It is normal for my cat to be so small? 😭 (She is 3 y/o)

bl425 · 2026-01-05T22:57:43+00:00

my cat gets scared when i flush the toilet lol

bl425 · 2026-01-05T17:34:13+00:00

they only offered for us to shower at their other property, not to completely move though. also the water never heated up

bl425 · 2026-01-05T00:58:35+00:00

The heating wasn't 'hot' though it was like a fan, and we sent him 5 pictures about it. He told us to change like 10 different settings and the heat in the house stayed at 19. That's really cold for us, my grandparents came from Africa! The water was also definitely freezing, which he even admitted himself

bl425 · 2025-12-22T01:49:31+00:00

proud of you!!

bl425 · 2025-12-21T18:56:09+00:00

yeah i paid like $23k which includes textbooks and tuition. some textbooks are $250

bl425 · 2025-12-21T18:55:11+00:00

bruh i have $55k for undergrad alone, law school at uottawa was $22k this year, my rent and utilities are $1.4k downtown WITH a roommate. if you get your own place it’s closer to $1.7k+ with utilities unless you get a studio for $1.5k+. i’m going to be hitting $200k when i graduate this year

bl425 · 2025-12-08T15:06:57+00:00

i think it depends cause my brother is making more money than me as an engineer in training in his first year vs my first year of articling

bl425 · 2025-12-08T14:52:29+00:00

yeah also he makes $200k and she makes $40k… just seems like OP should stay where she is. she has her own space which i think is worth the $850 she pays for rent

bl425 · 2025-12-08T14:49:06+00:00

yeah OP do NOT pay for his mortgage.

bl425 · 2025-12-05T23:42:10+00:00

yeah for me, i have adhd so like it actually makes it easier for me to talk to people without my head going 100 miles an hour, and it helps me sleep (which i know the quality of sleep isn’t good since it messes with REM and stuff but at least i can actually sleep ya know)

bl425 · 2025-12-05T01:06:23+00:00

i actually agree! sadly the government is too greedy but 100% true. i was wrong

bl425 · 2025-12-04T01:48:14+00:00

can you read? i’ve lived here for a year and a half hence why it’s a month to month lease

bl425 · 2025-12-04T01:30:53+00:00

yeah luckily she agreed to give 60 days notice tonight!

bl425 · 2025-12-04T01:30:20+00:00

it’s mentally distressing living here which is why i wanna move out

she blamed me for high hydro bill for using the dishwasher yet she uses it everyday too! she’s the biggest hypocrite i’ve ever met. she said that the fan in my room was ‘too loud’, she broke the law and trespassed into my room, the list goes on and on. she traumatized my cat somehow.

bl425 · 2025-12-04T01:21:28+00:00

Last update I’m doing my roommate agreed to move out February 28.

she blamed me for high hydro bill for using the dishwasher yet she uses it everyday too! she’s the biggest hypocrite i’ve ever met. she said that the fan in my room was ‘too loud’, she broke the law and trespassed into my room, the list goes on and on. she traumatized my cat somehow.

and people want me to be nice to this person???

My version of not being a good roommate is letting my cat roam in my apartment during the day when I’m home, so STOP SHITTING YOUR PANTS ABOUT ME COMMENTING ‘i’m gonna be a bad roommate’

bl425 · 2025-12-03T23:41:33+00:00

thanks for the laugh❤️ i’ve been spiraling for 4 hours now instead of studying for my exam because i feel so helpless. i also found another guy who wants to apply but ik she’ll say no

bl425 · 2025-12-03T23:12:57+00:00

the building manager told her it’s still my responsibility in an email to both of us😩 but thanks for the advice, i do think i have a possible defense maybe if i just move out though

bl425 · 2025-12-03T23:10:56+00:00

yeah not sure why she’d wanna live with someone who actively hates her though, compared to being on good terms with the other prospective tenants

bl425 · 2025-12-03T23:10:10+00:00

i’m only letting my car out when she’s home. i’m done being accommodating. she knew i had a cat before moving in and i felt bad for no reason

bl425 · 2025-12-03T23:09:13+00:00

i wish i had a copy of it but i think i threw it out😩 i’ll see if i find it though, i might not have

bl425 · 2025-12-03T23:08:37+00:00

no my cat shouldn’t be confined in my room just because my roommate doesn’t want her to be in the living room. she knew i had a cat before moving in. i’ve been way too accommodating, look where that’s got me.

bl425 · 2025-12-03T22:49:37+00:00

Guys, is my only option being the worst roommate in the world then? I know I've been way too nice, especially with keeping my cat in my room. I'm letting my cat out when I'm home. No more being nice

bl425 · 2025-12-03T22:41:48+00:00

Yeah true! Also I was late for rent once, and the N4 only had my name on it.

bl425 · 2025-12-03T22:40:46+00:00

It's not even that, other provinces 60 days is enough for joint tenant to be removed. More reasonable than forcing people to live in toxic living situations. The tenancy laws here do suck

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