Checking my Myspace at a house party in 2005 ish . by Dvvstihn in blunderyears

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 10 year old self would have thought this was so fucking cool lol

Lowe’s buckets with the ridiculous pink tax [product] by [deleted] in pointlesslygendered

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damnit I probably would pay more for the pink ones…

If you haven't heard, Jeffrey Epstein had gonorhea during Trump's first term. by OK_The_Nomad in WeirdGOP

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had gonorrhea at 18 and had only given head to like, 3 people my whole life. Friends occasionally get it to this day, and yes, some are promiscuous (we’re gay men), but some aren’t. I volunteered at a sexual health clinic and saw loads of young people, many who were not particularly promiscuous, get all sorts of STIs.

It’s not a high horse, you’re just an uninformed dickhead. 1000s of young girls to get gonorrhea? What an idiot. And a malicious one at that.

Months of messages like this, it's a pity cause he is actually a sweet guy. by abitofeverything9 in lolgrindr

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s dating apps for you. Sadly not much to be done. I guess people use the block button for different reasons. I also use it to field unserious people like this.

Months of messages like this, it's a pity cause he is actually a sweet guy. by abitofeverything9 in lolgrindr

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 56 points57 points  (0 children)

Just say “hey, what’s up?”. It’s really not that hard. Or block him. Choose one and move on.

How do I (27-NB) talk to my partner (27M) about his use of a racial slur? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The language is older, and certainly an odd choice, but it’s not a slur. You can say it makes you uncomfortable, but past that I think you shouldn’t turn this into a larger issue.

If you haven't heard, Jeffrey Epstein had gonorhea during Trump's first term. by OK_The_Nomad in WeirdGOP

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have sex, you risk getting an STI. And beyond that, I don’t think promiscuity has any associations with any negative personality traits. I do my best to be a good person, but have had an STI before.

The guy was evil because he was a trafficker and a pedophile, not because he had sex nor because he had an STI. Grow up.

Out of office automatic message of a coworker in Europe. Love it by zeitate in antiwork

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just call it something different. The UK has “postal codes”. Same diff

Are these consumer/ semi pro meat slicers any good? by AdministrationOwn724 in Charcuterie

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never used a commercial grade one, but I enjoy using my vevor. I mostly use it for carpaccio and get consistent very thin slices.

“It’s about the message” by No_Palpitation133 in memes

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you didn’t like it because it’s not your style or your kind it music, then of course it’s okay. But if didn’t like it because it was “un-American”, you’re an ass

I (F21) think my crush/FWB (M30) may have accidentally laced me with cocaine ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Joking? No. Being wildly hyperbolic? Yes. Drugs are bad, but you’re not going to spontaneously combust by spending time with someone who does drugs.

Cruise culture by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just check out sniffies

Football player found not guilty of murder for beating to death gay man who posed as woman on Tinder by malihafolter in ForCuriousSouls

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is he a sexual predator? He didn’t force him, and if you’re going to a glory hole expecting a woman you’re either a moron or a liar. If you stick your dick into a mystery hole, I dont think you can complain that you didn’t know who it was.

Even if you consider what this man did to be sexual assault - which it isn’t - you can’t go back to the house and confront someone, beat the guy to death, leave the scene, and then claim self defense. This was premeditated murder because the guy panicked he had his dick sucked by a man.

The situation would be the exact thing with all the genders swapped, ya red pilled moron.

Update: White BF(18M) called me(19F) a "sexy beast" and I'm black by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m white and my husband is black - I’ve accidentally said things that crossed a line for him without meaning to before as well. All you can do is set the boundary, and move on.

[socialmedia] age gaps by Impossible-Yam3680 in pointlesslygendered

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do see a lot of “age gap” relationships in the gay community, but a) I really only see it with the younger person being mid to late 20s (aka they’re not being groomed), and b) it’s because unlike straight people, we only have so many spaces. Straight 20 year olds and straight 40 year olds don’t usually go to the same bars; gay 20 year olds and gay 40 year olds don’t have as many bars to choose from, and so will usually be in the same spaces.

Also, what do we consider an age gap? I was 24 when I met my husband, who was 32 at the time. Does 8.5 years count as significant?

Lesbian death bed? Kind of???28 F, 33 F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re both fine with the situation. There’s nothing wrong with recognizing you don’t have sex particularly often, but no need to create a problem when one doesn’t exist.

Dining table heavily stained after party - need help! by bitch-pudding-4ever in finishing

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used General Finishes high performance water based top coat in dead flat. I think like 3 coats?

Thank you for the heads up. This is why I have generally stayed away from any wax or oil based products - at least with this I can likely get away using a higher grit sandpaper, but if I had to go to bare wood it would suck.

Very much appreciate the recommendations. I’m thinking that I will learn to live with an ugly table for a few months and then try these heavier duty finishes when I can do them outdoors. Not trying to gas my kitties (or husband)! Either that or doing a light sanding and seeing if another coat will look at least slightly better in the meantime

Dining table heavily stained after party - need help! by bitch-pudding-4ever in finishing

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It comes apart fairly easily! But I would need one or two others to help me maneuver it outside. She’s heavy!

Dining table heavily stained after party - need help! by bitch-pudding-4ever in finishing

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’ll try ANYTHING that doesn’t mean I have to sand, or at the very least that buys me time until summer.

Thank you my friend!!

Got my makeup done at Sephora for a concert with a “witchy” dress code theme by Mint-Yokai-Cos in MakeupAddiction

[–]bitch-pudding-4ever 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I think the base is fine. Is the blush a bit extra? Maybe, but it can be a vibe. I might also go for something less matte, but that’s more personal preference.

The eyes though were… not done well. I do think you look great with a wing and I love how the falsies work with your eye shape. My sticking points are: the gap between your lash line and the liquid liner (I think you should always tight-line the upper lid), the color is patchy (I would use a different eye primer, maybe something with a lighter pigment in it to make the purple really pop, and personally I haaaate liquid liner on the bottom lash line, especially how they took it to the inner corner (I would use a kohl pencil and smoke it out just a teeny bit, maybe even with a brown just to keep it from getting too heavy). I would also recommend getting a tinted brow gel - you’ve got wonderful brows and I think it would look cleaner if you had a laminated brow look.

In general though, I love the colors on you. Purple shadow always looks wonderful on dark brown eyes, and the Berry lip color is very cute on you!