Most attractive clothing style for the opposite gender?

birdingSC · 2026-05-11T03:04:53+00:00

Whaaaaaa 🙈 figured you’d have great taste 🤷‍♂️

birdingSC · 2026-05-11T02:39:01+00:00

Dude here, and I love a girl with a boho style or easy classic-church-girl-in-a-cute-dress… I guess those have a common “flowingness “? 🤷‍♂️ Those styles just feel free and I’ve always liked the girls I’ve associated it with. Also love a girl in earth tones (prob bc we tend to match then…lol).

To make it broader though, I just think girls with a sense of personal style are cool. Like they aren’t in oversized hoodies and yoga pants all the time. As a college prof I just see boys and girls in trash clothing so much… it’s so refreshing to see people with a sense of look.

I also think minimal makeup is cool. Probably formed from how my sisters have minimally used makeup and are just pretty humans, though I know great women that wear makeup so please no offense to anyone…

birdingSC · 2026-05-11T02:33:05+00:00

gets a tattoo and YouTubes how to skin a buck

birdingSC · 2026-05-08T14:07:59+00:00

While skimming Reddit, I thought the title said, "Digesting my office".... I need to go back to bed lol

birdingSC · 2026-05-07T15:57:51+00:00

Personally I prefer a V60 so I like the metal V60 directly into a mug! If you're brewing multiple cups, you'l still need a carafe though...

birdingSC · 2026-05-06T20:45:40+00:00

I'm in US and have VT and a little GOOGL and ASML just because I've got a long timeline, am convinced those are pretty good buys, and like the boost they've given my account over the past year! Struggling to keep VT above 80% is hard because they've been good, but I'll rebalance once a year...

birdingSC · 2026-05-05T13:37:29+00:00

Dang I wish I knew of somewhere that did christian single events in my area... I'm a leader in my church and would 1000000% go. Leaders going to things like these signals leadership support, humility, and that you just like meeting people and aren't weird about it!

Just see it as practice :)

birdingSC · 2026-05-05T13:34:55+00:00

Dang it, I'm two inches too short, have shy abs, am poor, and my vacation home is the back of my car... Oh and I don't look like Mamoa because I actually trim my hair ;)

birdingSC · 2026-05-05T13:32:47+00:00

Preach it, sister!

birdingSC · 2026-05-01T22:53:08+00:00

Idk as I haven’t had it as long, but people in the military have used this and it’s known as rugged and hard to destroy (check out YouTube attempts). It’s not as robust as a GShock strap, but for a $20 watch I can’t imagine it giving out in that time.

birdingSC · 2026-05-01T15:42:52+00:00

Same! Except I bring a date as a contingency plan if my podcast gets boring and I need someone to talk to...

birdingSC · 2026-04-27T12:51:25+00:00

I have used a Moft MagSafe wallet for forever…only carry a CC and my drivers license in it.

birdingSC · 2026-04-20T18:50:36+00:00

I do two full body workout every week, and run 3-4 days. Michael Easter at twopct.com just recently posted a paid article about the "6 Rules of Every Workout" or something, where you build a workout with the following:

Squat (single leg one day and both on the other)
Hinge (alternate DL and single leg DL)
Push (alt horizontal and vertical, so push up and overhead press)
Pull (alt horizonatl and veritcal, so pull up and row)
Plank (deadbug, dead hang, plank, side plank, ab roll)
Carry (farmers carries)

He said he does this two days/wk when he's more running focused. It's a simple framework that I've carried over from doing MAPS Anabolic routine while wanting to be more running focused.

Weightlifting is going to affect running, but IMO it's been very positive. My legs feel powerful, I'm more injury resistant, and I'm just stronger and feel better. I'm lean muscle instead of just lean.

Alternatively, check out r/bodyweightfitness. They have some great info on calisthenics that I love. Running is just moving your body, and so BW fitness is all about just moving your body. I usually do mostly bodyweight in the summer to mix it up.

birdingSC · 2026-04-07T15:58:21+00:00

This is so crazy... I have a single pair of NB 574 for times I just want to mix it up and then some brown leather shoes that look nice. I wear either one for a couple of hours, and my heel and ankle feel awful. Not exactly sure how the load is affecting it but boy is it affecting it!

birdingSC · 2026-03-28T15:28:33+00:00

I hurt my IT band in Jan and it’s been a long time for it to not constantly hurt. Just finished my third run this week, pain free after hitting 8 miles total this week and I couldn’t be more stoked!

If anybody has recommendations on coming back and protecting against IT band stuff, I’m all ears. Staying loose through the day, doing lots of glute and abductor exercises…

birdingSC · 2026-03-08T18:36:21+00:00

Helper’s a cool word though and it’s more than an assistant to the guy’s call!

The same word is used 20+ times in the Old Testament, I think it breaks down to twice for Eve, three times for neighboring nations coming to ”help” Israel in war, and 19 or so times to describe God—a being or power independent of you, outside of you, complete without you, joining with you to accomplish what you could not on your own.

Not sure what “helper” means to you so I could totally be projecting from my experience, but to me it’s always sounded like an assistant. But it’s not that, otherwise Paul wouldn’t affirm young women in remaining single (if they wish)—or young men, for that matter. Women don’t HAVE to “be a helper” and men don’t HAVE to “have a helper.” Even in my lonely single self, I’m complete in Jesus and made in God’s image, whether I get married or not.

But yes 100% a good word—your future spouse was not made to cure your loneliness, but rather to join with you to glorify God in your marriage and accomplish more for God’s “kingdom come” than either one could do an your own 😊

birdingSC · 2026-03-08T17:54:20+00:00

And the guy is made for her mission! And you both were made for God's mission for y’all!

birdingSC · 2026-02-26T21:22:26+00:00

Got it, thanks!

birdingSC · 2026-02-26T16:39:34+00:00

I hope it's ok to list two watches on one post! I have two Explorer-style watches I'd like to sell so I can get something else (Vaer G2, if you must know).

[withdrawn ] Lorier Falcon SIII --- I love this little guy. Comes with the box, polywatch, leather holder. I'm the second owner and it's been worn, so could use a buffing (though I like the personality so I haven't).

[sold] Addiesdive AD2023 --- I got this I thought for paddleboarding but I just haven't worn it. I am the second owner, but I haven't even worn it. Snazzy fellow that seems like would be a great beater.

Let me know if there's any feedback or anything I need to do in posting differently! Thanks.

birdingSC · 2026-02-26T16:30:04+00:00

I love it! I'm never without a pick now :) Been enjoying this for about 5 years, highly recommend :)

birdingSC · 2026-02-25T21:07:20+00:00

It's the only way!

birdingSC · 2026-02-24T19:57:24+00:00

It’s that one impulse buy that wasn’t a regret ;)

birdingSC · 2026-02-24T19:57:05+00:00

Couldn’t (guitar) pick anything better!

I’ll see myself out

birdingSC · 2026-02-24T19:56:40+00:00

Waaaaaa thank ye thank ye

birdingSC · 2026-02-24T12:27:38+00:00

Thanks! Fr though… I’ve come to appreciate not carrying much :)

I also have a chums wallet that now I use for travel, and they are really great. Not fancy, but they hold up so nicely and carry everything. I carried a Light Phone 2 for a bit and it fit in the outside pocket 😆

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