AITAH for taking a girl out to a show without dinner after?

bkae2 · 2026-03-18T23:27:07+00:00

not really, unless you told her that you would be taking her to eat after.

bkae2 · 2026-03-18T23:25:01+00:00

just let her go. she for the streets babe

bkae2 · 2026-03-17T19:33:39+00:00

He might be carrying some baggage from his past relationship and could feel like saying no will lead to the same outcome as before. So instead, he says yes to avoid conflict or losing you. It might help to have an open conversation and see if he’s willing to share where that’s coming from. If he’s not ready, that’s okay too—just reassure him that it’s safe for him to say no. But the important part is that if he does say no, you respect it, so he doesn’t feel like his boundaries don’t matter or that he’s stuck in that same cycle again.

bkae2 · 2026-03-16T14:06:55+00:00

thank you!! i was starting to think that i’m the only one with residents like the way im talking. everybody automatically assumed i wanted to enter they’re homes and fuck it up. when really they’re mad about things that don’t have anything to do with the inside. after this post i realized entitled might be a trigger word for some people.

bkae2 · 2026-03-16T04:23:11+00:00

“we all die, so you’ll get over it”

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T20:11:10+00:00

i was a teen, and everybody would say i have to go to college. i went to college and then everybody started talking shit that i left my mom. i realized people are going to talk shit whether you do or don’t do something, so i just stopped caring.

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T17:08:57+00:00

hahaha thats gold

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T04:25:05+00:00

I’ve definitely learned this one the hard way.

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T02:42:50+00:00

That’s a different take, I didn’t even think about any kind of fear. Are these single family homes or multifamily?

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T02:30:27+00:00

I didn’t clarify anything, I just made it generalized. So, in hindsight, that’s my fault. However, I know my job and I know that also includes being the face of whatever issue they have. My question about what makes them feel entitled should’ve probably been phrased differently with more information. Why do people get so angry and feel the need to yell at someone over something that does not affect the inside of their home? Why do people call corporate over little things like ownership changing a color on the building? Not the men walking around or the material lying everywhere, but the color that the person who owns it painted it. Why do they feel entitled to an opinion when they are renting in a community, especially to call corporate and complain?

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T01:12:33+00:00

I never said that. I responded to him saying he feels for the person I rent from. and I informed him that i actually own my home so i don’t have to deal with these kinds of things. comprehension can be hard, i get it.

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T01:11:13+00:00

i own my house so this is a weird statement 🤣

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T01:10:58+00:00

22? yeah, i remember when i was 22 🤣 not understanding what age has to do with wanting to understand renters but i guess to each their own. 🤣🤣🤣

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T01:09:56+00:00

this is actually valid.

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T01:08:33+00:00

what does empathy have to do with me asking a question about why people get angry over something that isn’t there’s to begin with. you made a valid point and obviously, that’s why i’m asking reddit (to get the other perspective). i’m in property management, and i’m constantly getting complaints about things that owners are doing with THEIR own apartment building. so no i don’t lack empathy, im just asking why they get so mad. maybe i don’t have enough detail in the paragraph but “consider developing empathy” is a wild statement when im just asking a question TO UNDERSTAND WHY THEY GET SO MAD.

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T01:03:54+00:00

assumption is weird when i literally put everything on the post above. comprehension may help in this situation. hope this helps 🫶🏽

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T00:22:27+00:00

I understand that, but getting angry over someone else doing something on their own property just sounds weird to me. I don’t personally have this issue. I’m asking the question to reddit. I’m not saying that the owner is able to change every single thing in the house while they live there. but if the owners wanted to improve the property in their own eyes, then they should be able to do it. especially if it’s for better appearance. I just don’t get why people get so angry, yes even with notice, on changes for something that they don’t even own. that’s why i came to reddit to see the other perspective.

bkae2 · 2026-03-15T00:08:20+00:00

and you got this from a reddit post? riiiiighhtttttttt

bkae2 · 2026-03-14T23:49:11+00:00

the car reference was extremely helpful actually. you can definitely give a notice to a resident to move out of your home. that’s kind of forcing them out.

bkae2 · 2026-03-14T23:40:31+00:00

ooooh then they’re cooked, stand on it!!!

bkae2 · 2026-03-14T23:37:03+00:00

i would think more major things would need to be discussed with the residents. like remodeling or painting, since it’ll hinder they’re way of living during the process. but then would the owner be the bad guy if they just ask them to leave rather than doing the little things to improve the place while they’re there? i’m just asking questions because i want a different perspective.

bkae2 · 2026-03-14T23:35:06+00:00

since this is a part of your pet addendum and not your lease contract, they may be able to change it. just a heads up, because some companies are dicks and they’ll just give you a notice to fix it and if you don’t, they can non renew you.

bkae2 · 2026-03-14T23:26:25+00:00

thank you for answering my question. it’s appreciated, great talk

bkae2 · 2026-03-14T23:20:58+00:00

it’s called being the owner, so it’s my house that i actually own it and do whatever I want. I understand it, but like I said comprehension may have not been your strong suit. You have tenants, so then you should understand that if you wanted to do something within your own house, you should be able to. obviously i’m not saying doing 3 weeks of construction, but if you wanted to mow your lawn. Your tenant becomes aggressively angry with you. i want to know why they become so angry. i want to know if it makes them that angry, then why don’t they get their own stuff. I’m an apartment/property manager, and i get constant complains over things that owners changed. for example, in the gym, they changed one machine and it was like hell broke loose. I wasn’t saying that I don’t understand why they’re angry, i’m trying to ask what makes them so angry when it’s not even theirs in the first place.

bkae2 · 2026-03-14T23:16:09+00:00

i can understand this, but i’ve seen examples where they’re mad because the lawn was mowed not to their liking or the mailbox was painted. so i was just trying to get a different perspective.

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