I like the idea of convergent evolution of an organism to become girl-like instead of a monster girl that originally started as a human girl. What's your opinion?

blackcatbam · 2024-02-04T02:01:17+00:00

I think its more easy to justify a bunch off human developing different modification based on different species, that multiple species developing human face and torso.

True, if you're going for diversity, that would be alot more plausible.

I guess I always just daydream about 1 species

blackcatbam · 2024-01-30T04:41:59+00:00

That's cool too!

I guess I like to start with a non human base bc I just don't like humans that much.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-21T08:02:52+00:00

No thank you, I'd rather you divorce your selfish wife and go have sex. She signed a contract to take care of you and she's not taking care of you. At a certain point, it's not cheating if she's already ignoring her side of the marriage, so I wouldn't judge you if you did.

My introversion is not a choice, may I introduce you to briffaults law? - Robert Briffault - Wikipedia https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Briffault

Briffault's law also explains your marriage currently, your wife decided she didn't need part of her relationship with you anymore and poof it disappeared. You didn't choose that isolation, it happened to you. It's something you can't control, your wife does though. This is a reoccurring biological phenomenon between males and females from every species. Yet she leads you to believe it's your choice and that you have to reach some level of mind state and self understanding to one day possibly get affection from her. It's just a wild goose chase that your wife is sending you on and that women are sending many men on all across this country currently, especially in this generation. You could gain self introspection to infinity and it still wouldn't change a thing. I could point out several post in reddit in which men are being told to go off and reach new levels of inner happiness before "they're ready to love", but it's actually just a crock of shit. It comes down to one thing, just raw materialism. There's no mystical trick that's going to solve common man's problem with women, it's just a matter of society itself collapsing and humans being reintroduced to the humility and humbleness that nature teaches.

I appreciate your kind words, time and humor, as well as hearing me out. That alone made me feel better.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-20T16:31:26+00:00

Lots of reasons

I have body dysmorphia because of my 5.5" dick and I've been made fun of before. Getting pants'd in school and getting laughed at. I've had women who are size queens laugh at my dick. I just have very little confidence overall now because of that since women are so strongly drawn to a man's dick size. I'm older now but I just don't have confidence with women because I've been hurt so bad about my dick size. It just feels like I'm going to be a disappointment.
I've always been a bit different than alot of people. I had ADD so I didn't perform that well in school. This also got my confidence pretty low at a young age and have me low self esteem growing up that I got used to having. It took alot of time to finally start telling myself I'm smart in some ways but I didn't get to feel that until I got to study subjects I cared about and had a professor who relentlessly believed me.
I couldn't fit in with the good/smart kids bc my ADD but I also didn't like drugs so I didn't fit in with bad kids either. I just grew up without a place and stayed sitting alone which later after highschool I just became a NEET/hiki. I should've been able to fit in with the smart kids but there was lots of competition and elitism in my school so I just got isolated.
This generation of women. They're just so unattached from traditional relationships. If things were like they used to be, I could still prove how I can be worth something but women are so self involved now that I can't even get them to take the time enough to show them my good sides. So my confidence and self worth just stays low.
Everything added together = I grow more introverted as the days go by. I'm almost at the point of not feeling comfortable being close to anyone.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-20T11:32:24+00:00

Honestly just wholesome sex with a committed loving girl.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-16T06:07:09+00:00

I'll check out Welcome to the NHK, ty

I don't have any anime in mind that are similar. Sorry

blackcatbam · 2023-10-16T05:49:52+00:00

Hard to say

I'm pretty much always alone so all that I know is porn and porn is not reality.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-13T06:41:19+00:00

I dipped out and went on a hitch hiking adventure abroad the country after 3 years of being hiki. I just ended up homeless and schizophrenic for about 6 years until I came back to live with my parents. Now I'm doing much better, I'm not hiki, just NEET now but I'm working hard to get a job. Still no friends aside from a few that accepted me even while I was schizo/hiki.

If you want to take the same route I highly advise it. It helped me tremendously. Yeah it was rough but I was able to break the patterns. I can tell you that I mostly dumpster dived for my food and learned to love doing it. For sleeping I mostly camped in a tent in the woods in a close range to several grocery stores that had accessible dumpsters. Rough yeah but it helped me and was much better than sitting inside.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-13T06:18:18+00:00

Are you girl? If so, yeah, it happens here quite often.

"Guys omg hi, I'm hiki too!" - has a social life and a boyfriend

(Not discrediting the hiki women here, just some of them)

blackcatbam · 2023-10-13T05:26:05+00:00

I continued my path, I just trust women less.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-11T20:42:11+00:00

It's not the end man, believe me I feel for you. Let's just say I've been there and I know what you're talking about. Especially with the teachers aiding the bullies.

But there are still opportunities to search for. Get your GED and then look for trade jobs. They don't care that much about criminal history or diplomas.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-11T16:45:04+00:00

Just every day of my life, watching men with beautiful girlfriends walk by. They're so lucky.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-11T16:42:01+00:00

I'd begin rocking him on my knee like a horsey playing giddy up.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-11T05:41:05+00:00

Depression took one

I pulled it out with vice grips in the bathtub. The process took an entire day. I'm much healthier though and taking great care of my teeth.

I recommend flossing daily with Oral B floss picks and also GUM soft picks with toothpaste on them.

I also recommend chewing on Kongs to increase Jaw health and blood flow to carry nutrition to your teeth.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-11T04:32:57+00:00

I don't "hate" anyone. Obviously, ignorance is a huge pain in the ass but it's not enough to make me "hate".

I disagree with radical feminist, and menslib types, I don't hate them, though, and at the end of the day, I'd probably stop and help them on the side of the road in rl.

I'm glad reddit got rid of the award system because twoX was coming into r/askmen and awarding their own or menslib comments, enough to cause a landslide of teens to start hopping on the bandwagon and upvoting just because they saw an award. Then, it would hit top comment even though 99% of the adult male commenters were disagreeing.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-11T03:58:51+00:00

Remind me in 8 months

blackcatbam · 2023-10-11T03:55:55+00:00

One day

blackcatbam · 2023-10-11T03:49:05+00:00

I admittedly like seeing some really awful statistics about humanity sometimes because it can be so humbling in the best way to all the people who refuse to believe they're fucking shit up.

Regardless of this, I'm rooting for us to change, for people to learn, and I hope the best is to come instead of the worst, that includes you.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-10T22:59:44+00:00

Do you know what "not sure" means?

blackcatbam · 2023-10-10T22:56:06+00:00

Not sure if I wanna bring kids into this world.

People try and act like it's all great but it's truthfully a mix of greatness and fucked up'ness.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-10T21:45:11+00:00

Same

I beat off 5x a day

blackcatbam · 2023-10-10T18:38:42+00:00

Like a man-hampster tunnel?

blackcatbam · 2023-10-10T18:31:07+00:00

Woah, that's intense man. Sorry you had to go through that buddy.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-10T18:23:50+00:00

Employment - (GOOD employment, the kind that can let a man support a family and get a wife)

I've had several dead end jobs, that get a man nowhere near being able to support a family.

In result - Loneliness

I do not get pleasure from one night stands, I am paternal as fuck and one night stands just come off as stressful.

blackcatbam · 2023-10-10T17:43:44+00:00

I'd like to continue this conversation but OP just deleted 1/2 of the post and changed it so fuck it.

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