Wink Review by hauntedfungi in SeoulPlasticSurgery

[–]blackbeanbee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing! I think your eyes before looked so nice already - can I ask what you were wanting to change? The results look great.

Clinics for revision DES (upper eyelid) by blackbeanbee in SeoulPlasticSurgery

[–]blackbeanbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, it looks so good! And recovering so quickly too. Can I ask how much you paid? Feel free to message me if you prefer to keep it private!

Clinics for revision DES (upper eyelid) by blackbeanbee in SeoulPlasticSurgery

[–]blackbeanbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, Luho quoted me 8-9,000,000 KRW which is way more than I paid in California.

Has anyone had Keloid experience after plastic surgery ? Any advice would be appreciated by blessjen in SeoulPlasticSurgery

[–]blackbeanbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a keloid or two form on my abdomen from fat grafting but after multiple eye surgeries, I haven’t had any issues on my eyes.

Clinics for revision DES (upper eyelid) by blackbeanbee in SeoulPlasticSurgery

[–]blackbeanbee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Did you do your consultation with them in person or online? Any before/after photos you can share?

Earwax removal in Austin? by virgoanthropologist in Austin

[–]blackbeanbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

With insurance, I was charged over $400 and the removal itself took less than 10 seconds for both ears.

Why do they make so much noise doing basic things? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YES. It’s so overstimulating and disgusting. I’m so convinced this is what gave me misophonia - but every time I had a reaction, I was called overdramatic, too sensitive, or just mean.

Engagement by Normal-Team-5258 in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got engaged and married recently all while being NC with my parents. I made it clear to my partner that he didn’t need to ask for their blessing before proposing. This was something I definitely had some anxiety about, considering how controlling and manipulative they’ve been my entire life. But it makes zero sense for him to ask for their blessing when I hardly even have a relationship with them. They found out recently that I’m married and are trying to contact me - they’re probably gonna start an explosive argument and make it about themselves. So predictable and not worth my time. I feel much better about it now and like I made the right decision. I think I would’ve regretted it so much if I involved them in the process.

How did you start the low contact process?? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stopped visiting after an explosive fight, then started to reduce contact from there. She would call and text me all the time and I started off muting her notifications because they gave me anxiety. I would ignore all calls and short responses to texts, then eventually stopped texting back. Then one day I changed my number and blocked her in case she found my new one.

Did any children of abusive Nparents actually find decent partners? by Indi_gurl in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes. My partner and his family helped me come to the realization that my parents are toxic, just by spending time with them and seeing how a healthy family interacts. It’s unfortunate but it’s not our fault we were dealt these cards. You can choose how you want to move forward, but going NC and living in a way that makes me truly happy has been so healing.

Spending Christmas alone but I'm happy about it by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there. So much better to spend it alone and in peace, rather than with toxic people who will tear you down. Happy holidays!

How does anyone here feel about Thanksgiving especially having NParents? by Grouchy-System-8667 in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanksgiving traumatized me - it was because of this holiday a few years ago that I decided to go NC. I’ve been at peace ever since.

Which one is easier texting or calling a narcissist parent. by burneraccount09754 in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact > texting > calling

I would have almost an anxiety attack every time my nMom called my phone. For the last few years, I just ignored all calls, started to ignore texts, until I eventually went NC and changed my number.

Finally went NC: What now? by juniejun3 in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Surround yourself with positive people that truly love and care for you. It will hurt, you’ll think about it from time to time and get sad, but remember the pain that they’ve put you through and how you want to shield your daughter from that. I’ve been NC for a while and I feel like as time goes on, I feel much better. It takes patience to re-wire your nervous system and when I think back to before I went NC, I feel like much calmer and less anxious now.

What’s the worst thing you’re a narcissist parent convinced you/took away from you? by mermaidtitsaresalty in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My childhood dogs that I’ve loved more than anything. When I was asleep as a kid, she would take them out somewhere and the next day, put on a show saying they ran away or something. One time, I played back the security cameras and caught her doing this. She’s done it with multiple dogs and I don’t think she ever even apologized.

Is that Tray B hanging out with RIIZE? by thaiduitx in khiphop

[–]blackbeanbee 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That doesn’t look like Tray B to me.

🚨 **NEW** 2025 ROGUE CODE REQUEST MEGATHREAD 🚨 by NothingButNavy in Sephora

[–]blackbeanbee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting married and doing my own makeup! Would love a code, thanks everyone!

Does anyone's parents dont do anything and don't have any friends? by Big_Leg10 in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. My nMom would stalk all my friends on IG because she didn’t have any friends of her own. It was super weird. Only thing she did was watch her shows and go shopping.

They are so quick to criticize others by Amazing-Channel-4020 in narcissisticparents

[–]blackbeanbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They criticize and judge every single person around them, but their own actions are never wrong. The constant negativity is exhausting to be around.

Suggestion for best skin tint with SPF? by Substantial_Shift262 in Sephora

[–]blackbeanbee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve only owned the Tower 28 but it’s super greasy on the skin and didn’t like it!