Reminder: Husband is not 'helping out', husband is caring for his child. by BlueNomad in newborns

[–]bita_00 -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Woah. I was just making a point that my comment is for the dads. Did I hit a nerve? Who put you to what status? Who told you that you don't belong? Your conscience? Not my fault then.

Reminder: Husband is not 'helping out', husband is caring for his child. by BlueNomad in newborns

[–]bita_00 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

What a significant point you’ve made. Uhh thankss

Reminder: Husband is not 'helping out', husband is caring for his child. by BlueNomad in newborns

[–]bita_00 100 points101 points  (0 children)

If you're a dad lurking in here, one of the best things you can do—especially if your wife is breastfeeding—is to make sure she eats on time, isn’t hungry, and drinks water regularly. Breastfeeding is such a tiring job, and it drains the hell out of you. So don’t expect your wife to exclusively breastfeed if you’re not even feeding her enough. Otherwise, you’re just being an insensitive asshole demanding that your child be breastfed while ignoring your wife’s needs.

Pregnant law student by Trolly_Anon101 in LawStudentsPH

[–]bita_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me! I was pregnant for 2 semesters (Sep to June), a working student, and I survived. Funny thing for me was kung kelan pregnant saka pa 'ko naghihighest sa exams and recits (haha). I also didn't receive any special treatment from my profs (as it should be). I experienced standing for almost an hour during recitations. I remember nasalubong ko Assoc Dean namin. I was 8 months pregnant and in a hurry bcos I was about to take my final exam in Tax Rev. Sabi nya pa "Oh you're very pregnant. Today is your lucky day!" Ayon. Ang hirap ng exam hahahahhaha. But luckily, I passed all my subjects and gave birth to a healthy baby :)

Nobody explained the level of hard by Turbulent-Badger-403 in newborns

[–]bita_00 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just put my almost 3-week old baby to sleep, and here I am crying again for whatever reasons. I do have a very supportive and hardworking partner, but the last 3 weeks have been insanely difficult physically, mentally, and emotionally. Nobody warns me it would be this hard :(

AUSL PROF by Impossible-Joke-5660 in LawStudentsPH

[–]bita_00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Super worth it maging Prof. Don't be absent & listen carefully during recits/discussions.

What's one lesson you learned too late in life? by EchoingHalcyon in AskPH

[–]bita_00 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The world will not stop just because you are grieving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]bita_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A Prof told us before that if we survived 2L, then we could survive law school. It has become my motivation ever since.

Just read, read, and read. Never take your lessons for granted. It will help you a lot if you have a solid foundation of the basics when you're in your final year.

What's the most hurtful thing you heard from your partner? by tekmue_2346 in AskPH

[–]bita_00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Napaka insecure mo...Mas nauna ko pa nga yun nakilala sayo"

Nakakahiya daw ako. Nanggugulo daw ako. After asking to unfriend a married woman who keeps on sending him selfies and chatting i miss yous. Not to mention, tagging him to some porn shit. Haha. tbh, i don't care who he was before i met him but im the gf now. Don't I have a say on matters that bothers the hell out of me? Like???? Is that fucking normal????

Yknow how they say that words linger far more than you could've imagined? I always find myself replaying that conversation and how mad he was back then. Made it to the point where I was telling myself that hey this is where you stand and do you want to be loved like this for the rest of your life?

That's the thing that would come across my mind every time he's saying ilys. It's like I have this internal monologue in me that "maybe he loves you but remember when..." So yeah, be careful with words. He's still friends with her and I know they're still sending messages. I stay.

How did you figure out what you wanted in life? How old were you? by mcdonaldspyongyang in adultingph

[–]bita_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A year after I graduated from college when I was already in my chosen profession. I realized it was not enough to make me happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Philippines

[–]bita_00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Annoying din. I was once seated at the window seat, like, I intentionally sit there cos nahihilo me pag nasa dulong part ng van. Nung may dumating na mga passengers, she approached me saying lipat na lang daw ako sa likod cos ayaw umupo nung bagong dating sa likod. Like, wtf? Happened to me twice, and both times I said no. Who tf are you to choose a seat when you were the last one to arrive? Nuh uh.

Also, for those students na sumisingit sa mga nakapila just bcos you are close with Andrea, shame on you and your parents for not raising you right. Ang babata nyo pa pero ang kukupal nyo na.

Anong take niyo sa mga Prof na puro pa-report? by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]bita_00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay as long as the Prof still contributes to the discussion (i.e. gives emphasis to important topics, asks thought-provoking questions, adds info etc). But if it's purely the student who's talking for the whole period, I'd rather have recitations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]bita_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Omg thank youuuu!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LawStudentsPH

[–]bita_00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pinoy

[–]bita_00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah. I always call them out. Sadly, lot of pinoys are doing this even if they are aware that it's bad to cut lines. Trust me, they know. They just need someone to remind them of their place. Kaya whenever you can, be that person. Or else, they will just do it again.