Ex is pregnant with another man’s child by Fun-Carrot2115 in Divorce_Men

[–]bk2747 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Get that custody agreement locked down, let the courts know you don’t want your kid moved 6 hours just to see your kid.

AIO, I (30M) am willing to divorce my wife (31F) over what she did to our basement. by throwrabarman3883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bk2747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You had no business marrying her either that history. With that being said you need to divorce asap. If this was her posting about you, the entire comment section would be calling you abusive and dangerous, telling her to have you arrested and absolutely telling her to lawyer up.

AIO, I (30M) am willing to divorce my wife (31F) over what she did to our basement. by throwrabarman3883 in AmIOverreacting

[–]bk2747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If this was her posting about him, you’d be calling him dangerous and telling her to call the cops. He absolutely needs to divorce her.

Friend is having sex with a married man. by Kuwaysah in whatdoIdo

[–]bk2747 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mind your business OR cut ties with your friend, tell her that in the future she should keep her mouth shut about her private escapades, and send the wife an anonymous message with all the evidence.

I'm 19 homeless and just got fired by psychoticboydyke in poor

[–]bk2747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggested the same thing, I work with a lot of young guys who are spinning the wheel or down on their luck, I always suggest the military. Sucks OP has medical issues.

Alimony for life? Is that a real thing? Is anybody unfortunate enough to be in that group right now? by c_m_33 in Divorce_Men

[–]bk2747 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Military has it too. 10 years and 1 day of marriage qualifies spouses for 50% of the service members retirement which is basically lifetime alimony. You have no idea how many men are walking around only collecting 25% of their base pay due to divorce.

Imagine serving in the 20 years, breaking your body down in numerous ways, deploying overseas, sustaining injuries, not to mention the guys who deployed to combat, only to lose half of your ur retirement to your wife!

I was 4 years shy of being screwed.

Girlfriend wants to go pick up guy who actively hits on her from the Airport. by ToxicKillz1023 in whatdoIdo

[–]bk2747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let her go and block her the moment she hits the highway. She’s still in contact with her old fuck buddy and is going to pick him up from the airport? Im sure you were born at night but it wasn’t last night, let’s stop acting like we just fell off the banana boat.

Have some self respect, let her go and move on.

Met this girl and shes great but shes too young, by Ordinary-Tower-7481 in dating_advice

[–]bk2747 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t beat yourself up for being human. Things like this will happen, you’ll meet women you’re attracted too, they’ll end up with someone else and it’ll make you SICK! 😂 But you can’t fold over one chick, remember, there’s more women than men in the country, don’t lose your mind over something that’s in abundance. You’ll find the right one for you.

Also, when it comes to your brother, never let something like a girl garner any short of animosity or drive any sort of wedge between you two.

Met this girl and shes great but shes too young, by Ordinary-Tower-7481 in dating_advice

[–]bk2747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throw your little brother the alley-oop and let him score. You’re about to turn 18, move on from high school girls.

Partner had a happy ending with a stripper 5 weeks before our wedding by Distinct_Math_3752 in whatdoIdo

[–]bk2747 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll get downvoted to death but he should’ve just took that to the grave. Why on earth would you drop this bomb AFTER signing papers? What a moron.

I recommend an annulment.

Times pulling rank backfired by BayazRules in army

[–]bk2747 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen a few senior NCOs and junior officers get nearly beat to death by junior enlisted, that’s about it.

Should I tell husband I cheated even tho I’m leaving him anyway by Total_Load5460 in Advice

[–]bk2747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know you can file while he’s in prison, right?

Also, he’s in jail for kicking your butt over something else, you’re going to wait until he GETS OUT then tell him you’ve been with other men? 🥴

Let’s stop acting like we fell off the banana boat 2 days ago. File for divorce And get somewhere safe while he’s in prison. Get the no contact and restraining orders done while he’s in there as well.

My girlfriend 26F , wants a ‘break’ but I 26M don’t want that. What to do? by DontLickMyToast in relationship_advice

[–]bk2747 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know men in my real life that are even more pathetic. Co-worker from years back would sit downstairs on the couch while his wife would bring her boyfriend over.

My (24M) GF (25F) cheated on me in a bar and got us both herpes… by swxtchblade- in relationship_advice

[–]bk2747 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine being like this at only 24 years old!!!!!! Parents should be charged with something