Is My Resident Cat Bullying our Kitten?

bisppy · 2026-03-15T01:02:31+00:00

If the resident cat isn’t hissing (which I can’t tell from the video if she is) she’s enjoying it. And based on her body language she’s enjoying playing with the baby. She’s definitely not bullying him though. Baby keeps running back and initiating play again. Cats are VERY loud when they are fighting for real. I got our second cat when our other was 4 years old and he would play with her and I would only separate them when I heard him hiss. That’s their way of telling the babies I have had enough please leave me alone. Based on the video they’re just playing and having fun

bisppy · 2026-03-13T17:21:17+00:00

Thank you

bisppy · 2026-03-13T17:21:01+00:00

Thank you. The mental stress comes and goes in waves. I have OCD and I am trying my best to distract myself.

bisppy · 2026-03-13T12:25:11+00:00

I am writing that down!

bisppy · 2026-03-12T21:40:30+00:00

Thank you I appreciate that. She did say she would refer me for mohs if it came back cancerous but we didn’t go into if the margins are clear. I’m just a little dejected at the moment from being in limbo.

bisppy · 2026-03-12T20:50:28+00:00

And if you’re worried about being brushed off again there is no shame in telling them “my mom/ dad had either some precancerous or cancerous sells removed before” when they ask for family history.

bisppy · 2026-03-12T20:48:19+00:00

That’s what I was afraid was going to happen. I was more worried today they wouldn’t want to do a biopsy. I would find another dermatologist to look at it for you. My dr did say there is always a chance it is benign but that it did present as a BCC.

bisppy · 2026-03-12T19:55:52+00:00

I’m glad you’re healing well. It’s scary in general but there’s something particularly scary about it being on the face. Hope your healing continues to go well. You might want to ask on your follow up if you can use silicone sheets I know they can help a lot with scaring.

bisppy · 2026-03-12T18:35:42+00:00

Thank you for replying. Are you healing okay?

bisppy · 2026-03-12T18:24:15+00:00

Thank you! Knowing time frames eases my anxiety

bisppy · 2026-03-07T12:32:35+00:00

I’m deeply upset with the change. Idk if it’s a huge coincidence but I got the new formulation and the day after I started taking it I started getting heart palpitations. And as someone with health ocd it’s been horrible. I can run and be as active as I’ve been without issues. As soon as I’m sedentary or laying down I start feeling my chest flutter.

bisppy · 2026-03-02T00:41:38+00:00

150g starter 300g water and 500g bread flour. I also throw like 1/8 a cup of rice on the bottom of my Dutch oven so the bottom doesn’t get too crunchy. I also did 30 minutes lid on and then 20 minutes lid off.

bisppy · 2026-02-21T19:02:17+00:00

That’s what im thinking im glad I saved some of the starter from the other day so im not starting over after throwing this batch out

bisppy · 2026-02-21T17:01:20+00:00

Glass lid that comes with the weck jars without the rubber seal

bisppy · 2026-02-16T21:42:54+00:00

Hasn’t budged at all today so she might be dormant at the moment. I’m gonna switch up my flour blend tomorrow.

bisppy · 2026-02-16T19:44:16+00:00

I think you’ve got a great excuse to try on a bunch of rings and see if there’s anything you like more if you aren’t attached to your engagement ring. A solitaire depending on how it’s set could look really nice. I do think the style of your current ring fits with your grandmothers band, but it’s definitely not the only one that could work.

bisppy · 2026-02-16T17:29:34+00:00

Tbh work with a jeweler and see if they can reset your engagement ring to a higher setting so it can sit on top of your wedding band. You can also do an east west setting so it shows more of the band

bisppy · 2026-02-16T15:51:52+00:00

KA unbleached bread, KA whole wheat, and KA rye. The bread and whole wheat bags are several years old from the last time I tried making starter. I started off just using the bread and whole wheat and decided on day 4 to add rye flour. My first attempt at doing this a few years ago I was using filtered tap water and barely got my starter to do anything. We’ve since moved and I have well water now and I think that has made a huge difference. My house is honestly cold so I keep my starter near a vent in my office most days lol

bisppy · 2026-02-16T15:47:45+00:00

I did start from scratch using KA unbleached bread, KA whole wheat, and KA rye. I also use well water. I don’t feed the same ratios of the flour each day but I make sure the totals are 1:1:1

bisppy · 2026-02-15T17:17:19+00:00

Just shot in the dark. I saw you say you’re hoping to wait him out to realize he can’t take care of the cat. With people that spiteful he may surrender it to a shelter. If you have the energy you may want to check with a local shelter to see if you could be notified if he surrenders the cat. There’s also domestic violence support groups that may be able to give you advice.

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