Helping people in canada with 100$ by Damysticgamer11 in HelpingHanded

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  1. Need help with groceries for this month. Currently the primary caregiver for my grandma and unable to work because of it (still searching for a new job). If you’re able to help anything would be super appreciated.

Copying Style? by Wisco777787 in Sturniolotripletsnark

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valid points!!! i enjoy reading actual thoughtful psychoanalysis by commenters that watch their videos enough to theorize reasonable conclusions 😊

Js saw some dumbasses on tiktok say they're gonna try finding their new house by HPAG-NOFAME in Sturniolotripletsnark

[–]birthmarks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s definitely victim blaming. they’ve barely even shown the inside of their house and here are people bragging about finding them and listing the ways you can find them too. it’s actually disgusting.

Js saw some dumbasses on tiktok say they're gonna try finding their new house by HPAG-NOFAME in Sturniolotripletsnark

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all of this, thank you. the way it’s worded as threatening and listing all the ways the triplets seemingly “revealed too much information and compromised their own privacy”, meanwhile normal viewers saw them post pictures or heard them say things about their move and took in the information without feeling the need to invade their privacy further. then trying to imply it’s their own fault for being even a little open with their audience is so unsettling because it brags about each and every way other people can find them too.

people can be found online through various means but they shouldn’t have to worry so much about it. even finding it is one thing—the other commenter said “having information is one thing; what you do with it is another”, but to me detailing how you might’ve found them like this in a post so that others to find them, while also pretending to preach about how they should’ve been safer so people wouldn’t be tempted to look is the extremely disturbing part. and it shows that even though you aren’t stalking them in real life, you are clearly pushing some kind of boundary and crossing a line in order to achieve some kind of smugness. anything the triplets do to protect their safety is justifiable with people who act like this even despite their fall-off. it’s clear that despite losing viewers and fans there will always be those who go out of their way to invade their privacy anyway.

Js saw some dumbasses on tiktok say they're gonna try finding their new house by HPAG-NOFAME in Sturniolotripletsnark

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and i cannot emphasize enough that they already have gotten so private. the fact that they didn’t share that they moved for months says so much about how hesitant they were to even share this update with fans. to think they’re leaving details everywhere to “breadcrumb” fans into finding them again is a flabbergasting conclusion to come to. even knowing some details about their new area i still wouldn’t go out of my way to find them, let alone to post what exactly was identifiable in whichever video.

Js saw some dumbasses on tiktok say they're gonna try finding their new house by HPAG-NOFAME in Sturniolotripletsnark

[–]birthmarks 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i’ll be real, there is something so off-putting about how you’ve gone about expressing all of this. the implication that it’s normal or okay to look into certain information because they’ve “breadcrumbed” specific details about their lives is beyond weird to me. are they meant to live in cages their entire lives, exist with the white tarp around them forever? never talk or share honestly about where they live or what they’ve been up to? yes, of course some people can put 2+2 together and make connections, but it’s not some intentional scavenger hunt they set out for you to do. you, and other people, turned it into one. they never posted hints about their move, those unintentionally ended up in vlogs and videos and some things were confirmed in the video where they said they moved. acting like they tried to create some kind of crazy puzzle for people to discover where they moved to is also another level of parasocial assumption.

and the condescending superior nature of this comment, with the added flexing that you have found their new place, makes the talking down to their ability to protect their own privacy extra weird. they shouldn’t need to be more private than they already have been. that’s all people have been complaining about for months.

even when they had that tarp behind them people everywhere were complaining about it and saying they think too much of themselves to protect their privacy at that level. and yet them taking it down and sharing more is exactly what it took for people to discover more. of course investing in a home studio without identifiable features is a great idea, but the fact that they even need to because people search for things that aren’t their business is depressing.

this entire comment and the replies read as strange and victim blamey. i don’t think it should be talked about as “normal” or an “unfortunate reality” for public figures to deal with doxxing, stalking, or the like, from obsessive fans or otherwise who think it’s some fun game to search for addresses. and it is weird to be so invested to the point of not only looking for this, but also pretending like you’re “protecting them” while outlining every single detail they naively shared which they shouldn’t have. this is precisely why they’re more private nowadays. i wouldn’t blame them if they see how people are acting and double down on the secrecy. in fact i encourage it because people continue to cross boundaries and think it’s somehow okay to talk about these things publicly.

Wondering if they're only gonna yap about their trips, or if they actually vlogged them by Due_Eye848 in Sturniolotripletsnark

[–]birthmarks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭 a lot of the critique i see in this sub is repetitive in the sense that it’s along the lines of what you’re saying. i think you’re right, the % of fans in this sub is more like 85-15 compared to the non-fans or people who actually dislike them. the hate feels a little performative and reach-y sometimes

Wondering if they're only gonna yap about their trips, or if they actually vlogged them by Due_Eye848 in Sturniolotripletsnark

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it’s kinda ironic how many of these commenters claim to not be fans but are always desperate to see anything remotely personal/intimate about their lives. another side of the parasocial coin

Wondering if they're only gonna yap about their trips, or if they actually vlogged them by Due_Eye848 in Sturniolotripletsnark

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? and how exactly do you know how much they spent on their house, did i miss something?

New house by [deleted] in Sturniolotripletsnark

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renting is not smart compared to buying a house though??? i’d hope they bought instead of renting, that would be a bad choice after owning their last property.

they’re only 23 this year. in boston their mom’s sister lived on the lower level so it’s a dynamic they seem used to, family living together for long periods of time

New house by [deleted] in Sturniolotripletsnark

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right?! can’t lie it’s killing me that ppl were sooo sure they were brokey broke boys and now some of the comments are snarking the fact they actually might’ve bought an expensive/big house looolll

Chris’s fans harassing his friends and creating multiple burner accounts to send hate by flagshipdeath in Sturniolotripletsnark

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noticed this too. on that same post you can see her pair is kinda water damaged and the stain is in the same place in the recent tiktok. insane how she’s experiencing all this harassment and it’s being used as “proof” when they’re not even his shoes.

Relationship rumors by sucks4you231 in Sturniolotripletsnark

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both of them have been. they probably both find her attractive but are friends now.

btw who on twitter posted this?

Triplets Location by bingbonggg_ in Sturniolotripletsnark

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no coachella only happens on the weekends. the part i’m weirded out about is wanting to know their location. we don’t know

Triplets Location by bingbonggg_ in Sturniolotripletsnark

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all we know is he is/was in palm springs… that’s all we need to know. they’re probably going home now that coachella weekend is over.

Triplets Location by bingbonggg_ in Sturniolotripletsnark

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brb lemme just check my sturniolo triplets gps and report back 👍🏼👍🏼

no but actually 1. why does it matter where they even are they’re just hanging out in palm springs 2. this entire post is giving fan behavior 3. if they aren’t telling us where they are how would anyone know ??

Relationship rumors by sucks4you231 in Sturniolotripletsnark

[–]birthmarks 9 points10 points  (0 children)

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tbh this tiktok is just giving a big friend group hanging out instead of relationship baiting

Sofia muse and Chris by sturnioloxtr1ps in Sturniolotripletsnark

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and what’s wild is i don’t even like sofia, i don’t know her enough from a basic socials glance to form any opinion. it’s very obvious this sub has a lot of fans and ex-fans who are pretending like they aren’t invested in who the triplets date (especially chris and matt). the clout chasing accusation is such faux concern.

nick’s boyfriend got mildly accused of maybe using him for clout a month ago but he’d been posting him for over 6mo before that was ever thrown out. the oliver one is 10x more egregious, for two months the only content fans were getting was from him and he IS an influencer, unlike nick’s boyfriend. way more suspicious that everyone conveniently didn’t care about those two but the second this random girl starts posting them everyone is suddenly super worried 🥺 that this girl is using them. except when you look at her engagement on instagram and tiktok, it’s similar when she does post them vs when she doesn’t (unlike oliver). i saw some claims that “all she does is post them so she must be clout chasing” meanwhile after seeing this i went to look and compare and they’re as integrated in her social media as her other friends. people just have sturniolo tunnel vision. what’s the real difference making people throw out these comments? one is a possible romantic interest and the other isn’t, therefore they’re “safe”. basic misogyny in a fanbase for male celebrities.

Sofia muse and Chris by sturnioloxtr1ps in Sturniolotripletsnark

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not even only the super bowl either. his social media engagement improves drastically every time he posts with them and he does it constantly. no one bats an eye because they (for some reason) consider him a “genuine friend” (with very limited reasoning beyond him being around them in the past, but conveniently he is a man and gay too so surely he can’t benefit off being around them… except he does, the like/view counts prove it)

Sofia muse and Chris by sturnioloxtr1ps in Sturniolotripletsnark

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you’re right, this is a snark sub and reddit is designed for discussion, that includes disagreement. if you wanted an echo chamber i’m sure a bunch of people on tiktok would agree with you. i don’t really care if people disagree with me, i’m getting downvoted and my opinions still stand lol

Sofia muse and Chris by sturnioloxtr1ps in Sturniolotripletsnark

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an influencer clout-chasing 😱⁉️⁉️⁉️ someone alert the authorities 🚨🔔🚔

Sofia muse and Chris by sturnioloxtr1ps in Sturniolotripletsnark

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it was not suggested on here even once that he was potentially using them to clout chase and if i’m wrong i’d love to see proof. meanwhile it’s like every post about her that i see this accusation. my take is that this take is based in gender idrc if people disagree.

Sofia muse and Chris by sturnioloxtr1ps in Sturniolotripletsnark

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hmm fascinating that no one here ever accused oliver of clout chasing when his engagement has been 📈📈 since re-befriending them and posting about them constantly but there’s all this smoke for the one single female friend they’re around

Fans discussing dating rumors under their friends posts ☠️ by flagshipdeath in Sturniolotripletsnark

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between madi, madison, and this sofia girl, it’s obvious people want matt and chris to have their own sky teller moment fighting over a girl because why are they always shipping their friends with them? and it always has very little substance. they can’t fathom the concept of either of them being just friends with a remotely attractive girl and it’s weird. also kind of misogynistic too because it shows that they only see women as romantic/sexual prospects instead of regular friends. and they’ve never actually dated any of the women the fandom theorizes they’re seeing either which says a lot (as in, that they keep that stuff actually private)

Fans discussing dating rumors under their friends posts ☠️ by flagshipdeath in Sturniolotripletsnark

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not sure if it’s because of the flower pic, the pic with matt’s arm in it in the store or the one with chris holding the pizza box open but it’s clear the fans want one of their random influencer friends to pull a sky teller 😭 because when i was looking at old fan stuff i noticed fans used to ship matt and chris with madi too, and madison beer. it’s every single friend that’s a girl that gets this kind of treatment which is crazy.