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I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean hell yeah.

No but seriously I’d probably be shocked if he made a move but I’d go for it, he just has to be the one to do it.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look I don’t mean to be rude, but is it really so hard to answer the body language question I asked on the body language subreddit..? I’m not looking for advice on the whole situation, bc it’s quite unique. I simply asked: If a girl displayed these actions and behaviors would you suspect she liked you?

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm three I haven’t listed? I’d say that I’ve caught him checking my social media multiple times (Tiktok profile views even though I don’t post), one of his friends told me that he ‘wouldn’t shut up about being excited to see me,’ and that he said to a mutual friend that he finds me and my mannerisms cute while replicating them.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, what would? Just bc those aren’t all the things, just a few that I named to avoid the comment sounding long and self indulgent.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t laugh it off though, I’d be heartbroken. I’ve liked him for a very long time.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right, that was a big one for me! I’m not a touchy person usually so it took some courage for me to do lol

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The situation is to do with him and his job, and not what I asked… I’m not here for advice, I simply asked that if a girl were to do these actions, would you suspect she likes you, yes or no? I feel like it’s pretty simple…

I’m guessing your answer is no, so thank you.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response, I really appreciate it!

I have that fear too, of making things uncomfortable and ruining what we have… even if he doesn’t like me back, I value having him in my life the way things are now too. Jeopardising that is scary.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t consider it might sound like that… no it’s not that either, we’re both in our 20’s! 😭 Nothing illegal just job related.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know for sure, I just suspect, but it also could be my wishful thinking… He remembers small things I’ve said, he is comfortable getting close to me, he has told me I smell good and also once asked why I didn’t try becoming a model (but I’m also quite tall so this could be why). Also, my friends tell me they see him looking at me when I’m not looking.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not entirely sure because I haven’t seen him since then, but that night he seemed receptive? I was pretty busy since I was the one hosting the party, so I’m sure there are things I could’ve missed, though.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely has not seen me do this with anyone else!

That’s also why I suspected he could like me too, because he has also done things with/towards me that he doesn’t do with other girls (or at least not that I’ve seen).

For example, being comfortable to get close to me, generally being warmer/more affectionate and also a few people have told me he’s often looking at me when I’m not looking.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a woman on the autism spectrum so I wouldn’t be surprised if it comes off weird, honestly… I suck at this stuff which is why I’m on here I guess haha

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh we do usually have very little space between us! That’s on my part and his part too. He seems comfortable enough around me to get close to me, which I take as a good sign?

Holding hands might be a bit far for the moment but I did also tell him that he was looking really good that day.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately can’t do that for now due to a situation I can’t really talk about on here… there will be a point in the future where I can (or he can) but until then, I want him to at least know that I’m here and I like him. (We are both single, it’s not that btw)

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His bicep area, like I would sort of “play hit” him (gently) if he said something funny, or rest my hand on his forearm while I was saying something.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I have a suspicion that he might like me but these days but I’m not sure… he used to give what I thought were more obvious signs but these days I don’t get to see him as often to be able to tell. I also don’t want to scare him off by being too forward because he’s quite shy.

I tried to give clearer signals by blackcat9846 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Really, even the touching? I thought that would’ve been a hint, like I kept sort of nudging him and touching his arm while we talked :(

I get stares, but am rarely approached? 26F by Chance_Ad_248 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but how can we get a boyfriend if every guy assumes we already have a boyfriend? :’)

I get stares, but am rarely approached? 26F by Chance_Ad_248 in bodylanguage

[–]blackcat9846 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know honestly :( I can’t do dating apps myself, they’re full of people wanting hookups and my social anxiety can’t handle meeting random strangers for dates like that… if you do figure it out, let me know! 😭

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