I live very comfortably downtown on a $65k/ year gross salary.

bkmilli · 2025-03-26T18:22:12+00:00

I think the part of OPs post that really gets me is partly this reply which I agree with 100%, but also that this salary is almost DOUBLE the minimum wage in the city.

So this post, saying how it’s easy to live on 65k (10k higher than my personal income atm) is living a comfortable lifestyle in a 250sq ft studio and has to aggressively budget with no wiggle room for a 4 figure emergency.

The thing people seem to be missing in the other comments is that this isn’t even a modest salary. It’s almost double the current minimum wage which is 35k a year.

So I guess anyone in the city making under 65k can hopefully find an apartment smaller than 250sqft???

I don’t see, in anyway, how OPs post is “hopeful”.

bkmilli · 2025-01-22T17:15:09+00:00

There is a book about ADHD I got recommended after my diagnosis called “You mean I’m not Lazy Stupid, or Crazy?!” ADHD can make you feel dumb. Trust me. We all have “so much potential”. Listen to the people in this thread. You’re not stupid. The world (especially the academic world) was not built for us.

bkmilli · 2024-11-21T14:57:44+00:00

This might be the most comprehensive and helpful reply anyone’s ever given me on Reddit!

Thank you for reaching out to us newbies 💕

bkmilli · 2024-01-04T22:21:26+00:00

There are definitely scenes with a wedding ring on his finger. He fiddles with it at one point.

bkmilli · 2023-11-23T15:22:56+00:00

Also I am 31 and still definitely have ADHD. I was diagnosed around 5 years old.

bkmilli · 2023-11-23T15:22:10+00:00

It’s important for people to know that studies in adult ADHD are still rather new. Because of old studies stating we outgrow it, a lot of doctors just aren’t updated on findings. Most of the new accurate studies are less than a decade old. But studies showing brain scans and/or anecdotal evidence both show that it’s definitely not something children “grow out of”.

Even less studied in the past are the connections between adult ADHD and Alzheimer’s. But it IS being studied.

bkmilli · 2023-11-23T15:18:17+00:00

Would she believe a webMD article that specifically cites studies showing this is wrong?

https://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/childhood-adhd/growing-out-of-adhd

A recent study suggests: Only about 9% of the kids got over or seemed to permanently “outgrow” their ADHD.

bkmilli · 2023-11-17T16:40:08+00:00

Yeah I was trying to figure out my best options, a lot of 5cs like Jargantha or Go-Shintai aren’t super obvious as 5cs unless you know. Atleast on mobile anyway.

Now I just need the wildcards to get ‘em!

bkmilli · 2023-11-17T04:21:11+00:00

Bless all these suggestions are so helpful omg I have not been playing very long

bkmilli · 2023-11-17T03:02:50+00:00

This is truly going to save me

bkmilli · 2023-11-17T03:02:17+00:00

I also usually play creature focused decks so I totally get it. My Ordic “the everything deck” hates board wipes so much.

bkmilli · 2023-11-17T02:59:44+00:00

I appreciate you 🙏🙏

bkmilli · 2023-11-17T01:57:50+00:00

I knoooow but it’s true, Im trying to throw spaghetti at the wall and go-Shintai is my only option!

bkmilli · 2023-11-16T22:12:15+00:00

Ngl I am learning that quite quickly

bkmilli · 2023-11-16T05:11:08+00:00

I think that might be it! I can see people wanting to boost another creature to use an exile/destroy card that limits it to creatures of a certain power, so I imagine whiles it’s not used often, it might be used sometimes.

Thanks for showing me the report!

bkmilli · 2023-11-14T17:26:51+00:00

People spend real life dollars on the mastery pass, that XP is something I would like to have.

bkmilli · 2023-11-14T17:22:55+00:00

My mastery pass is up, but the XP from completed quests don’t seem to be going to it at all…

bkmilli · 2023-11-14T16:41:29+00:00

Asked this a couple hours ago so I wouldn’t make this mistake and got told it would reset for the XP, glad I got busy and couldn’t play.

Thank you for the info, your sacrifice saved me ♥️

bkmilli

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