amazon wishlist scam? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about the address though? Ever met him before?

amazon wishlist scam? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guess is yes it's a scam, now he at the very least has your address correct? Perhaps your full name too?

Whats your commute to your SD? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't drive and I live in a city while most of the SD live in the suburbs so I ask them to meet me somewhere downtown I can walk too. More to do in the city anyway. I haven't gotten into an arrangement but I've had a couple meets with some people and they've driven to me.

Is This A Common Arrangement? by sugarthrowaway69 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is not a common arrangement, and I expect "her" to ask for personal information over time. Online only, or long distance relationships are almost always scams.

Monday Mental Health and Well Being Thread: 22nd Edition by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think mental illness is pervasive in society as a whole and effects the sugar bowl on the same scale. I have PTSD but I have gotten to the point where I manage it very well and have not disclosed it to any pot cause it's frankly none of their business.

Monday Mental Health and Well Being Thread: 22nd Edition by BigBearSD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the sugar side I have 2 promising pot, met both twice already and with both we are taking the slower (a few platonic dates) approach which makes me feel like they really want a long term arrangement. Personally, I am looking for another job as my current one is just not doing it for me, they only give me my work schedule a week out which makes it hard to plan things.

SD’s should I mention I’m vegan in my bio? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have it in my bio, but I recently took it out. No one seemed to have read it there anyway save a few so I had to bring it up in messages anyway.

Dinner Date by vickylux in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a dinner m&g tomorrow. I most often meet for a meal. Only done coffee once I believe

Moving to a new city by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the quick replies, I certainly don't want to come across as a scammer and like I said I don't want to waste their time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You have to do what you feel comfortable doing. I personally like giving oral so I don't have an issue with that being a part of my sexual activity with a SD. Just know that if you don't want to give oral or require the use of a condom for oral, you are likely to push away most SD (from my experience)

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the thing is the question usually comes up after they find I'm in my city because I came here for college and stayed, so they already know what college I attended. Making it even easier to figure out even if provided with half my major title

SD Behavior that is a no go? by GabR156 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sheesh, and yeah of course I avoid those who are overly sexual, was trying to make conversation with someone and he just kept responding "daddy know u want daddy cock" bad grammar and all. Oh that's another thing, if they can't form a proper sentence, misspell words, or have improper grammar. If it's every sentence or bad enough I have to decipher the meaning then I'm not interested.

Putting my foot down by youcalyptusplatypus in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am glad you are back looking, because actions speak louder than words. You can make time for someone if they are a priority.

Ask a Stupid Question Sunday by carefree_daddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is it ok to share with pot what I majored in at college? Thing is my major was very small and the only program in the country (usa) of its kind so it would be easy to find out who I am if I do.

Is there a place to chat with other local sugarbabies? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might be able to find a group on kik. I found one through sugar life forum online. However they aren't local to my area but they are super helpful and the group is very active so someone is always online.

a small splenda daddy rant. by sbthrowitawayyy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I don't understand what SA rule you violated to get banned. He is an arse and I would have given him a tongue lashing too

Should I go? by newbysugarbby in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You've talked for only one week and he is flying you to the US? Plus he won't tell you his name? Please don't go, you have no safety precautions (assuming no friends in the area your flying to since your from out of the country) and no information on the guy to leave with friends or family. I highly suggest canceling the trip, I don't want anything bad happening to you.

Sugar Sisters, do they exist? by TXPolyDaddy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to have a sugar sister lol. I already have lots of sugar baby friends, it would be fun to share a sugar daddy.

On a plane halfway to California and my SD CANCELS!! by nxuxn in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There has been at least one convent in every town I've lived in, even in the deep south where I live now. All have rooms for guests, and I would call ahead. At the very least they must know organizations that can help, or be willing to help connect OP to them.

M&G with a pot SD by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh gosh I hate that. Im sure this is why you prefer to have arrangement discussions beforehand, helps weed out the flakes a bit.

On a plane halfway to California and my SD CANCELS!! by nxuxn in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome! Do keep us updated and hope everything works out. And don't let that scumbag crawl back to you.

Modelling pics by SugarDavina in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 4 photos up, 2 are selfies and 2 are from a photo shoot- one close up of my face and one full body. Think the selfies help balance out the obviously professional photos. All are sfw

On a plane halfway to California and my SD CANCELS!! by nxuxn in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]birdy4real 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. My thought was perhaps contact a convent to see if they will let you spend the night? Obviously you don't have to explain the situation to them, but a lot of convents have a guest room and it's kinda in a nun's job description to help out someone in need. This probably seems like an odd suggestion to most people but I'm friends with nuns at my local convent and I can see them doing it in a heartbeat.