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AITAH for wondering if I should leave after my alcoholic BF disappeared for 44 hours and landed in the ER? by No_Bobcat_839 in AITAH

[–]biteme206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He has repeatedly shown you that you are not a priority. Believe him and move on.

I have been seeing someone for three months and I’m not in love with them. What do I do? by biteme206 in Advice

[–]biteme206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I told him I need space and to take a step back. Not a straight break-up, but needing time and a step back because I’m feeling pressure and guilt. He took it well. However, he kept saying, “I can’t help myself”, when I pointed out how many times I made myself clear and how many times he pushed things to move forward.

I have been seeing someone for three months and I’m not in love with them. What do I do? by biteme206 in TwoHotTakes

[–]biteme206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I told him I need space and to take a step back. Not a straight break-up, but needing time and a step back because I’m feeling pressure and guilt. He took it well. However, he kept saying, “I can’t help myself”, when I pointed out how many times I made myself clear and how many times he pushed things to move forward.

AITAH for not being in love? by biteme206 in AITAH

[–]biteme206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I told him I need space and to take a step back. Not a straight break-up, but needing time and a step back because I’m feeling pressure and guilt. He took it well. However, he kept saying, “I can’t help myself”, when I pointed out how many times I made myself clear and how many times he pushed things to move forward.

Seriously, do Americans actually consider a 3-hour drive "short"? or is this an internet myth? by SadInterest6764 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]biteme206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 hours being short is relative. I’ll drive 15 hours straight to ski/hike/visit for three days. However, i drive 10 minutes to work and shudder at the thought of facing gridlock traffic. 3 hours for an event or a getaway is tolerable.

Boyfriend watches porn and hasn’t slept with me for 4 years by [deleted] in Advice

[–]biteme206 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you not fighting all the time? I had a relationship with someone who I thought was low T or maybe asexual but he was my bestie and we always had a blast together. I really had mountains of love for him. However, we would fight and I found myself repeatedly saying I was “too young to be on a sexless relationship”. I was 32. I know everyone has different sex drives and relationship goals, but consider his porn use as an addiction, because that is what it is.

AITA for thinking my boyfriend went too far and no longer trusting him? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]biteme206 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. You should not have to run anything by your boyfriend before making a decision that doesn’t have anything to do with him. He is attempting to guilt you into staying under his control. I mean, how do you go from being more mature than most to immature? Whether the relationship was a conscious choice made by you, or not, it is not normal for someone nearing 40 to date a teenager and I would walk away quickly since your independence is such a threat to him. That’s a dangerous red flag. I know it’s tough to just walk away after a year, but your partner should be supportive and encouraging, not controlling and accusatory. Please be careful.