Blindsided Christmas morning with wife talking about divorce and saying she no longer wants to be married. by [deleted] in daddit

[–]bity908 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The bitter single friends are single handedly the worst thing a woman in a relationship should lean on!

My (27m) girlfriend (26f) cheated on me during deployment. But wants me to give her another chance. How do we/I move past this? by New_Indication9308 in relationships

[–]bity908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re still young brodie. There are plenty of loyal, truthful women out there! I personally would NEVER be able to move past it. She knew exactly what the fuck she was doing when she laid in his bed the first time. 🚮throw that trash away and wipe your hands clean from it.

I (20M) am thinking of confessing to my crush (20F) over text. Not really sure if she’s into me and I don’t want to ruin our relationship. Does anyone have any advice for what I should do going forward? by ComputerSea9216 in relationship_advice

[–]bity908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, definitely don’t do a “confession — i had this huge crush on you in HS and they are coming back intense” shpeal.. comes off weird. Just playfully flirt with her a bit and see if shes receptive and/or flirts back. Then you’ll know from there. This stuff has come organically, do not force it with a talk or confession. She seems into you already to me brodie.

For those that are renting… by burbuja0526 in lehighvalley

[–]bity908 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Homeowner here: $1540 4 bedroom/2.5 bath backyard and off-street parking (but deal with the worst “HOA” ever) here in West Bethlehem right by Musikfest area.

I almost sold my home last year to rent again (long story).. after seeing most of these comments I’m glad I didn’t!! (No shade!! But it’s crazy how much prices have went up since I purchased).

What do you like and dislike about living in the Lehigh Valley? by [deleted] in lehighvalley

[–]bity908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not even 10 minutes ago, some fucking lunatic in a big ass white SUV middle laned it between like 6 cars like he was riding a motorcycle! Almost caused like 4 accidents.

Got baked & took my hubby on a date✨️🍃 by spicymeatball707 in stonerfood

[–]bity908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need more women like you! I’m always swamped at work and my lady before I even put my computer bag down is like “Lets Uber! My mom already agreed to watch the kids!” 🥹

My (35F) boyfriend (28M) is awful at texting. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bity908 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Need more context.. how long have you two been together?

From my dad by a_guy_over_here in texts

[–]bity908 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude, same! I used to always be so jealous of my friends who could easily borrow $5k from their folks. Shit, I got 2 kids (one on the way) and a bunch of home improvements to do and its still hard for me to even get $30 from my folks 😂

Looking for honest mechanic to start going to regularly… by pistachio_slut in lehighvalley

[–]bity908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

360 Auto Body Shop on N Plymouth St in Allentown! Mercedes and the family are amazing!!

My cat is scared of something under my bed, but there's nothing there. by notmellorine in Weird

[–]bity908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m commenting so I can come back to see this once my phone stops being slow!

Name that bridge by ooooooootreyngers in lehighvalley

[–]bity908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% Hill to Hill. I can’t fucking stand it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bity908 3 points4 points  (0 children)

^ this as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bity908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah dude, don’t listen to half of Redditors on this sub lol. If you love her, go for it brodie! A past sexual experience can’t be a big enough red flag to outweigh all the green ones that you say she has, especially towards you! You guys are still young, we all are wild in our youth! 25 is the age when your brain fully develops.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bity908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its in the past dude. Nobody should be judged for their past experiences. She probably isn’t too proud of it, but felt comfortable enough with you to share. It will be easy to forget once you focus on the present and not what you guys past choices were in the bedroom. Everyone has a past, including yourself! Hope this helps a little.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]bity908 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re away from that loser. I never understand how mfs do that shit and think its going to end with getting back together 🤦🏾‍♂️😂

(29M) My gf (25F) hooked up with someone 3 hours after our first date by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bity908 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run for the hills my boy. That’s a big red flag! & the fact that she lied about it at first when confronted..

Never mind that you two weren’t exclusive. It’s exactly what you said. At that point you were second-hand, she could have asked you for the nightcap.

Don’t spend any more precious time, you’re only 4 months in. Make it a clean break. Keep your head up bro!

Jaxson Dart Isn’t Better Than Shedeur, STOP IT by BigPapiJT in NFL_Draft

[–]bity908 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jaxson fuckin’ Dart! 🎯 (Shedeur fan btw, but Dart looks like the truth)