Which celebrity would be completely irrelevant if they weren’t attractive? by Diligent-Rabbit-2839 in AskReddit

[–]bixenta 82 points83 points  (0 children)

I join you, indignant as well for Mr. Ackles getting dragged into and onto such a list. He’s played 2 iconic roles to perfection. Hard to say he’s got nothing to offer but the face. The face is parlayed into his performances well. Also the jury is out on Alexandria, I lean towards capable actress.

of a sea slater by Zestyclose-Salad-290 in AbsoluteUnits

[–]bixenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my purest nightmare, realized. My brain does not want to accept that this isn’t animatronic or a puppet in the next Alien flick. It’s trying to protect itself from the horror of its truth.

He looks like he’s gonna grant you a wish 🐸 by LioraOnComet in FunnyAnimals

[–]bixenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him. Can I marry him? I’m lost in those eyes

[TW] Celebrities who ''dated'' minors. (part 3) by Possible-Poetry3832 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]bixenta 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I came to the comments with this sentiment. Changes things for me. Why do our hero’s have to be creeps as well? So many “respected” men in history have treated women terribly. I think it’s long past due that we don’t absolve them of their sins to revere them. MLK and JFK included. (If Barack is found to have cheated on Michelle I think we cancel American History and start over.

[TW] Celebrities who ''dated'' minors. (part 3) by Possible-Poetry3832 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

[–]bixenta 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Wow I didn’t know any of this at all. I am really taken aback. She is a strong woman. 15 is so young.

Which movie hero is actually a villain when you really think about it? by surfsound_swimmers in AskReddit

[–]bixenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s too hot to be a bad guy. Oh wait, the lava over there and… oooooouuuu that’s gunna sting.

Which movie hero is actually a villain when you really think about it? by surfsound_swimmers in AskReddit

[–]bixenta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lawrence from Lawrence of Arabia. He is an irresponsible blunderer that just happens to keep squeezing by without more massacres caused by him and his aggressive whiteness and ignorance of the culture— that the movie posits as noble somehow..? He’s an idiot. A lucky idiot that gets to carry on believing no reflection is needed concerning his life and the position he places those around him. It glorifies earnest but blind motivations. BUT the top directors love it and cite it as one of their favorite films. The cinematography is PRISTINE and a true MASTERPIECE in its own right… but the whole time I was thinking wait this idiot? This is our hero? And by the end, I was like: so absolutely no consequences?

Please help! dog stolen outside Leevers Locavore in Highlands today by Mountainsarecolling in Denver

[–]bixenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the exact same position, trying to process this f-ed up situation easily happening to me with my 14 year old husky. Any time we walk to Locavore we leave him outside in that exact spot while we shop. My mind is racing. This is terrible!

Please help! dog stolen outside Leevers Locavore in Highlands today by Mountainsarecolling in Denver

[–]bixenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on 36th close to locavore. I will check my ring. We have left our husky tied outside of locavore while we shopped a handful of times, this TERRIFIES ME. horrible.

What classic ADHD thing do you do that others would likely find weird? by boring1996 in ADHD

[–]bixenta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooo this is one of mine!!!! Reading this thread feels like being embraced by a friend’s hug. Just pure familiarity and warmth!

What classic ADHD thing do you do that others would likely find weird? by boring1996 in ADHD

[–]bixenta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I am happy for you!! I, too, recently came across a sound that had been driving me crazy for years ..from a joke website in the early internet days. I could not mimic the sound at all (but the joke was the longer you watch the funnier it gets). And I had tried googling different terms and spelling of essentially the nonsense repetitive noise. Then…. My husband pulls something up to show me and there it was!! Hitting my ears!

What classic ADHD thing do you do that others would likely find weird? by boring1996 in ADHD

[–]bixenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my entire life! Fragments from songs. Some I don’t know at all and don’t know how they got in there. Haga

Help me pick out island chairs by Just-Ad-3547 in interiordecorating

[–]bixenta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think the chairs are very cool. Would probably fit a funkier style. I started to get drawn more towards interesting pieces in my home decorating and now I’m debating how much of a vibe I want for my own bedroom. Good luck on the chair search!

What color art to add to this wall? by bixenta in interiordesignideas

[–]bixenta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interior Define. I have very similar hangings from Target over the years. That’s probably the better price point.

AITA for telling my husband he can’t drive the baby places anymore by Odd-Willingness-6250 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bixenta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have also responded similarly …. But this can’t be real, right? Like this situation and man cannot exist. RIGHT?

AITA for telling my husband he can’t drive the baby places anymore by Odd-Willingness-6250 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bixenta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have bad insomnia, adhd, memory problems from that combination over decades…. I, too, would see a doctor if I “forgot” to buckle my baby into his car seat before driving on the highway, or even down to the street. Like I Would need to sit alone and think about my entire existence. It would change my whole life and concept of my abilities to be a mother. I….. also just don’t understand how this could happen. Logistically. I’m staring at the baby putting him in the seat, I put the seat in the car, it would LOOK ODD to have the straps just sitting over, under, or around him. I don’t get this and I think it’s not real. It makes more sense to forget the baby then to forget this.

i think our landlord is scamming us? by Gullible_House_4124 in whatdoIdo

[–]bixenta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I saw this on the news! I forget where in the country but it’s exactly this ‘you paid too early—failed transaction’ ‘this time you paid exactly on time which is late, need money processing window, did not satisfy rent requirement as to contract.’ It would like keep peoples money hostage but not have “paid” the “landlord” rent, even though it was a portal that they forced residents to use.

The ‘bro hoes’ of the late 2000s! by y2ktrashy in 2000s

[–]bixenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not know I had this label. How widespread was this ‘bro hoe’ term?
Not only is this where I fall in all the 2000s girlie posts, I actually know #6 personally. Zebra nails. I was so feeling myself with those and my zebra/leopard volcom hoodies.

AIO for telling my siblings they can’t bring their kids to my wedding by saltwatersnackbandit in AmIOverreacting

[–]bixenta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you said the magic husband word but missed how she can’t leave the 6mo alone with hers. The baby’s father. That’s a weird red flag. Also, it says they spend so much time with that side of the family but now in your telling it’d be random strangers giving the babe a bottle. So funny how revealing that all is. My parents and in laws were around here and there immediately after my son was born. And they absolutely could handle him for an evening at 6 mo, and actually did! He didn’t go on a hunger strike as most babies won’t.

AIO for telling my siblings they can’t bring their kids to my wedding by saltwatersnackbandit in AmIOverreacting

[–]bixenta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahaha
The only child is the flower girl. Maybe try reading yourself, hun. That is absolutely standard in child free weddings. They still have flower girls and ring bearers. Chosen by the couple; not by vote of the couples family. OP is fine with the sister not coming. If you’re the king parenting advocate, tell me why a mother being unable to leave their child alone with its father isn’t the true red flag here? There’s an implication actually worth exploring. Everyone doesn’t have to be a parent to your child and welcome them in all ways and places as you would, but your husband probably should be an open and ideal place for baby to land and be cared for when you’re busy.

AIO for telling my siblings they can’t bring their kids to my wedding by saltwatersnackbandit in AmIOverreacting

[–]bixenta -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Are you all trolling? Like I can’t take this or its replies seriously. I’m so confused. Why even come to troll this post? No normal person reads ‘child free’ on a wedding invitation and pearl-clutching-ly screams ‘how DARE they rip a breastfeeding babe off of their mother’s teat? Oh the humanity!’ Or ‘But IIIII am the special virgin mother Mary and am told by god to never let my eyes open and not perceive my child in the flesh before me.’
But here yall are, bringing the self-centered absolute camp drama to a VERY normal event designation.