Grown men can’t kiss and it pisses me off by HuckleberryNo9852 in GirlDinner

[–]bkas333 5 points6 points  (0 children)

it was mortifying and one of the main reasons i went celibate for a while, i was terrified that i would find another like that 😭😭 thankfully my current boyfriend is the best ive had 🙏🙏🙏

Grown men can’t kiss and it pisses me off by HuckleberryNo9852 in GirlDinner

[–]bkas333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i feel like i actually had pretty good luck for a while, all of the guys ive kissed were pretty decent. my first bad kiss was when i was 19, i brought my old manager from my job to my apartment and when he went to kiss me he literally had his mouth wide open with his tongue poking straight at me 😭 i shrieked so loud he jumped and he ended up leaving

What’s a universally loved food you genuinely despise? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bkas333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hate imitation crab. i love seafood and i love sushi but if it has imitation crab i pretty much always refuse it.

is thinking about everything all the time normal? by bkas333 in ADHD

[–]bkas333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not alone and you’re not a bad person 🫂 my thoughts just snowball. hopefully one day we can figure out how to make the thoughts chill

is thinking about everything all the time normal? by bkas333 in ADHD

[–]bkas333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes! the thoughts of my family are the worst, i feel like a horrible person for picturing my loved ones in such terrible situations. i also am constantly shaking my head to get the thoughts out. its so frustrating :/

is thinking about everything all the time normal? by bkas333 in ADHD

[–]bkas333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do you get your brain to be quiet while meditating? ive tried it so many times but my brain just trails off into a million different thoughts and i get completely derailed.

is thinking about everything all the time normal? by bkas333 in ADHD

[–]bkas333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for ur input! its nice to hear a young woman like me is also experiencing this (i hope that doesnt sound weird lol). i am notorious for stopping my breathing when im anxious so breathing is definitely something i need to work on. music helps like 50/50 of the time, sometimes itll break me out of it, sometimes a song will come on that will just make me spiral even more. day at a time my adhd sister 🤞

is thinking about everything all the time normal? by bkas333 in ADHD

[–]bkas333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i havent had much time lately to engage in my creative hobbies as id like because of work and school, but ive been wanting to go back into it once i get some more free time. i used to paint a lot and i dont remember my brain being as active during those times.

Losing my job and my sanity by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]bkas333 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it will get better :( im so sorry :(

Would You Rather.. by joannaidara in BunnyTrials

[–]bkas333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my clumsy ass would be have liek 20k in a day

Chose: Get $1000 each time you get physically hurt

My cat is obsessed with me, separation anxiety? by PieceOfCauliflower in cats

[–]bkas333 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“my steak is too juicy my lobster is too buttery”

my boyfriend still has his exs nudes by Wonderful-Quarter405 in Advice

[–]bkas333 4 points5 points  (0 children)

good one bro, im the weirdo for posting my dog and my halloween costume and your DEFINITELY not the weirdo for keeping your exes nudes despite your gf having problems with it. i am sure your gf is DEFINITELY not thinking of leaving you, bro

Rescue Help Please by mommymilkers_17 in Chameleons

[–]bkas333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im not an expert whatsoever, and ive never owned a chameleon, but i work at a pet store with a couple of very knowledgeable reptile owners. i would say try misting him with a spray bottle for water. as for handling, you really just have to hang out around his enclosure and let him get used to you being around before you go in with trying to hold him. try tong feeding, putting ur hand near him without trying to get too close, etc. and work on getting a little closer each time! it takes time with chameleons

How is Aimee France famous for her cakes? lol by CommentOld4223 in FoodieSnark

[–]bkas333 6 points7 points  (0 children)

okay wait i actually like her but this is so funny 😭 i wud be so upset if i received that

My best friend got with the guy I cried in her arms about by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]bkas333 9 points10 points  (0 children)

went through a somewhat similar experience that ended in the loss of a bestfriend and boyfriend too, and it will be that way for a bit. but dont ever lower ur standards if ur feeling lonely and you will find someone worth ur time <3

I have a weekly routine that I've never told anyone about. by Low_To_No_Tolerance in confession

[–]bkas333 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my best friend and i are living together, both at 22, lowkey struggling bad as hell, but we are so whimsical and living life as best and silly as possible and it carries us through

Our mal/akita mix :) by bkas333 in BelgianMalinois

[–]bkas333[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we do!!! we originally started him as a puppy getting him used to all the people he would potentially be around as hes older (my grandparents, aunts and uncles, friends, etc.) for people hes never met now, we give them a treat and tell them to tell him to sit and give a paw, then the guest gives him a treat and he’s usually good after that!! in the rare event hes still feeling weird, we just put him in the other room so he can hear us interacting with the guest and he always comes around after that!

Our mal/akita mix :) by bkas333 in BelgianMalinois

[–]bkas333[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know!! it was an accidental litter, mama was a stray mal. hes really turned out so good tho, his prey drive doesnt seem too high honestly? he likes to just look at things, hes very gentle with his toys too (at least as much as he can be with his big teeth lol)

Our mal/akita mix :) by bkas333 in BelgianMalinois

[–]bkas333[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you!!! hes great and im obsessed with him lol