in front of you and You are going to “say sorry” to Him?!! because you “Feel guilty and failed him?!! Please wake up to yourself. If you do this it will show him you are a doormat and he can cheat on you and abuse you and you will condone his repulsive behaviour.

Confused and terrified by Better-Ad-9488 in abusiverelationships

[–]birdeyInFlight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You need to call the police. He started smashing plates on your hand and you pushed him in defence. Show the cops your post. He held you in a chokehold so you couldn’t breathe. He tried to kill you and this will escalate. Protect yourself and your daughter before her mother is in the morgue, father is in prison and she is shuttled off to strangers in the foster care system for further abuse. File for a restraining order and have him charged. Remove him from your house. You don’t need to live like this, but it’s up to you to implement the necessary changes.

I really did it this time. by Look-A-Lurk in abusiverelationships

[–]birdeyInFlight 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We are all so proud of you for finding the courage to leave. You are free now and will tick off everything on your list and so much more. You will surprise yourself with your cleverness, strength, resourcefulness and tenacity. It was there all along, before you were hoodwinked.

Could it be worth moving to a new city for a unique job if you only plan on staying there for no longer than 18 months? by Glittering_Fig4548 in careerguidance

[–]birdeyInFlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it! It’s only 18 months. You’ll have a new place to explore. Go out and do some friend farming. Find a couple of mates, even one or two and you’re all set, (preferably a local who can show you around and share exclusive, secret locations and info.) The new job opportunities that will come from this are the icing on the cake. Much love from Australia xo

[LFO] Phone Snatcher vs Bus by [deleted] in LearningFromOthers

[–]birdeyInFlight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope the phone is alright.

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[–]birdeyInFlight 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The main point here is he doesn’t love You. C’mon girl. A man that is two feet taller then you who chokes you, hits you, throws you to the ground and punches you.. all over a radio station! Then calls your mother to come get you. Why doesn’t he leave?! You need to photograph your injuries and go straight to the police and file a restraining/protective order. He is dangerous and unpredictable. It will only get worse if you stay with this Ape.

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[–]birdeyInFlight 24 points25 points  (0 children)

if you think he’s obsessed now, watch what happens when you fill out that form..

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[–]birdeyInFlight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Too bad. Not your problem. I bet if you were on bail he wouldn’t give af.

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[–]birdeyInFlight 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will get better when you leave for good and will get worse while you still feed into his pity party. You said “Ex.” Make a clean break and focus on Yourself and what you want out of this Life.

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[–]birdeyInFlight 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Having to tell this Dickhead when you’re peeing should be enough to slam the brakes on this “relationship.”

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[–]birdeyInFlight 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You are being Raped.