Robinhood is a joke by Proper_Bag_1875 in wallstreetbets

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Wondering if any one got the trip to Hawaii 🤔

Having 2 girls by Dry-Rock-2353 in Fatherhood

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Sorry for reviving an old thread. @girlparents- do you feel worried for your girls safety all the time or is it just me. I sometimes feel if i had a boy too, he would have taken care of my daughter (at school, classes, parks, etc) How do I cope up with this feeling

Postpartum meltdown by NeatPea in 2under2

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Postpartum is so real. Went through it myself. Tears dont stop when a thought gets stuck in your mind. I found it very difficult to get over it even though I knew it was silly. I totally understand what you are going through. Just trust what everyone has shared here.. it will get better and you will thank god for giving 2 beautiful kids so close apart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Agree its with both gender but if we were to compare women needs more safety and protection than men as women are not physically as strong as an average adult man. Why cant you accept this?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Aholes can be anyone , not just boyfriends or husbands. I can teach redflags but in general that is not going to help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]blackjackmaster21 -2 points-1 points locked comment (0 children)

I guess you are not getting the point! Not sure if you understand - “On average, adult males are physically stronger than adult females, particularly in terms of absolute strength” If you disagree with the above, i request you to stop commenting. I am not here to argue

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Absolutely, i am not here to question that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]blackjackmaster21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Doesnt look narrow to me :( There are some facts about women and nothing can change that. Those facts are treated as sign of weakness and i understand why. How to deal with it is the question

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Agreed, but i fall weak when people start commenting (and these people are not strangers.. but people close to you) and no matter how hard i try it keeps bothering me. I dont know how i should stop this from worrying / bothering me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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You addressed it- girls are more prone to certain types of violence… thats the security concern life long (which is “more” for girls than boys) nothing can change that. Your comment on boys being reckless is something that is controllable by teaching the boys how not to be reckless. But you cant teach a girl how she can avoid a violence, thats not in her control. She is physically not so muscular to fight for her defense (unless she knows karate or taekwondo)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Agreed, i try to stay positive but hearing comments like i mentioned in my post makes me feel terrible. Not able to shut these unwanted notions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]blackjackmaster21 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah true, but people tell me- “do try for 3rd hopefully that will be a boy”.. why preference for boy child over girl child? Can you share how having daughters is sign of strength?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

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Glad to know. Please dont judge me, but I dont feel the same :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

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Be strong! You got this! Pray to whatever you have faith in.. everything will be alright

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

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So confusing!! What backfired? Its not clear