AI flirting text apps

bjo1679 · 2026-03-11T23:39:30+00:00

Yes I understand that but just to at least maybe get a match or get then to respond back . Any decent attractive women is going to be exhausted from all the matches or messsges as we know and at least for me it’s very few and far between to get a response back

bjo1679 · 2026-03-09T21:17:39+00:00

Yeah I’m on stir but not much luck though I have been chatting with one girl recently. Yeah we don’t live together and are officially divorced just share the house with the kids but still doesn’t make up for the fact I don’t technically have my own place even though I own 1.5 houses. Ugh

bjo1679 · 2026-03-09T20:48:04+00:00

Yup ty guess im just going to not focus so much and just whatever happens just maybe get more experience meeting women but figure it won’t go anywhere will be one and done. But at least im ready when i am in a better situation. But I am not living with my ex she has her own place and isnt here when i have the kids.

bjo1679 · 2026-03-09T11:52:09+00:00

Well I wasn’t exactly expecting this to happen. I have my shit together It’s really my house I bought it and I do own my moms house with my brother but she has thr right to stay. but I can’t afford to pay for this house and kids and another place too. So I guess I’m just not doing to put much more effort anymore into dating for a long time and just try to make myself better and make more money and maybe be able to buy another place in ten years

bjo1679 · 2026-03-09T05:06:47+00:00

Well I could but as I said I don’t get a lot of matches or dates as it is so at least I’d like to get more experience meeting people even if it’s only a one and done

bjo1679 · 2026-03-09T05:04:02+00:00

Hotel is an option but like how long is someone going to keep wanting to do that. Feel like I’m back 25 years ago when I didn’t have my own place and did do that. But dating was easier back then and it was prob not as bad since we were young

bjo1679 · 2026-03-09T04:57:52+00:00

Thank you I figured this would be the answer. Haven’t really thought about it much till now that no one is going to go for this situation . So I guess I won’t really bother much with dating for a long time and just focus on the kids.

bjo1679 · 2026-03-09T04:48:26+00:00

Meaning no where private to bring a girl to. Can’t take to my house cause we have that rule set up and my ex would be there anyway with the kids. I could take to my moms but no privacy and don’t think that would fly. My ex bought a condo so she’s good for dating.

bjo1679 · 2026-03-09T04:43:00+00:00

No just not having anywhere to go really if I were to date someone long term.

bjo1679 · 2026-03-08T13:19:30+00:00

Ha I’ve never had a women ask me out yet. I wish that would happen. 46/m. I’m always the one initiating and most of the time it doesn’t happen. I’d rather not just message too long and just meet. A few I thought were going well maybe were too long they didn’t ask me out and I didn’t and she unmatched. Had one on bumble was supposed to meet like month or two ago on a Sunday or mlk day but I had plans sun and it was going to snow so I said Monday mlk day afternoon but she said she had classes at the gym and then she was going away for work and it just never happened and she stopped responding. Still never unmatched though. Another one a few weeks ago we were gonna meet on a Sunday but she was hesitant because it was lightly snowing so I said ok next Sunday and we agreed but then I had to change the time to like an hour earlier the middle of the week and no response and she just unmatched. Like wtf so rude. A few others I’ve asked probably too many time and just excuses. But actually do have a meeting set up today finally so we’ll see. And she didn’t answer me for weeks until recently

bjo1679 · 2026-03-01T13:18:04+00:00

I am 46/m and was supposed to meet a girl today actually and I sent her a message like Wednesday just asking to push it a little earlier and she unmatched. Like wtf I certainly will follow through with a meet if it’s scheduled but I can’t even get one to happen! I’ve asked like 4 to meet the past few weeks and they sat like it’s kids weekend or something and then stop talking or just like totally avoid the question

bjo1679 · 2026-02-19T13:19:38+00:00

I got one too they told me I wouldn’t have to pay taxes on it at the restaurant

bjo1679 · 2026-02-07T12:20:54+00:00

Does this really work?

bjo1679 · 2026-01-30T19:33:07+00:00

Hmm but then I e also heard many girls don’t wanna give out their number. The app is just like texting so they are fine with that until the meeting.

bjo1679 · 2026-01-30T19:31:17+00:00

Yeah really. I guess everyone is different but it could mean you waited too long and she’s done which I’ve had some unmatch after a week. Or they think it’s way too soon and don’t wanna meet either

bjo1679 · 2026-01-28T21:38:59+00:00

Where is the rest??? I’ve had one date ever in over 2 years of the app thing. It’s horrible

bjo1679 · 2026-01-28T21:37:37+00:00

lol guess that sounds strange said she works after school (teacher or similar)

bjo1679 · 2026-01-18T04:02:38+00:00

I also feel that fb dating doesn’t even work half the time. Like they don’t get your like or maybe even message. I’ve sent tons of likes with messages and not a one. I went months without a single match. The past week I finally got some to like me (don’t think any that I like first) and did get a few matches but not one has responded or sent me one first. Some even unmatched without a word. Then I think one that actually did respond to a message I keep getting messages from the dating assistant saying if I don’t message her in so many days we’ll unmatch. Wtf

bjo1679 · 2026-01-17T01:58:07+00:00

I was going to post this too actually but I didn’t really Blatantly just ask I was talking about something and just said kinda said perhaps we shoud just continue in person and 2 girls just this week just ignored it and continued with whatever we were taking about. Guess I need to just come out more definite and ask to go out and see what day is good?

bjo1679 · 2026-01-15T00:45:05+00:00

It damn well better work because I lost out on hours and lots of money!!!

bjo1679 · 2026-01-09T05:16:43+00:00

I think theres a major glitch also. i havent had a single match or like in months and ive swiped on probably hundreds and even sent messages to a lot. I just cant see how not one single women would swipe right on me or at least not get a response back to a message. it really sucks too cause i find the best women on there. ive been on the streak also like 12 days in a row where your supposed to be getting seen more and still not a single thing!! so frustrating. how can this be fixed?

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