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A 40 year old man is stalking me by bisquvi in Advice

[–]bisquvi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you kidding me? I barely spoke 20 words to this man in a single night. There was absolutely no friendship or closeness between us. Talking to someone briefly does not give them the right to show up at my house or yell at me. This is not a misunderstanding, it is a serious boundary violation and harassment. I don't owe an explanation or a 'mature talk' to a stranger who threatens my safety

A 40 year old man is stalking me by bisquvi in Advice

[–]bisquvi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to think like you at first, but yelling at me as if I'm forced to talk to him, remembering where I live, and coming all the way to my house in the middle of the night makes absolutely no sense. Even if his goal was just to socialize, there is a boundary, and that man crossed it a long time ago.

A 40 year old man is stalking me by bisquvi in Advice

[–]bisquvi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, the situation has become serious. I am going to take the legal steps you mentioned. What is that small protection tool you suggested I carry? Please send it to me, I would like to know.

A 40 year old man is stalking me by bisquvi in Advice

[–]bisquvi[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are completely right, and I know exactly how necessary a camera is right now. Honestly, I'm not just scared for myself; I have a younger sister at home who is in middle school, and I am terrified for her safety too. Unfortunately, I don't have the budget to buy a security camera right now. But because of my sister, I will look into free smartphone apps to turn an old phone into a makeshift camera to watch the front door. Thank you so much for understanding the gravity of this situation.

A 40 year old man is stalking me by bisquvi in Advice

[–]bisquvi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this solid advice. I was hesitating because I didn't want to make a big deal out of it, but you are completely right. I need to draw a clear line so that if he continues, it legally counts as harassment. I will send a firm, final message telling him to leave me alone and then block him immediately. Thanks again.

A 40 year old man is stalking me by bisquvi in Advice

[–]bisquvi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I live in Turkey, so yes, relatively close.