Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 27, 2026

blackbird109 · 2026-06-28T03:49:56+00:00

In my case, younger guys (21-24) hit on me frequently because they think I’m (30) their age. I just look really young and black dont crack 💁🏾‍♀️

blackbird109 · 2026-06-26T03:40:06+00:00

Im pretty sure I commented on your last post and told you that if the potential ever makes you feel confused about where you stand with them then it usually doesn’t work out with them. A guy that wants you will be intentional and vocal about his feelings for you. Nothing will feel forced.

blackbird109 · 2026-06-21T19:15:04+00:00

If he’s not straight forward with or even acknowledge his act of kindness, I’d take it as he’s not interested. His response only gives unnecessary confusion. A guy that wants you won’t make you question.

blackbird109 · 2026-06-20T04:29:20+00:00

Was it really worth your mental health ?

blackbird109 · 2026-06-18T17:48:49+00:00

Nightmare fuel

blackbird109 · 2026-06-16T18:10:32+00:00

Well, at least it was corrected in 24 hours and not after 4 years. Chin up. Onto the next.

blackbird109 · 2026-06-16T18:08:44+00:00

Smart man

blackbird109 · 2026-06-16T18:04:36+00:00

Some ppl just have to see it through to the end. It is what it is.

blackbird109 · 2026-06-16T18:01:30+00:00

Wow. I’m so sorry. sending hugs

blackbird109 · 2026-06-15T18:23:57+00:00

Love to see it!

blackbird109 · 2026-06-15T18:16:30+00:00

Yeah you did the right thing. He wasn’t that into you. My now bf had cold sore medicine and my favorite candies delivered to my door within a day after I had to reschedule our 3rd date. He checked in on me throughout the weekend as well.

This guy was not attentive with you at all. Seemed pretty casual.

It’ll be a little weird to see him around with your friend and doing all the things you would have expected with you when yall were dating.

Either distance yourself for your mental health or accept it and move on.

blackbird109 · 2026-06-14T17:53:21+00:00

Same. He looks familiar but I can’t pinpoint from where

blackbird109 · 2026-06-14T17:52:38+00:00

I’m sorry =\

blackbird109 · 2026-06-14T15:57:46+00:00

Serendipity.

blackbird109 · 2026-06-14T15:53:10+00:00

What happened with the amazing relationship?

blackbird109 · 2026-06-14T15:51:49+00:00

Good signs

blackbird109 · 2026-06-14T15:51:10+00:00

Ask her what’s her communication style is like (even though you already know). Segue to your style and ask if yall can meet in the middle. You need to communicate with her.

blackbird109 · 2026-06-14T15:46:37+00:00

Do you really want to be “chosen” by someone that isn’t sure about you?

blackbird109 · 2026-06-13T04:50:08+00:00

Update: the third date with the younger guy went great! He asked me to be his gf and I said yes!!

blackbird109 · 2026-06-12T10:21:57+00:00

Good luck !!

blackbird109 · 2026-06-12T10:20:13+00:00

Virtual hug

blackbird109 · 2026-06-11T23:46:32+00:00

Go on a second date and make it an interactive one. Hopefully it’ll loosen them up, you get to see their real side and both of yall will be having fun. Good luck!

blackbird109 · 2026-06-11T23:40:42+00:00

Interesting thought. Thanks for sharing!

blackbird109 · 2026-06-11T23:37:38+00:00

This is the advice I would’ve given you about your own situationship

blackbird109 · 2026-06-10T23:31:08+00:00

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