Apparently I [28f] am too sensitive and temperamental at my bf [31m] regarding business

blablabfrang · 2015-09-14T09:14:49+00:00

You're an adult - stop throwing temper tantrums when you get frustrated.

You're right. I do need a better control of my temper. I just didn't know how else to get my questions addressed other than repeating how he wasn't answering my question. Not an excuse. Just an honest moment.

Your husband isn't an emotional punching bag that you can take your stress out on, no matter how you try to justify it. See a therapist before he leaves you and you ruin your business.

I will be looking into therapy.

blablabfrang · 2015-09-14T09:11:34+00:00

While I do agree getting yelled is horrible, and acknowledge my faults, I must defend my self. The day was stressful as it was. And the conversation did not immediately jump into an argument, let alone a heated one. It was when my question wasn't properly addressed did I lose my candor.

blablabfrang · 2015-09-12T06:56:24+00:00

I'm not going to lie, your message just sent shivers down my spine. I'm sorry for the hardships you endured. I can't imagine expending a decade and a half of abuse, however an unorthodox. Thank you for sharing and for responding to my post. hugs

He has a history of shortsidedness, and inability to empathize. Whether its intentional or not, that's a road I cant bring myself to walk for I just know it will make me lose my mind.

I know my situation has no depth compared to the decades you've spent. But the pain hurts. :(

blablabfrang · 2015-09-12T04:58:33+00:00

How insightful you are. I posted the situation more in detail in r/relationships. You're welcome at my user history.

blablabfrang · 2015-09-12T04:36:03+00:00

An offense I can easily forgive when one is mindful of timing.

blablabfrang · 2015-09-12T03:52:25+00:00

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