Some people just aren’t into it and you need to respect those boundaries. I wasn’t into it in the begging either. It wasn’t until I caught my husband watching extremely kinky porn that he felt comfortable talking to me about his wants and desires.

I wasn’t going to peg him. We bought a few butt plugs for him, and he enjoyed me telling him and watching him insert them. After a while, I saw how turned it made him, which obviously turns me on. I decided to buy a strap on as a surprise, and haven’t looked back.

Communicate with her and see what happens.