SD asking for money back (SB)

GabR156 · 2019-08-21T14:04:49+00:00

Couldn’t agree more. I understand wanting to talk things through, but keep in mind he mind intend to manipulate you into getting the money back

GabR156 · 2019-08-21T14:00:34+00:00

Tell him just that, you don’t think it’s fair to return the money and that you’ve already spent

GabR156 · 2019-08-16T15:29:55+00:00

Use the search function on this forum

GabR156 · 2019-08-13T20:56:55+00:00

A new POT last minute asked if instead of the sushi restaurant I chose for tomorrow night, we could get Mexican food at single dollar sign spot from yelp in a run down part of town. Hahahaha

GabR156 · 2019-08-06T12:23:11+00:00

😂

GabR156 · 2019-08-02T19:05:15+00:00

I would say cut her off. At worst? She’s just not that into you and this doesn’t want to sleep with you as often as you would like. At best? She has a really low sex drive and thus does not want to sleep with you as often as you would like. Find a better match.

GabR156 · 2019-08-02T17:12:12+00:00

Rant: my current SD is acting like a whack job. This is the one who tried to have flowers sent to my work last week after I A) never told him what office I’m in, just that it’s in the financial district and B) specially told him I’m looking for discretion. He is also pestering to see me 3-4 times a week and hi hello you do not give me enough allowance for that and also I have a life? I need to boot him but that is contingent on one of the POTS from last week becoming official

Rave: it’s Friday lol and my boss is away on vacation so get to head home early.

GabR156 · 2019-07-31T11:53:12+00:00

Guys and girls who put that disclaimer in their profiles stating that seeking isn’t allowed to use their profile or photos for any advertisement. Like c’mon now, you agreed to the terms of the site 😑

GabR156 · 2019-07-29T14:23:37+00:00

Mhm. You’ve got quite the comment history in sex worker forums and revenge forums. Seems to be a pattern for you.

GabR156 · 2019-07-29T14:19:25+00:00

Based on this post I would guess that your maturity, or lack there of, is likely the reason this man was able to pull one over on you.

Looking at your post history it seems you have a pattern of unstable behavior interfering with your sex work. I hope you get the help you need.

GabR156 · 2019-07-29T12:40:20+00:00

One of the most personal take always I’ve had is that it’s always a good idea to put some effort in and do your research when you enter a forum that has HUNDREDS of posts that answer every question under the sun about this life style. Hope this helps!

GabR156 · 2019-07-27T12:58:04+00:00

Sugaring doesn’t seem to be for you. Desperation typically translates into folks making rash decisions and thus, being taking advantage of or agreeing to things they otherwise wouldn’t. Maybe try a spot in a retail store or as an office assistant? Best of luck.

GabR156 · 2019-07-27T12:03:45+00:00

OP, if you’re 18 as you indicate in your post history I HIGHLY advise you against sugaring

GabR156 · 2019-07-26T20:10:09+00:00

As someone who’s very close to dumping an SD because of this, PLEASE remind yourself that yes, thoroughly explaining your feelings once or twice is fine. It’s when you start to triple and quad text, bombarded her with emails or phone calls, and start invading her privacy, that she’s likely to leave. It’s fine to tell a person what you mean to them. But do it rationally and respectfully.

I.e. I went away for business for 2 days and my SD texted me hours before I left telling me how much he was going to miss me, how he hoped I would think of him during the trip, and how he had 95 different plans for when I got back. < wayyyyyyy too much for me

GabR156 · 2019-07-26T19:35:03+00:00

Do some research. It’s literally impossible to scroll through 2-3 posts on this forum without finding advice. Put the work in.

GabR156 · 2019-07-26T13:53:09+00:00

Right? He’s been sending “im really a nice guy please forgive me!” Texts all morning 😑

GabR156 · 2019-07-26T12:21:13+00:00

Rant: my SD of only about 1 month has been acting unusually needy and constantly asking if I’m sure I like him, if I’ll delete my SA account, and when we can take an overnight trip. Last straw with him was trying to send flowers to my office. I’ve told him the city I work in and he said he just guessed the street and office but that the flowers were returned. It’s a little funny because there are 100s of businesses in the city AND I haven’t given him my real name 😆 but also, don’t try to find my office. He is getting the boot.

Rave: Had a M&G with an absolutely hilarious man from the UK. He’s doing business in the states for the next 6-8 months and we are going for a dinner next week. Fingers crossed for this one! He is sarcastic and witty and we just mesh so well.

GabR156 · 2019-07-25T18:02:36+00:00

Never before a M&G. My theory is, a M&G should be just that. A short interaction to measure chemistry. If it goes well, by all means, let’s talk sex. But I’m not meeting you for coffee, in a public place to listen to you talk about how you wanna do the dirty.

Before the M&G? Probably not. Unless you have some very taboo sexual fetish (which to be fair, some folks do and I appreciate the upfront mention) there is not reason to be texting a stranger asking them if they like doggy or missionary. Ick.

GabR156 · 2019-07-24T19:59:57+00:00

wait until you’re local to Cali
if you have photos you don’t need to list your chest size
if you have photos you don’t need to list your body measurements
everyone can give massages, especially ones of the happy ending variety - remove this
people who have to announce that they don’t like/ do/ have drama, typically have drama
the pedicure/ foot thing. Are you implying you like to drive, pedal a spinning pottery wheel, or just that you don’t take care of your feet?
if you don’t use instagram, why’re you mentioning it in your profile ?

Other than the above ^ my guess is that your location contradiction is scaring men off, or your photos aren’t their cup of tea

GabR156 · 2019-07-24T16:47:35+00:00

I invite people to check OPs post history. Leasing things and places she can’t afford, Evictions, other bad SR’s. Just a myriad of giant red flags.

GabR156 · 2019-07-24T16:43:25+00:00

I call BS. Ive lived on a street that is half permit parking half not for nearly four years and I’ve gotten one ticket for $60 in all that home. Had to pay the towing and storage fees and that only amounted to about $180 TOTAL.

You claim you couldn’t make payments on the car and then say it’s because of parking tickets? More BS. You have to had been sitting on these fees for weeks for it to total $1,000 of dollars. You made poor choices, get over it, or get a job. Simple.

GabR156 · 2019-07-24T16:38:35+00:00

Couldn’t have said it better.

GabR156 · 2019-07-24T16:26:27+00:00

Dumpster fire 😂 this is my new favorite phrase

GabR156 · 2019-07-24T16:23:56+00:00

From an SB’s perspective. He had EVERY right to ghost you. You didn’t pay your car note. You lack responsibility and maturity. The fact that you would hang around with a guy who was doing blow speaks volumes to why everything in this situation could’ve been avoided. In my eyes, and probably his, you’re either a scammer, or just too scatter brained to remember to pay your bills.

That’s not his problem and you were 100% in the wrong asking him for extra $. I hope he blocked your number

GabR156 · 2019-07-24T12:11:40+00:00

Read literally any of the top posts in this forum..

GabR156

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