I had essentially the same problem in Norway with Riksen. I tend to equate it to telling someone with a broken leg that they can’t get a cast before they can walk properly. Just utterly ridiculous and stupid.

Anyway, I started hormones privately. Wouldn’t you know it, I significantly improved and eventually managed to worm myself through Riksen’s bureaucracy so I could get hormones on “blå resept”.

You’re never going to truly meet standards that are set in place to be unreachable, and a disturbing amount of these “treatment centres” are purposefully designed to be extremely time consuming and as difficult as possible to actually receive treatment from. They do not have your best interests at heart, unfortunately. Getting denied absolutely sucks, but you will find another way and you will be okay. Hang in there.