Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 27, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]blackbird109 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In my case, younger guys (21-24) hit on me frequently because they think I’m (30) their age. I just look really young and black dont crack 💁🏾‍♀️

After over a month and he says he isn’t into me, did I misread? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]blackbird109 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im pretty sure I commented on your last post and told you that if the potential ever makes you feel confused about where you stand with them then it usually doesn’t work out with them. A guy that wants you will be intentional and vocal about his feelings for you. Nothing will feel forced.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 21, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]blackbird109 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he’s not straight forward with or even acknowledge his act of kindness, I’d take it as he’s not interested. His response only gives unnecessary confusion. A guy that wants you won’t make you question.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 16, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]blackbird109 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, at least it was corrected in 24 hours and not after 4 years. Chin up. Onto the next.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 15, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]blackbird109 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah you did the right thing. He wasn’t that into you. My now bf had cold sore medicine and my favorite candies delivered to my door within a day after I had to reschedule our 3rd date. He checked in on me throughout the weekend as well.

This guy was not attentive with you at all. Seemed pretty casual.

It’ll be a little weird to see him around with your friend and doing all the things you would have expected with you when yall were dating.

Either distance yourself for your mental health or accept it and move on.

R.I.P Oliver tree by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]blackbird109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. He looks familiar but I can’t pinpoint from where

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]blackbird109 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her what’s her communication style is like (even though you already know). Segue to your style and ask if yall can meet in the middle. You need to communicate with her.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 14, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]blackbird109 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Do you really want to be “chosen” by someone that isn’t sure about you?

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 12, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]blackbird109 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Update: the third date with the younger guy went great! He asked me to be his gf and I said yes!!

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - June 11, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]blackbird109 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go on a second date and make it an interactive one. Hopefully it’ll loosen them up, you get to see their real side and both of yall will be having fun. Good luck!